KensingtonHomo

I do enjoy the face fucking. 

I learned how to do that in high school. 

Prioritize his clients’ needs over his own … and stop being an ugly racist.

So here's the thing.  I have been on here a long time. I have hired a ton of guys and even turned many into actually friendships and relationships. I'm saying that because I know my way around to prove a point.  Look at my posting history -- I never say bad things about one particular escort. 
But this guy, Stud Hassan. He's fucking hot as hell but stay away. He likes big, older, daddy types. That's his natural type which I think has been discussed here plenty before and he may even mention in some of this profile(s). 

If you're that type and you don't want to see him regularly or disengage or stop paying, he gets very possessive and needy. He has constantly texted me years after we hooked up again.  I finally got a text tonight from him saying he would be in my area and against my better judgement, I was 1) kind of in the mood, and 2) wasn't talking to anyone else at the time and have/had free time.  But then it just turned sour so I blocked his phone number. 

I went on Rent Men and sent this to him in a private message.... if he replies, I will probably just block him there too. 
"I just blocked your number but want to say one last thing so listen VERY CLOSELY: I was the one paying you. This was a business transaction. If I wanted more I would ask and invite. I have no problem getting laid big some of the hottest guys on the planet for free, and I have an entire network of friends and connections I can text with that keeps my time more than full. You don't get to text me, and then when I engage and ask questions, deflect or say, and I quote: "You don't get to ask questions lol"  -- YES, I DO. I was hiring you for something at the time. You're not needed anymore. Know your place. " So that's my experience with him in mid Sept 2025. 
For the record, I hired him ONE TIME back in 2022. 

Pics please.

She only took it for really bad hangovers. 

If the masseur advertises sensual massage, there’s a good chance there will be an HE.  He’s going to touch you in areas therapeutic-only masseurs don’t.  In my view, getting me all hot and bothered and *not* finishing the job would be cruel.  He might allow some MT but don’t expect much beyond that.  I’ve hired for massages off of both Rentmasseur and Masseurfinder and it’s a crapshoot what you’re going to get.  I’ve been topped, bottomed, sucked, and fucked by guys I’ve found on both of them.  For me, the not knowing is what makes it fun.  If guaranteed sex is the main goal, hire an escort, not a masseur.

If there's a will there's a way...
Some people could be problematic and upset to the point of sounding childish if you don't happen to be free exactly when it's convenient for them
 

From my POV as a client, who has a busy life, I generally include the day and time I’m looking for - it’s generally a 3-4 hour window. If that doesn’t work, I have to move on. And we have 2-3 providers that we have great chemistry with so usually one is free. We also generally plan several days to a couple of weeks in advance. Some providers tell me to reach out the day before. I don’t do that unless it’s a regular. 

From my POV as a client, who has a busy life, I generally include the day and time I’m looking for - it’s generally a 3-4 hour window. If that doesn’t work, I have to move on. And we have 2-3 providers that we have great chemistry with so usually one is free. We also generally plan several days to a couple of weeks in advance. Some providers tell me to reach out the day before. I don’t do that unless it’s a regular. 

I do enjoy the face fucking. 

I'm totally fine with a provider not posting his face pics. Some guys do this as a side hustle, some are in relationships, etc. 
But if I'm not attracted to someone's face, I'm not going to be interested. That said, I'm happy to do a video call if that's the provider's preference. As long as there's some way to see the provider before we set the appointment. 

From my POV as a client, who has a busy life, I generally include the day and time I’m looking for - it’s generally a 3-4 hour window. If that doesn’t work, I have to move on. And we have 2-3 providers that we have great chemistry with so usually one is free. We also generally plan several days to a couple of weeks in advance. Some providers tell me to reach out the day before. I don’t do that unless it’s a regular. 

When hiring for massage (more likely for me now) the face is irrelevant, because my eyes will be closed. Eye contact is nice when I first arrive and we chat, but once my clothes are off, and I'm face in the cradle, I'm not real chatty, and just listen to his hands do the talking. 

