KensingtonHomo

Many providers do not respond to messages from potential clients. 
Hence, it is not a bad idea to send out "bids" or inquiries to multiple providers in hopes that one will respond.  
 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

I saw him today. Such a nice guy. Great technique and the extras (which were included) were delightful. He's very handsome, so don't let the lack of pics dissuade you. 

I saw him today. Such a nice guy. Great technique and the extras (which were included) were delightful. He's very handsome, so don't let the lack of pics dissuade you. 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

This is craziness. If I see a provider I know on an app, I would assume he's either there for his personal reasons or drumming up business. Either way, I wouldn't expect him to hook up with me for free (unless he specifically offered that), just as I don't do my profession for free. 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

I think some are being a little bit judgy...

Not all grown-ups react the same way or do the right thing whatever that is in each circumstance.
Not a good idea for any of us to start casting stones. Coulda woulda shoulda... 

As a native Brooklynite, we don't consider people who moved here to live in Manhattan to be actual New Yorkers.  

This. One reason I don't spend much time chasing high priced visitors is because they apparently think that if they're worth that much money, they're better than everyone else.
And they brag a lot, which is a bone killer for me. I still recall a guy who got some photos published,  so he thought of himself as a professional model. I kept my mouth shut as to his probable career prospects. 

Taking nothing away from Ben, but I think your concept of "average" is quite removed from what "average" male bodies actually constitute in modern day North America, where over 60 percent are either overweight or obese. Blame the North American diet and lack of exercise, the major contributors to this other pandemic.
Scott has a nice slim body well proportioned to his height. And is well endowed where it counts. As I said before, the reason we didn't have a 5 star experience the first time was that we were both tired. My fault for contacting him at the late hour I did.

I couldn't agree with you more. Unfortunately several members cheered him up in his wise decision. 

That's borderline sexual assault. Consent to blow someone is not consent to swallow. 

That's borderline sexual assault. Consent to blow someone is not consent to swallow. 

I personally don’t initiate on the first meeting. He’s either brought it up before like “light mutual touching is ok” and from there maybe he’ll create a situation of contact. Can’t hurt to ask if unsure, at the point where it seems organic for you. 
Look for guys with dual profiles, and really read the massage page, training and experience will be described and enumerated in profile. Do 60m massage first time, keep convo and meeting discreet. (Similar to first meetup for coffee rather than dinner and a show. $$)
Say you click. If you want more, ask to schedule another visit for the extended or more mutual service, telling him you’re aware of the higher rate, and you’ll already have some sort of rapport. Tip well regardless of massage quality, though. At the very least you get a massage and a handjob, don’t make him remember you as cheap if you want to call again. 🤣

I have an aversion to escorts that add VIP to their usernames.  
Don't quite know why that's a thing.  🤔

I don't think you need to be that embarrassed. I've told guys they're sexy or hot or whatever. Maybe it was a bit excessive but I think most people have had a moment where they were taken in by someone's sex appeal. I'm also sure you feel like you said it way more times than you actually did. 

Unfortunately to most clients the point of getting a masseur is paying less to get off.
 

I see a lot of masseuses will offer a tiered package offering of a therapeutic, sensual, or erotic massage for 60 min, 90 min, or two hours. So if you're that client booking a one hour therapeutic massage and then trying for oral and cum that's pretty low and cheap I agree. Just pony up if you know you are going to want to go further and get the two hour erotic session. 

My friend got more than he asked for when he was getting a massage in one of the asian massage parlors in Chelsea. He was so engrossed with sucking off the masseur, that after the massage and for a few week's after that, he suffered from a "stiff" hyperextended neck. His bf at home was not amused. I guess it's better than bringing home an STD. 

In my experience if a provider is pressing his naked dick against your face I think it’s safe to say you can suck it.
I’m pretty up front about asking the provider the “do’s/don’ts” before we even meet just so there’s no confusion. 

Managed to find a 90 minute slot when we were both available.  More than worth it.  His massage will be a standard against which future massages will be measured.

I'm a big believer in consent and being upfront. So I will ask a new provider what an erotic massage includes, including "can I blow you?" If it's not been discussed up front, you can simply ask "may I suck you?" But doing it that way may make the provider feel pressured so I think it's best to be upfront. Also, if you really want that as part of your experience, you want a provider who includes that. 

Are you trying to get extras off the clock? Time is money friend
If it were me I’d say something like, “I’d like to book 120 min - a 90 min massage with 30 min of relaxing and cuddling afterwards. Is that something you’d provide?”

This. Ask for what you want, don’t expect it to happen by chance. Book the time with him.