Bad Clients

[xyz48B]

Let's accept facts and stop living in an ideal fantasy world.

Or, you know, look at other studies that show that beauty standards are learned preferences and work against prejudices.

[The_Impeccable_G]

Or, you know, look at other studies that show that beauty standards are learned preferences and work against prejudices.

how is ostrichism in Latin?

[xyz48B]

how is ostrichism in Latin?

I have a better question, in terms you may appreciate better: Cur vis similis assino videri?

 

Your inability to see why what you said was offensive says a lot about you. And your further inability to accept that it was offensive after having it pointed out says even more. You might likewise ask why you want to bury your own head in the sand on that matter.

[The_Impeccable_G]

I have a better question, in terms you may appreciate better: Cur vis similis assino videri?

 

Your inability to see why what you said was offensive says a lot about you. And your further inability to accept that it was offensive after having it pointed out says even more. You might likewise ask why you want to bury your own head in the sand on that matter.

I can effortlessly bury my head and my body. It will take tons of sand to bury yours.

[xyz48B]

Meh. More to love. Good thing there’s lots of sand ?

[+ RJD]

I can effortlessly bury my head and my body. It will take tons of sand to bury yours.

 

That’s just uncalled for. Great intro of yourself to this forum.

[+ Vegas_Millennial]

BLM

Big Lives Matter

 

Systemic prejudice is rampant in many levels.

[MikeBiDude]

Seems like any topic starting with “bad” clients/escorts in the title devolves eventually ??‍♂️

I’ll take the goat cheese, pesto, spinach please....

[big-n-tall]

Seems like any topic starting with “bad” clients/escorts in the title devolves eventually ??‍♂️

I’ll take the goat cheese, pesto, spinach please....

Sounds delicious. My current combo fav is extra cheese, red onion, sausage and banana peppers.

[marylander1940]

Seems like any topic starting with “bad” clients/escorts in the title devolves eventually ??‍♂️

I’ll take the goat cheese, pesto, spinach please....

 

I thought @Guy Fawkes was the only with the authority to "offer pizza" on here. ?

[xyz48B]

I thought @Guy Fawkes was the only with the authority to "offer pizza" on here. ?

Is that a special privilege? Or is there a backstory I’m ignorant of?

[ArmyHands]

I have clients book sessions through my site etc... and never show up no Emails / Text / Calls etc.... then month(s) later want to schedule another session.... I just block em.... Today happen again... Client booked a session on June 20th never showed up... now today at 12:30am wants to schedule a session... wow...

[MikeBiDude]

Is that a special privilege? Or is there a backstory I’m ignorant of?

No it’s not a special privilege. Just a code for saying “enough, let’s move on...change the subject” etc.

[Guy Fawkes]

Obviously you thought wrong.

 

I thought @Guy Fawkes was the only with the authority to "offer pizza" on here. ?

[xyz48B]

At the risk of speaking for others, I’m going to say that it seems that the prevalence of “bad clients” is small. We’ve spent a lot of time in this thread talking about what makes for a bad client, but @peterhung85 really was the only escort to say how prevalent they are – and he reports they are rather infrequent over the course of his escorting career.

 

Unless other escorts want to dispute the claim, it seems plain.

 

[Rod Hagen]

I have 21.5 years of escorting under my belt (ha ha), so I know whereof I speak: I can count on one hand with one or two fingers left over, which can be useful , the number of bad clients I’ve been with. And, in those few cases, “bad” is minor, for example one guy was hungover and kept leaving the massage table for the toilet to puke. Not ideal, but not the end of the world.

 

 

Some clarifications, sweat is not unhygienic. Sweat does not smell (google it). Sweat is something that happens to some people, it is not something they are doing on purpose. If you find sweat disgusting that’s you, it’s not an objective truth, and whoever it is who is sweating is not doing it purposely to offend you.

 

 

Another clarification, the body odor that happens to some people in the hours between their daily showers is not objectively disgusting, it’s something that happens and it is not something they are doing to you, to hurt you.

