Jamie21

If I’m travelling it’s for a holiday so I’m not working while I’m away. My market in London is busy enough not to need to travel for clients fortunately. It seems that mostly clients travel to London and arrange their sessions with providers while they’re visiting the city. Many of my clients are from overseas. What I will do whilst away is look for guys who might want to film to collaborate on fans site movies. If I can set up a filming session while away then that’s good for content on my justforfans. Or I’ll just take some scenery shots and solo scenes in nice locations if I can’t find someone to collaborate with.

Massage on a bed is more challenging to provide. When I see clients in their hotel I always offer to bring my table because I think it’s a better massage experience. The table allows me to move freely around it and to exert pressure in the right places etc. However it’s all about what the client wants so if they ask for the bed then that’s fine, I’ll work on the bed. You can get attachments that fit on the bed so that the client can put his head in the same style head support as used on a table so that helps. I saw a regular client a couple of weeks ago at his hotel and he prefers to use the bed. We had a large King size so it was possible to move around a lot and use various positions. That session was more focused on fucking etc than massage which is what the client wanted so the bed was fine for that type of session.

I remain 25 mentally! Thank you

I use the DayUse app to rent hotels by the hour. It’s excellent. You can rent daytime for up to about 8 hours. It’s also possible to cancel without charge up to the last minute.

Then please keep visiting us over on the permissive side of the pond! I love my clients from the States, such gentlemen and extremely sexy.

So is buying and selling sexual services! Those who think it’s morally unacceptable are usually those in absolutely no position to judge others. Absolutely nothing wrong with it and it’s legal where I live. I accept cash or credit card.

I take it daily. If I’m not working for any period of time then I stop (as in during the pandemic I didn’t see any clients for months…I didn’t see anyone for months!!). I agree with @KensingtonHomo it’s to protect me. Anyone engaging in natural sex should take it. I much prefer to fuck naturally but if I’m receiving then I don’t mind if he chooses to wear a condom. However it’s always the client’s choice.

I’ve made lots of massage videos. I started out performing on a site that made soft porn type videos (no shots of anything being inserted, nothing too explicit) but I got bored of that so started to make more explicit films showing everything. The explicit films are more fun to perform in because anything goes. I can also self publish them on my Justforfans site. I think massage porn is popular because one can imagine oneself on the masseur’s table and the massage getting hot. It’s a very familiar situation for many people.

It’s inevitable rates will rise. My costs have gone up. The rental for the studio where I work has increased, fuel is more, so is advertising. All direct costs have risen. My rates are in line with the quality market for London, there’s cheaper sensual masseurs but those are the ‘here today gone tomorrow’ variety who pick and choose their clients (it’s a hobby for them) or they’re doing a ‘rub and tug’ and ‘you’re not allowed to touch me’ kind of service. I put up my rate last year for my 1 hour session by a small amount to test the market and there was no discernible impact on demand. I can see I’ll have to increase rates across the board soon though. I don’t charge for extra services, it’s all time based, but I do like to provide a full service and a proper thorough massage so I think this helps me keep busy even though there’s lots of cheaper guys in the London market. As always it’s the value that is relevant to consider, not just the price.

Wait really? Here I am inserting it in my ass thinking it’s a suppository..

Great advice. The natural stuff works. It may be real or it may be a kind of placebo affect but it doesn’t matter which as long as it works.

Doesn’t matter what the client is like. I know that may sound counter intuitive and before I started doing sex work I had the view that supposedly ‘hot’ clients would be easier to get hard with. But now I’ve seen all sorts of shape clients I realise that I can get hard for all types. If they are happy in my company then I find I’m turned on. I guess it’s why I do sex work, I enjoy it, I enjoy meeting all sorts of people and helping them with sexual exploration. That’s a turn on. Condom use is also ok although I do think it’s easier to get / stay hard without a condom.

Interesting! I must be in the 1 to 2% then who prefer clients to book in advance. If you text me for right now it’s always a “no”. I’m not laying around in bed all day waiting for clients to text. I got stuff to do! A day’s notice is needed usually, or longer if you definitely want me to be available.

