Jamie21

I do too. I like it when they open the door naked. The lobby meeting and lift ride can be awkward especially if there’s others in the lift.

If your scenario doesn’t involve the escort getting fucked (or fucking you) then perhaps they feel that you aren’t into them. It reveals their motive for doing the work. If however one’s motive when seeing clients is the client’s satisfaction then it shouldn’t matter whether or not your shorts come off as you say. My client yesterday wasn’t interested in doing anything to me. He wanted to be totally passive. I did remove my shorts but only so I could slap my cock in his face!

Interesting you raise this. Only today I had a client who liked a specific role play scenario. Think massage and a “straight” guy coming for a sports massage. He succumbs to the masseur who strips him of his pants (shorts) on the table and has his way with the guy. He wanted me to take charge and dominate him. Seemed to go ok lol. I don’t do many role play scenarios because I tend not to get asked but it’s definitely something I’m open to. I think most providers would be open to considering such things. I’m some way all clients are looking for a fantasy to be realised.

Doesn’t bother me. I’ve walked into many top London hotels to meet clients. Sometimes I have my massage table with me too. I’ve never been stopped or asked what I’m there for. I usually meet the client in the lobby if there’s a key card required for the lift, or use the stairs. All you need do is walk in with confidence as if you owned the place. Hotel doormen know what goes on too so it’s no issue. I dress smartly and look presentable which is also important because if you turn up in short shorts and a tight t shirt with ‘I’m a rent boy’ written all over it (or you’re dressed to that effect) then it’s not fitting for the location and could be embarrassing for your client!

Oh my God you’ve started off a big question there! It’s extremely emotive here in the UK. They’ve said they’ll try to join the EU, but keep the £ but I think that will be difficult because if they keep the £ they’re not really independent given interest rates would be set by the Bank of England. If they join the EU they may have to also take the Euro. I personally don’t believe they will vote for independence if they get the opportunity to vote….but who knows? Anyway, my newly independent Scottish clients will still be welcome and they can pay in whatever hard currency they like. As long as they keep Her Majesty as head of state of course. If they do away with her then I’m not happy with them. God Save The Queen 🙂

I find the US attitude to sex work is very prudish and I’m some ways puritanical. It’s legal here in UK and most of Europe. I hope one day it shall be considered to be normal, and open. Some regulation also to stop people trafficking and ensure standards are high, whether that’s industry rates government led. In meantime we should continue to try to change attitudes, challenge prejudices and educate the ignorant. Sex work is good work, it satisfies a demand and is important to society. I find it rewarding and enjoyable to do sex work.

Will clients always be flaky?…..Yes

I agree. “Hi” is an annoying opening and rarely results in a booking. I do respond because I don’t want to be difficult but if the conversation goes nowhere I very quickly just direct them to my website for answers (there’s an FAQ) and end the chat with something like “if you’d like to book let me know, have a good day, bye” which is usually enough to make them realise I’m not going to engage in a sex conversation or try to persuade them to make up their mind. These guys are usually either just wanting some chat to get off or they’re unsure about booking in which case I’m not inclined to engage because 9 times out of 10 they’ll book and then not show up or cancel it the day before when the reality of what they’ve got themselves into hits home. The correct approach is “hi, I’d like to book x massage on the day/time, I’ll pay by card/cash”. Then we’re good to confirm the booking and discuss other details. It’s simple…you see my website, like the proposition, make the arrangements. No fuss, no messing about.

I’d need to get paid much more than $25k for the horror of spending the weekend with an entitled guy stoned out of his mind on cocaine. How awful. No thanks.

If I was a female provider I’d definitely get as much background information as I could. It’s challenging for female providers given the risks they take. If clients don’t want to provide the required information then they’d be free to go elsewhere.

Ah I love a guy who keeps accurate stats of his work. I’ve records from every client I’ve seen since I started (only initials, date, location, rate, preferences). Data is the new oil. All GDPR compliant of course.

