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I’ve had a handful of massage guys who would do a little more sexually with each subsequent visit as they got more comfortable with me

I’m always amazed at the reaction I get from escorts when I request condom use and the tell me it’s unnecessary since they’re on PREP. It’s not just HIV that concerns me, it’s all the other STD’s and communicable stuff that have yet to be identified. All it takes is just one bad day….

I told the story here before that years ago I was walking to Starbucks and on the sidewalk was a chalked ad for the LGBT center's PREP campaign:  "Fuck without fear"  I Was so angry I went to their clinic and started balling them out, of course starting out with "I know it's not you personally who created that ad, but there is an antibiotic resistant Gonorrhea problem going round and that ad around town...." and then going off.  

I’m getting very irritated with reduced housekeeping services when I stay in a hotel! 

I had two dogs over the years, but I never considered getting another once I retired. My reason is that I like to travel and nowadays I have extended stays overseas.
I thought @EZEtoGRU that you too travelled extensively? Are you planning to take the dog with you on various trips? Will the dog enjoy visiting the sauna in Brazil with you? 😎

I’m always amazed at the reaction I get from escorts when I request condom use and the tell me it’s unnecessary since they’re on PREP. It’s not just HIV that concerns me, it’s all the other STD’s and communicable stuff that have yet to be identified. All it takes is just one bad day….

I have one along with the head pillow. I’d file it in the category of “nice but so what…” The head pillow is a total fail but the mat feels good. If you want one, come and take mine.

I’m always amazed at the reaction I get from escorts when I request condom use and the tell me it’s unnecessary since they’re on PREP. It’s not just HIV that concerns me, it’s all the other STD’s and communicable stuff that have yet to be identified. All it takes is just one bad day….

BIG difference between losing your job as a cashier and choosing not to let you dump in my ass with a load of HIV.
Sorry.
That said....the likelihood of people being honest in general is low. So YOU need to navigate your own health decisions. Wear a condom.

To add... I've never asked an escort about their testing status or their meds.  I take responsibility for my actions, not theirs.

I view future travel dates as just market research. It’s not real until they actually show up in your city

Pass. I gave up all alcohol years ago. Haven’t missed it. 
 
When I was 27 I had too much to drink and fell asleep one night while driving home. I survived without a scratch but the car didn’t. That was enough for me to quit forever. No one else got injured and I really dodged a huge bullet.

Pass. I gave up all alcohol years ago. Haven’t missed it. 
 
When I was 27 I had too much to drink and fell asleep one night while driving home. I survived without a scratch but the car didn’t. That was enough for me to quit forever. No one else got injured and I really dodged a huge bullet.

Pass. I gave up all alcohol years ago. Haven’t missed it. 
 
When I was 27 I had too much to drink and fell asleep one night while driving home. I survived without a scratch but the car didn’t. That was enough for me to quit forever. No one else got injured and I really dodged a huge bullet.

Pass. I gave up all alcohol years ago. Haven’t missed it. 
 
When I was 27 I had too much to drink and fell asleep one night while driving home. I survived without a scratch but the car didn’t. That was enough for me to quit forever. No one else got injured and I really dodged a huge bullet.

I view future travel dates as just market research. It’s not real until they actually show up in your city

Frankly, I’d rather see a popular provider in their home city where their every minute is not so tightly scheduled. Seeing busy providers somehow doesn’t sound like it would be as much fun

When you are selfish and do not care for others, why should others love you and take care of you? It is sad how some posters generalize their miseries to everyone.
I have an extended family. Every single elder has been taken care of. My mother, 85 y.o., is the last living matriarch in one of my family brunches, and not only myself and my siblings are making sure she has a happy and safe life, but also an army of cousins. I have many friends back in Argentina who have not abandoned their elders. And it is not a cultural thing. I have several friends here in the US, who care deeply for their parents in their 80s. 
I do believe that we reap what we saw. 

I view future travel dates as just market research. It’s not real until they actually show up in your city

Why would you feel you'd have to tell a provider they're choice #2. Completely unnecessary. Zip it 😉

My tastes are constantly evolving and changing. As a client, what I wanted 6 months ago might be very different to what I may want today

My tastes are constantly evolving and changing. As a client, what I wanted 6 months ago might be very different to what I may want today

A regular and I text a lot (with gaps at times, it can be feast or famine) about all sorts of shit. Today he sent me a photo of his Christmas grocery shopping (we'd been discussing supermarket bonus points of all things) and then of the ham, and pork roast in his fridge. Totally normal, lol. Then every so often one of him lifting weights or a dick pic.

I just send them a Christmas tip on one of their apps. Money is always welcome. But it's only for providers I've been seeing for at least several years.
I only do this for regulars who lock me in on their rates when I first hired them. One hand washes the other.

A bottle of wine!