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Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

You did a good deed. 
It will someday come back to you in delayed karma, but not from your provider.
Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on.  He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.

You did a good deed. 
It will someday come back to you in delayed karma, but not from your provider.
Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on.  He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.

Start now with some good life habits, so you’ll avoid looking bad later.  For ex, hire a personal trainer.  Eat right.  If you’re worried about hair loss, acti now to prevent (further) lass.  Control your alcohol intake.   

Why are you willingly subjecting yourself to family on an expensive retreat?  That’s not a vacation by any definition.
Sounds like it’s time for some new family rules .
If you have to do family dwell time, do it somewhere more pedestrian, like a city where you can more easily find ways to separate…like NYC or DC. 

DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser.
Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.

Why are you willingly subjecting yourself to family on an expensive retreat?  That’s not a vacation by any definition.
Sounds like it’s time for some new family rules .
If you have to do family dwell time, do it somewhere more pedestrian, like a city where you can more easily find ways to separate…like NYC or DC. 

You did a good deed. 
It will someday come back to you in delayed karma, but not from your provider.
Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on.  He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.

DoxyPep use will inevitably result in more antibiotic resistant STI’s. It’s a longtime loser.
Im always surprised at how much pushback I get from people when I insist on condom use.

I might have responded…”No, just looking for a different kind of asshole.”

You did a good deed. 
It will someday come back to you in delayed karma, but not from your provider.
Stop banging your head against a fake wall on this one. Give up trying to contact him and move on.  He defines “ingratitude “ and doesn’t deserve your further attention.

I must admit that I don't particularly care or pay much attention if a provider describes themselves as Bi or gay. However, if they label themselves as straight, then I'm not interested. I can't recall having had a genuinely good encounter with someone who identified as straight.

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

I might have responded…”No, just looking for a different kind of asshole.”

I might have responded…”No, just looking for a different kind of asshole.”

I might have responded…”No, just looking for a different kind of asshole.”

I might have responded…”No, just looking for a different kind of asshole.”

I might have responded…”No, just looking for a different kind of asshole.”

I think it’s strange that some commentators view bi as being ‘not really into guys’ or somehow ‘gay lite’. I’m bi and I love playing with guys, including kissing and all sorts of activities (I’m vers) that some seem to think of as gay only. I also love playing with females, indeed even better is playing with both at same time. I don’t regard one as better or more fun than the other, they’re just different. If the person or persons I’m with are relaxed about sex and open minded then it’s always a great session. 
I agree that if you come across a guy who describes himself as bi but who lists fairly vanilla activities with guys that he won’t do then that’s probably a signal that he is probably more straight but there’s also gay providers who won’t kiss for example, so orientation is not a good predictor I think.
I think it’s best to not put too much interpretation on how a guy describes himself and look more at what he will do and other signs about whether he’s doing the work because he genuinely enjoys it or is he doing it because he has to. The former should be the providers you prioritise, regardless of their stated sexual orientation. 

 

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code

Sounds like you are a victim of sampling error. I’ve met plenty of gay guys who suck at kissing…and plenty of bi guys who were definitely up to code