Ha ha yes, wishful thinking. There was quite a lot of activity in the cliffs above the beach. I may have participated in some of that 😉

I was on a beach in Mykonos. I’d gone there for a week’s break with a friend (who actually is a former client lol). Anyway we were walking along the beach to find some available sun beds in the gay section of the beach. I had tiny pink Aussiebums on at that point. We find some nice beds in a convenient location to watch and be seen lol. So I lay back and check my phone for messages (I really shouldn’t take it to the beach but am sort of addicted…). There’s a WhatsApp message from a client. I’m guessing he wants to book…so I open it and it says “did I just see you walk past on Elia beach?”. It’s from a guy I visited as an outcall about a year previously. He must have recognised me. Fortunately I remembered him (as it was an unusual visit to his house, I don’t do many outcalls). I replied “yes it’s me!, come over and say hello”. Apparently he’s with his partner just a few beds away from us. I’m open about what I do and the guy I was with knows obviously given he used to hire me but I wasn’t sure if my clients partner knew he’d hired me. He replies suggesting we meet at the waters edge as he’s going in the sea so I removed the Aussiebums (it’s naked optional) and went down to say hello. Turns out his partner does know so on the way back up after swimming I say hi to his partner too. It was a lovely encounter and I’m glad my client felt comfortable to say hello to me. Amazing that you can be hundreds of miles away from your work area and come across clients randomly, although I guess as it’s a gay beach on Mykonos that does narrow down the odds lol.

He was probably too precious to travel by tube. I don’t mind going by tube but it’s not unreasonable I think to expect my client to pay for an Uber home afterwards (I include it in my rate for outcalls). Who wants to leak while on the tube?

Awesome. Come for a massage. Sensualtouchco.com is my website. Cheers Jamie

Thanks. Glad you liked it!!

Yes agree the job is very hard. I love doing it but it’s extremely demanding on your body and mind. You need to be very strong, physically and mentally to be successful at it. I’ve been doing the work 5 years now and had my share of challenges. The good parts (the money, flexibility, interesting people, travel) do outweigh the bad (the difficult clients, the uncertainty, the toll it takes on your body) and I think the difficult parts must be even worse for female sex workers. When I work with a female (which happens occasionally) I’m always in awe at how they work. They always charge more than me too!

My table is waiting for you @Lucky. The oil is warm and my hands are ready.

https://xhamster.com/videos/another-four-handed-massage-session-xhil4oR Here’s one of mine. I filmed it a couple of years ago. I’m the guy fucking.

Making my clients feel fantastic, desired, sexy and good about themselves.

The good ones can charge high rates because the addressable market is large and there are relatively few good escorts. Therefore that’s what the market will take. There’s a lot more good male escorts and a smaller addressable market. I’m bi, in theory my market is everyone but I have very few female clients- they just don’t hire at the rate guys do. So I’m restricted to gay guys mainly. Having a website isn’t so unusual. I’ve one, it’s good to direct clients who have questions to it. It saves advertising. The screening is sensible. It reduces the likelihood of sexual assault. That stat of 41% is appalling. I only ever had one client I felt threatened by. I think if I’d been female he’d have been worse. I’ve done martial arts and know how to defend myself but I still felt threatened. It wasn’t a good session. If that happened regularly I’d definitely not do the work. I don’t blame the females for having thorough screening.

It’s such a misunderstanding of the work. I see 3 or 4 clients a week. Even if I was 19 I don’t think I could see 5 clients a day 7 days a week. That’s crazy. Most I’ve seen in one day is 3 and that was spread over 12 hours so there was recovery time in between.

I’m in London. I use Rentmasseur, and Jock2go but I’m more erotic massage focused. Most of my clients come from referrals or google searches to my website. Escorts here tend to use Sleepyboy.

Oh yes I got a message from Rentmasseur about that recently. It’s a good idea. I’ll put my status on there, both Covid and HIV. People do hire on the site for more than just a massage. Most of my clients from there want more than just massage. If they’re receiving oral or want to suck me then they’ll care about sexual health. The clients that care about these things are the ones I like. The clients who have disregard for their sexual health are not so welcome.

I’ve escort friends who I work with. I’ve picked up lots of ideas and information from them over the years. The guy who suggested I start out doing sex work gave me plenty of advice about pricing, where to advertise, how to handle difficult clients etc. It wasn’t advice on how to have sex and entertain clients (I think that to a large extent is innate) but it was advice on the business side of things, which was great. We all have different approaches to sex and the escort friends I have do things differently to me but when we work together it’s a good combination, and we are into each other (we have non work sex together) so I think that comes across to the clients. However I don’t have the same style as them and if I tried to copy them it wouldn’t come off. I agree with Jarrod that everyone has to find their own approach. It’s very much a thing that has to be natural to you otherwise clients will find you perfunctory.