Jamie21

Me too. Clients sometimes use them when I’m fucking them and whilst I don’t mind others using poppers I don’t like catching a whiff of them. I never understood the attraction or what they do for you. Probably because like someone else said in the thread, I had a guy accidentally spill some in my eye while he was fucking me. The funny thing was he didn’t notice and took my signs of discomfort as encouragement to fuck harder.

I think it’s very possible to perform a sexual act if you’re not attracted to the other party. I’m able to find attraction in the client I’m with even if they’re not the kind of client I’d normally be instantly attracted to. That’s the essence of doing sex work; the ability to make a connection with all sorts of different people and find what’s attractive about them. My point is that if you’re a sex worker who likes to choose only clients you find attractive then you’re not really a sex worker, you’re just getting paid in your sex life. A true sex worker will accept all clients and make them all feel attractive and valued. I see clients who are disabled for example. I know some providers who refused to see them because they’re not attractive enough. That’s their choice of course but I’d say they’re not doing a great job.

If you’re being picky about your clients on the basis of their age (18+), body type, ethnicity or any other similar reason then you’re not a proper escort. I’m not picky about my clients, I don’t want a picture or description to book. I mainly do massage (sexual style) and all I ask is to be healthy for massage and sober / not on drugs.

All I need is “hello are you available on day / time for x hours please?”. Then I can say yes / no or offer an alternative time and usually within an exchange or two the session is booked. I don’t need any personal details such as body type, age or definitely no pics. None of those things are relevant (as long as the client is over 18). If clients want to send any specific requirements that’s fine and when confirming their session and sending the address I always invite them to make any special requests. The issue is that I much prefer to engage with clients by text of WhatsApp once they’ve already decided to hire me. All my details (and an FAQ, even a demo video) are on my website (sensualtouchco.com 🙂) so I think there’s sufficient information there to make a decision. I’ve not got the time or inclination to engage in long message chats and sending pics and describing my cock and what I do etc to persuade someone to book. Some clients think they need to be young and fit etc or they won’t get a reply. That’s wrong, honestly I’m not concerned what you’re like physically whatsoever (except that you’re fit for the session as in no injuries or medical conditions that preclude massage /sex) so I don’t need pics or descriptions. As @TylerGrovesNYC said the messages that start with “sup”, “pic” or “hey, you available now?” are either time wasters or not my type of client. I can spot them immediately, they never book.

If you want to watch good action then hire an escort and ask him to recommend the other escort he’d work with. You’ll get a couple who are genuinely into each other. If I’m hired to work with another guy then I much prefer to choose the guy I work with (as long as the client is also happy with who I choose, after all they are the customer). That way our client gets a pair who are really into each other and it’s a better show.

Location matters I think. I wouldn’t book a cheap hotel to see a client because it doesn’t fit with my brand (I know it’s pretentious to call it a brand but you know what I mean I hope). I try to provide a quality service and a cheap hotel just wouldn’t fit the experience. My studio where I do in calls is comfortable, clean and tidy. I just couldn’t see clients if there was my day to day stuff lying around. The temperature, lighting, cleanliness, sounds and smells of the room can all add or detract from the overall experience. So for me, it definitely matters. I’ve done out calls to clients home and there’s been various distractions…froM their dog snoring in the room (or barking outside to try and come in), to their family running around upstairs (yes, really…) to having to remove piles of unwashed clothes from the bed before we used it. Honestly it’s not easy to work in those environments….especially the family upstairs situation. If I’m booked to go back then I make a suggestion that maybe they’d like to visit me instead.

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I would add that there’s absolutely nothing wrong with being a prostitute. As long as it’s done without coercion, with compassion and lawfully then I don’t think the prejudice that is loaded with the word is fair on the job. I prefer to use the term sex worker which is broader and seems to have less ‘baggage’. I describe myself as sex worker. It really involves skills in working with people and understanding their sexual and intimacy needs. There’s nothing wrong with that. I’d say society would be a lot better if everyone had a better understanding of their needs and desires around sex.

I met a client on a naked beach in Mykonos. He recognised me as I walked along the the edge of the water (not sure if it was my cock or my face he recognised first). He was with his husband (I was with a friend, a former client…). It was an awkward discussion at first because I didn’t like to say anything about how we knew each other as we talked. My client later messaged me to say his husband knew he’d hired me. I guess he’d sensed my reluctance to discuss much.