 

 

It’s unfortunate that the discussion about obese men and hygiene became so heated.

 

 

In my sexual life, I’ve been intimate with more than a dozen men over 400 pounds. Maybe two dozen. 98% of these men were fully hygienic for the same reason men who are not severely obese keep themselves clean: they want to be.

 

 

I will say that, although I have been blown away by the flexibility of some of my severely obese partners (legs over their shoulders when I’m fucking them ) it is usually harder for men living with severe obesity to move around. Add to that the knee injury, or what have you, and those men do the best job they can to clean up. I’ve found that older men in wheelchairs, or otherwise impaired significantly, are sometimes in a similar situation. Those men need to be approached by their sexual partners with compassion.

 

 

Long way ‘round saying “bad” client does not mean obese client, and obese client does not mean unhygienic client. Ok, I'm done

[Rod Hagen]

You clearly have no idea what makes a good escort. Hint: It's not a pretty face, 4% body-fat, or big muscles.

 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nOvB9wghBqo:177

 

What a great video. Thank you for posting it.

[Rod Hagen]

But let me also say this, escorts do not have a forum of their own to complain and vent. Complaining and venting, and even exaggerating those complaints, is a healthy thing and unfortunately, when they do it here they are doing it in a place where it can come back to bite them in the ass.

 

If you then ask, "well then, asshole, why don't you all make an escort-only forum?" I would respond, "do your research. It's been done, and it did NOT go well."

[xyz48B]

Why can’t we all get along? For guys who like hiring, some of clients seem skeptical of escorts. And for guys who say they like the work, some of escorts seem to despise clients, potential or otherwise.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

Why can’t we all get along? For guys who like hiring, some of clients seem skeptical of escorts. And for guys who say they like the work, some of escorts seem to despise clients, potential or otherwise.

 

That's rather common. There's a lot of callers out there who don't really treat it as if they like fact of hiring. Almost as if its a chore or shopping. They have to do it, but don't really want to do it. I ain't got time for that.

 

But on the other hand, re: escorts despising clients: I noticed I got a lot of ? to one of my posts. And that's perfectly fine. I don't expect everyone to share my views of doing things. But that's what makes the biz so great: we're not working FOR rentmen. We're not employed by rentmen, clients aren't employing us. The message forum, and daddy's reviews (no disrespect intended) is not employing us.

 

At the end of the day, it's up to us to choose how we deal with and prevent bad clients. And that goes beyond the physical, and may start even before the first message.

[sexymonk]

We all draw a line somewhere. It is up to each provider what they feel comfortable with and what the deal-breakers are.

For me it all comes down to 2 things:

- Manners

- Hygiene

 

...medical conditions I am fine with, as long as it is not a contagious one. Anything that doesn't jeopardize my health is fine. If it is a "cosmetic" issue on the client's behalf, it is truly not a concern of mine. So is being overweight. Connection and chemistry trumps those things.

 

Oh, and did you say NO TEETH? Bring that on!!!!! ?

I agree and always will say health is important and with good health you can enjoy each moment. That being said it is good to be informative, get checked regularly and one shouldn’t neglect ones health state. Also it is good to be upfront about anything that may be of concern. ONE SHOULD GET TESTED REGULARLY !!!!

[sexymonk]

Why can’t we all get along? For guys who like hiring, some of clients seem skeptical of escorts. And for guys who say they like the work, some of escorts seem to despise clients, potential or otherwise.

Human nature and everyone has some preferences! Even animals don’t like everyone! Also we ourselves don’t eat everything and we are picky!!!

[xyz48B]

Clients aren't employing us.

While you are right about all the rest, clients ARE employing you. The same way I employ a plumber. I hire you for a service.

[xyz48B]

@Jarrod_Uncut – You seem antagonistic against Rentmen. Why?

[Milo Farnsworth]

I am not an escort but I had an escort told me that while he had a client at his own house he saw him going through his wallet and told the person to get out now. Now he puts his wallet in a place where no one knows where is at.

I do that as a client. If it's an out call, I leave it in my car.