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I tip my massage guy 25%. Every time I see him he does a little more and adds a little extra time to the session. You get what you pay for.

I work hard for you

I totally enjoyed getting massaged by you this summer when I visited London. If you were planning to come to my city I would definitely love to hear from you for a redo

I totally enjoyed getting massaged by you this summer when I visited London. If you were planning to come to my city I would definitely love to hear from you for a redo

I work hard for you

I work hard for you

I've used the "Burner" APP (I'm referring to the APP, not a Burner phone) for years with complete satisfaction. What I like best is that you can change your number every month - and can choose whatever area code you want - this is good if you're visiting somewhere and want to use the local area code (it probably doesn't matter but I'm thinking that local escorts might be more responsive to someone in their own area code?).
I pay per year which currently is $90. Yes, you must give them your current mobile phone number (they must have your phone number so that Burner can use your phone to complete calls) - but there's never been a privacy issue in the 5 or 6 years I've been using Burner.  And, obviously, you must give them your name and address to pay for their services.
When you use the Burner number to call someone you dial the number and then you receive a screen message that says "HEADS UP - We'll hide your number by calling your Burner first." Then, your Burner will call (the number you're calling)" -- you have to choose "OK" - and then Burner will call the number. The person you call ONLY sees your Burner number on his screen.
If you receive a call on your Burner number, your screen will tell you that someone is calling your Burner number - and then you have to press "OK" to receive the call. 
Hope this helps you decide. I like Burner and recommend it without reservations. 

Thanks for that heads up. You saved a lot of us a few dollars

A person who smokes cigars. Dealbreaker. 

Nipple piercings. I don't like any piercings at all, but something about nipple piercings in particular really drains any desire I have for a guy.

Not sure if this is irrational, but … bottoms faking being turned on while they are getting fucked. Ugh.
 
This is why I generally only watch amateur porn. 99% of the time bottoms are over acting during collab/OF/studio porn. 

Nose rings and other facial jewelry.

….and when you ask you don’t always get an actionable answer….

Yes you are crazy to pay $500 upfront. NYC is filled with fabulous locals and visitors who won’t require such an upfront commitment. 

Yes you are crazy to pay $500 upfront. NYC is filled with fabulous locals and visitors who won’t require such an upfront commitment. 

Occasionally, I'll run into a provider who looks better than their pictures.
I don't have many problems with catfishes either. I've been lucky...knock on wood.

The police have other priorities, like pardoning sex traffickers 

The police have other priorities, like pardoning sex traffickers 

The police have other priorities, like pardoning sex traffickers 

The police have other priorities, like pardoning sex traffickers 

There are two categories of providers being discussed here, escorts and masseurs. I mostly engage escorts so will keep my remarks centred on the escort experience. 
Conversation is important to me as I hire top tier escorts and like to have a boyfriend session rather than a wham bang and thank you ma’am. When I hire someone of different cultural background, I usually try to talk about their origins and what it is like in their country of origin. 
 
These convos make the experience much richer for me and broaden my understanding of the world generally. 

Conversation is like kissing and ass-eating.
Impossible on your own, never a given in hiring, and totally dependent on chemistry. 

Whenever I travel for conferences, I always try to sample the local wares. The hotels are nearly always full of other attendees and maybe some colleagues. I try to get my room separate from anyone I know. I may set up the meeting during events, like the “networking cocktail parties.” If I have to meet him downstairs, I ask him to look professional and am fully dressed myself. I often wait outside. I will greet him with a handshake and make small talk as we head to the room. Sometimes I carry my laptop. No one needs to know that my hand is on his ass in the elevator. 

Time is money. Hiring an escort cuts to the chase at your convenience

I am more likely to hire someone with a more buff physique…but that doesn’t mean that I would be disposed to pay a premium for it