Talk about it with him and price it at your normal rate less a bit given the nature of the barter. I’ve done professional exchange for services in the past; I did a massage for a photographer who took some professional shots for me. It worked well. The worst that could happen is he says no.

It sounds like you did the right thing by leaving. He’s not professional or respectful if he sees clients in that state. I guess when you chatted to him he wasn’t high but when you turned up he was. That’s no state to provide a good service. You probably shouldn’t have paid him anything but I understand in the situation you had to get out. Put it down to experience and maybe do a bit more due diligence on your chosen provider (although I’m not sure what else you could have done in that situation). I’m tempted to say you should provide a review on here or Rentmen but perhaps contact him with your complaints and see what he says before posting a review. Give him the opportunity to explain how he was in that state and the opportunity to apologise.

Reminds me of a time I was in the wrong hotel 😂….client insisted he was in the lobby looking for me, and I insisted I was in the lobby looking for him. Both texting each other with ever more elaborate instructions about where we were. Yet neither of us could see each other. I was thinking he’s a time waster and I was being strung along. Then I realised I hadn’t read his message properly and was in a similarly named hotel just across the road (those who know London may have had similar problem- Park Plaza London Bridge is next to Park Plaza County Hall). I was in London Bridge, he was in County Hall. Whoops, my mistake. I apologised and walked over to his hotel…he saw the funny side fortunately (despite having approached a few guys asking if they were me 😬). I stayed extra time to compensate.

They should be delighted they’re getting a professional for free! I was with a former bf one time, we had sex on Sunday morning and I jokingly said afterwards as we lay in bed that the session would have cost a client £x. He knew what my work was and we had an open relationship. In fact he was much more active with other guys than I was (most of my sex was work sex). However he got quite upset at my joke and for even considering that there could be any sort of transactional nature to our session. Maybe it brought the work too close to the bedroom for him, I don’t know. I was clear with him about my work from the start and he said it was fine but I think for some people it’s very difficult indeed for them to understand how someone can have sex for money. It’s good to find out very early in a relationship if your partner is one of those people.

I’m assuming you mean a climax to the massage, or happy ending as it’s sometimes known. If they want a happy ending they get one. I don’t like the phrase happy ending though, it’s misleading. I prefer to just call it a release or orgasm. Some clients want it at the start so that they can relax, enjoy the massage and build up again to another release at the end. The only time it might not happen is if they have a medical condition that precludes it.

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Welcome. I learned by trial and error (and still am learning). Biggest learning for me is know what your strength is, and understand your market. Don’t try to be something you’re not; you can’t be all things to all clients. Just be yourself and you’ll find your way.

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Fascinating to read from the perspective of someone in the UK. I’ve learned so much if I ever want to do a tour of the US! But yeah I’ve been to Orlando, like downtown Orlando (not the tourist parts although they’re even worse) and it’s dull dull dull. I wasn’t working there though…I was there for work (a ‘normal’ job ha ha) but I did look for a gay scene and found nothing. Maybe I wasn’t looking hard enough, maybe I didn’t care. The city sort of drained me. I’m used to culture, history (I’m talking > 200 years of it) and a sense of place. Orlando had oranges and a mouse. St Petersburg was good though. I liked that.

Everyone is different, some of my clients hardly open their eyes the whole massage (probably so they can imagine I’m someone much sexier lol) and maybe the lack of sight heightens the other senses. Some like me to use a blindfold on them which is great for undressing and exploring their body at the start. However when it comes to kissing I do love to look into his eyes. Shakespeare wrote that ‘the eyes are the window to the soul’. Having the window open makes for a more intimate moment.

I’m in London. Big kiss to you!

Difficult to do dainty kisses. You’re not kissing your grandmother!…. I love kissing and am slightly disappointed if my client doesn’t want to be kissed (although I don’t show it…I hope!). Kiss with abandon, kiss with eyes open, hold his head, explore his neck, ears, chest, all over his body, that’s how I like to kiss.

I always share a face pic with clients if meeting them in the lobby, otherwise it’s a situation of “I’ll have a pink carnation in my lapel and a copy of the Times under my arm”.