AntSuck Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 A masseur I’ve seen before is coming to town, and the last couple times I’ve seen him we had a great connection and I stayed a while after the massage was over, kissing and generally messing around. Would it be inappropriate to ask if I’ll be his last client of the night, so that I know I’ll have time to fool around with him afterward? Any help is appreciated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rand Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Curious as well Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kevin Slater Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 It's really none of your business how many clients he has and when. And just because he doesn't have another client doesn't mean that he doesn't have other time commitments. You can always give the fooling around a shot and he'll let you know whether he has time or not. Or better yet, book a longer session. Kevin Slater + nycman, Bluefin, kingsley88 and 10 others 8 3 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ 7829V Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Just ask him what are his business hours. And book the latest time AntSuck and LaCapGuy87 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Client1985 Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 When scheduling ask to be his last appointment. Most massuers have set hours. Don't have any expectations. Communicate what you enjoy. Don't be upset if there are additonal charges. Tip generously; your next encounter will be enhanced! Kevin Slater and needbodywork 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bluefin Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Are you trying to get extras off the clock? Time is money friend If it were me I’d say something like, “I’d like to book 120 min - a 90 min massage with 30 min of relaxing and cuddling afterwards. Is that something you’d provide?” Client1985, Rand, harlow and 3 others 4 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 33 minutes ago, Bluefin said: Are you trying to get extras off the clock? Time is money friend If it were me I’d say something like, “I’d like to book 120 min - a 90 min massage with 30 min of relaxing and cuddling afterwards. Is that something you’d provide?” This. Ask for what you want, don’t expect it to happen by chance. Book the time with him. + KensingtonHomo, Kevin Slater and harlow 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AntSuck Posted May 2, 2022 Author Share Posted May 2, 2022 Thanks for the replies everyone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
needbodywork Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 Yes, as always it's best to communicate expectations ahead of time. A lot of sensual/erotic masseurs will see several clients a day. Maybe 3, maybe 5-6. They may be tired at the end of their workday or they may have a vanilla lover waiting for them after (boyfriend, fwb, or just a random hookup). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
harlow Posted May 2, 2022 Share Posted May 2, 2022 I never ask any questions along those lines and I only hang around after my session if I'm invited to do so. Rand 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
510guy Posted May 3, 2022 Share Posted May 3, 2022 Out of casual conversation (I can be chatty) I asked him what was his plans for rest of evening. He asked me as well and I said I was grabbing dinner. He asked if he could come too so we ended up having dinner. But I wasn't asking out of any expectation, just as casual conversation Rand 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Client1985 Posted May 3, 2022 Share Posted May 3, 2022 2 hours ago, 510guy said: Out of casual conversation (I can be chatty) I asked him what was his plans for rest of evening. He asked me as well and I said I was grabbing dinner. He asked if he could come too so we ended up having dinner. But I wasn't asking out of any expectation, just as casual conversation Was there an exoectation that you'd pay for dinner? needbodywork 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
510guy Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 6 hours ago, Client1985 said: Was there an exoectation that you'd pay for dinner? No there wasn't. He expected we split the bill but I ended up paying for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Client1985 Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 True gentleman. I would have done the same thing. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 I do try and be as specific and direct as possible. Not all providers are comfortable discussing these things via text, so I generally discuss it when I arrive. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ EVdude Posted May 4, 2022 Share Posted May 4, 2022 On 5/2/2022 at 4:54 PM, Jamie21 said: Book the time with him. As I’ve posted previously, nothing like booking a late session at a spa and having that whisper in your ear “excuse me a moment while I go lock the front door.” rc222 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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