Not sure if this relates, but in my experience Haddock is not as moist as Cod, and not as firm as Halibut. 

Similar to most here, no face pics on the profile is fine long as i get them in a DM/text or a video call. But i absolutely would not meet a provider who wants it to be a totally anonymous meetup where you don't see their face till you get there. I don't think that's common anyway though.

But those faces look quite contorted, with gag-induced tears and extremely flushed complexion, not so representative of resting face. 

Considering my preferences, I would prefer a back or top  of the head shot rather than a face shot 

Yes, a provider's reply definitely makes a difference. Do they reply in a reasonable amount of time? Is their response friendly? Does it answer my initial questions? Of the responses you received, I would agree with how you ranked them. 

As an initial response to @soloyo215 query, this is a LOT. I'm the first to leap to providers' defense, but this and the rest of your response read as entitled and out of touch. Nearly every person who has a customer-facing job - especially one where you're a solo practitioner (hairdressers, make-up artists, realtors, salespeople) deals with some unserious inquiries. If I'm looking to rent an apartment or book a massage, I may reach out to a few providers to see who fits my schedule and budget. That is not wasting your time. That is an initial inquiry to see if it's worth moving ahead. 
Now, I rarely reach out to a provider looking for an appointment on the same day. I'm generally planning several days, sometimes a couple of weeks in advance. And often providers don't want to commit that far in advance. I'm also not masturbating to their pics at any point. As someone who also texts people and fields inquiries at times, I also have standard replies. It would take me under 20 seconds to copy a standard reply from my Notes app to iMessage. So, if you receive five inquiries in a day, you're spending 2-3 minutes total replying to those initial texts. That's not a lot of time to vet clients when you're charging $400 to $500/hour. 
 

Sorry, this just doesn't comport with the providers on here, not anonymously, say. Nor does it reflect what the providers I see regularly say about their business. Are we expected to believe you get hundreds of texts a day? That you spend hours responding to them? I feel like you're overstating your case, and you came in real hot on a thread where no one did anything wrong. 
That said, I don't think anyone should waste anyone's time, nor do I think (honestly, it wouldn't even occur to me) that guys should be texting or calling a provider to get their jollies off. That's disrespectful and also just fucking weird. Like go on Pornhub, bro. 

As an initial response to @soloyo215 query, this is a LOT. I'm the first to leap to providers' defense, but this and the rest of your response read as entitled and out of touch. Nearly every person who has a customer-facing job - especially one where you're a solo practitioner (hairdressers, make-up artists, realtors, salespeople) deals with some unserious inquiries. If I'm looking to rent an apartment or book a massage, I may reach out to a few providers to see who fits my schedule and budget. That is not wasting your time. That is an initial inquiry to see if it's worth moving ahead. 
Now, I rarely reach out to a provider looking for an appointment on the same day. I'm generally planning several days, sometimes a couple of weeks in advance. And often providers don't want to commit that far in advance. I'm also not masturbating to their pics at any point. As someone who also texts people and fields inquiries at times, I also have standard replies. It would take me under 20 seconds to copy a standard reply from my Notes app to iMessage. So, if you receive five inquiries in a day, you're spending 2-3 minutes total replying to those initial texts. That's not a lot of time to vet clients when you're charging $400 to $500/hour. 
 

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Sorry, this just doesn't comport with the providers on here, not anonymously, say. Nor does it reflect what the providers I see regularly say about their business. Are we expected to believe you get hundreds of texts a day? That you spend hours responding to them? I feel like you're overstating your case, and you came in real hot on a thread where no one did anything wrong. 
That said, I don't think anyone should waste anyone's time, nor do I think (honestly, it wouldn't even occur to me) that guys should be texting or calling a provider to get their jollies off. That's disrespectful and also just fucking weird. Like go on Pornhub, bro.