KensingtonHomo

1 hour ago, Typical said:

If you wish to admire and touch his great body, go for it!  If you want a massage, look elsewhere. 

Some of us like both. 

5 minutes ago, BonVivant said:

Not your problem is it? Enjoy him!

He's not remotely my type. 

I really appreciate @Simon Suraci thoughtful and honest post. We have had two providers who alerted us following a session that they tested positive for an STI. In both cases, our response was similar to Simon's client. We're Gen X and used to testing for HIV and having the sharing of that information be urgent. 

So we are always grateful for providers being honest. We keep it to ourselves of course. And we've never actually had an STI from a provider. 

10 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Bisexuals like sex with guys.

That's the DEFINITION of bisexual.

Don't mistake gay4pay for "bisexual".

 

I agree. And I've been with many true bi or even pansexuals. But I think some providers who are Kinsey 1 or 2s advertise themselves as "bi" and then don't want to go "whole hog." That then makes some guys feel like "bi guys are phonies." 

21 hours ago, guru68 said:

Bold to have a tattoo right under his Adam's apple - I wonder how long before he regrets having done that? If his Instagram is to be believe, he's certainly well-traveled. 

I'm very tattoo positive but his says "young" - how long will that be valid? 

10 hours ago, Proximusss said:

I wish I could. I don’t know how people aren’t embarrassed to bring someone back to their place if it’s disgusting, especially if they plan on getting intimate. I’ve heard some real horror stories on this which is why I ensure nobody who comes to my place has a terrible experience. It’s a case of treating people how I would like to be treated. 

I have an ongoing joke with my husband about how I clean for providers like my mother's coming over. I am 100% doing too much, but I can't help it. 

Yeah - I can understand a bit of Face Tune - I do it myself - but this is too much. 

And his butt isn't natural either, which is perfectly fine, but I also wonder if that's been digitally enhanced. 

I generally worry that so many people from Hollywood to our friends constantly using tech to upgrade their appearance is going to destroy our self esteem. 

I'd check his ID. Still looks like jail bait. 

22 hours ago, rvwnsd said:

When writing reviews, I include the rate I paid without the tip. 

I had been doing that but then other guys were like "you should include the tip", so I've started doing that. 

On 4/2/2024 at 8:11 AM, pubic_assistance said:

I've noticed that too. Quite weird.

It seems like a Millenial/Gen Z thing - I think they believe it's sexy. 

One of my current favorite providers is bi. We've had no issues with him being passionate or kissing. I do think you run a bigger risk with bi guys having more limits than a gay guy, but I also agree with others that perhaps you've been unlucky. 

31 minutes ago, ShortCutie7 said:

My thoughts exactly, and the main reason I’ve only had two hookups in the last year (one escort, one via Grindr).  I have become increasingly terrified of STIs since the pandemic, and despite having never barebacked in my life (and barely fucked at all), I’m reluctant to start using condoms for oral.  And on top of things, I’m a makeout monster (can’t fathom having a hookup without heavy kissing), and back when I was hooking up with slightly more regularity, I would get strep throat at least once a year… lord knows what I would get now.

But COVID hasn't made STIs more plentiful or different. Gonorrhea is indeed becoming treatment-resistant, which is a concern, but if you're working with guys who are careful about their health, you're probably going to be fine. We've had two instances in the past five years where a provider contacted us to say they tested positive for an STI. So we went and got tested. Neither time did we have the STI. 

Now, I'm an anxious person, so I understand that fear is irrational, but I think the odds are in your favor. 

So you had this amazing experience and won’t tell us who it is? 😬

8 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

And almost nobody discusses or acknowledges contracting an STI.  Honestly, this is my biggest hangup about sex.  

I don’t know much about you, but the providers we see are open about their STI history. 

I have friends that speak openly about STI scares. We’ve had a couple of scares but haven’t had one yet. 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

I saw him today. He’s absolutely wonderful. His massage was strong, sensual and engaging. He’s very sweet and as far as extras go, they were well incorporated and unique. Some of the massage positions particularly with my legs and butt were novel to me. For me, the best sensual/erotic masseurs manage to seamlessly incorporate the erotic elements into the massage itself. Wagner really excels at that. 

He looks as good or better than his photos. If you like thick, muscular, and furry guys, you’ll love him.

I did 60 minutes but next time I see him, I’ll go for 90. 

I just did this for the first time with a provider I see pretty regularly. It was post-massage and his suggestion. It wasn't super involved but we did wash each other, which was nice. 

1 hour ago, Trick said:

The feedback I got was that he asked for MUF and then left.

Yeah… I’d have canceled too. 

He’s not my type but he’s been around a while. Have you searched for previous threads?

15 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Truly bisexual men who have been with women learn that mechanical sex will never keep a woman..so most of the bisexual men I've been with were better in bed. Never mechanical.

I have been with gay men (providers and not) who were mechanical in bed and bi guys who were great in bed and vice versa. 

21 minutes ago, Trick said:

It’s tomorrow night 

That's more than sufficient time for them to book someone else. 

When is the appointment? If you're giving 24 hours notice or more, there's nothing for them to get the claws out about. 

On 5/3/2024 at 12:21 PM, FrankR said:

Wait…I am lost. Who is Kevin?🤔

Same. I have no idea. 

7 minutes ago, Archangel said:

A potential client who has a whole block of time open asking a provider when is good shouldn’t be a problem. If the provider says pick a time, pick a time. The provider better be ready for whatever time though. The reason the client asked about when was because his time is open but if he suggests 8:00 pm, the provider shouldn’t say he can’t then. “Pick a time” suggests wide-open availability. 

I agree with this. I generally do provide a time or a window especially when I'm traveling. And if the provider isn't available, I move on. 

But if a provider says they're wide open and then declines one or two times you offer, that's a wrap for me. 

We average once a month with escorts and a bit more for massage. And it's a mix of regular guys and then new guys. 

3 hours ago, Walt said:

Not to say that some people don't understand the meaning of words, but if you you say you're not doing something -- and then you do it, you have actually done what you've said you weren't going to do. It's true!

Unlike many others who I will not tag or name, I rarely comment on providers’ appearance or desirability. And what I said was he’s not for me. I hope you find the time to call out all the posts saying providers are fat, ugly, old, etc. 🙄