Wow those are some scary stories. Everyone should be ultra careful when hiring. If there’s even a hint that your provider is on drugs, or looks too good to be true then trust your instincts and not your cock and avoid him. Look for guys who’ve been around a while, are ok to talk and engage with you, with a website or professional looking pictures and good reviews. There’s no one single thing that is a guarantee but the whole package and proposal should stack up and feel legitimate. Unfortunately there’s a lot of unprofessional chancers in the industry. But I guess that means those of us who take the work seriously will stand out.

He asked ‘I’m interested what you like not what you think others like’ so that’s how I answered. When I said I don’t need pics unless it pertains to how I should treat you then that means I need to know of any injuries or conditions because that affects how I’d treat my client. Example if he has varicose veins in legs then I’m not going to massage his legs. I’ve disabled clients, one is profoundly deaf…I need to know that, another has cerebral palsy so I need to understand that too. But what I mean is I don’t care about physical shape or looks, no need to send pictures for that. Just be healthy, clean and respectful.

Ask it all in a message, but read my profile or website first because that answers most of the normal questions. Then ask whatever else you need, no question is silly. I’m not looking for pics of you, it doesn’t matter what you look like. Stats aren’t needed either unless they pertain to how I should treat you (are you 7ft tall? Do you have one leg?… that sort of thing). And if you want to endear yourself be polite.

I guess some places you actively have to look for culture and interesting places. I’m used to London, it’s on every street corner here, built into the fabric of the city. One becomes complacent to it.

I visited Orlando a few times (not to work, I’m exclusive to London ha ha) and I have to agree. First time I visited Orlando I was excited…hotel was downtown. I hoped for an interesting vibrant local scene. It was appalling, dull, boring and void of character. I walked around (a mistake in the US obviously) and became increasingly disappointed at what I found. A really strange place. Sorry Orlando.

I tried to advertise on masseurfinder but they refused my ad and pictures. Apparently it was too erotic or sexual or something like that. I had toned it down too. They seem not to like the proposal to massage naked, which is unfortunate since it need not necessarily be considered sexual. I think the site wants to focus on non intimate style massages yet I do see masseurs on there who I know do sex work. Perhaps they do both styles and keep things separate. I think that’s challenging to avoid the ‘non intimate’ massage service from developing into more erotic or sensual styles.

Ouch, that’s bad. I never had that happen but did once bruise my cock by thrusting into a guy who moved slightly so I missed his hole and pushed against the base of his spine. It stung quite bad for a short while but we carried on (we were filming so we wanted to finish the scene). I managed to get to the end as there wasn’t long to go. Next morning I look at my cock and it’s bruised all over, dark purple, and painful. I was out of action for about 3 weeks and couldn’t fuck for another 2 weeks. Industrial injury!

Ask again. He could have read it, got busy, and then forgotten to reply. Clients contact me by email, text, Twitter DM, Insta message, message on Rentmasseur, WhatsApp, and even by handwritten letter on lilac watermarked headed paper delivered by post (ok maybe I’m exaggerating with that last one)…so messages can go astray or get lost in the noise.

Yes the preparation is the hassle. It’s easier to top. Preparation can add an hour to the time needed. I hate to be anxious about not being clear down there so I try to be thorough in preparing.

I’ve a regular client who feeds me his home made cake after our session, with a cup of tea (usually some unusual infusion). It’s quite an energetic session so the cake afterwards is very welcome. He’s an excellent baker and tea and cake afterwards is a very civilised way to finish I think. He’s a lovely guy and we have a nice chat. Last time he served up a moist sponge with apricots and a flavour of tea that I’d never heard of. The cake was delicious. I wasn’t so keen on the tea. I always think which I like best when visiting him; eating out his hole or eating the cake afterwards. It’s a difficult choice. I absolutely adore eating out holes (especially his) and I love eating cakes. Probably both complement each other. The whole thing works nicely: massage, sex, tea cake and chat. Once trust is established then I think this drinks / cake / chat part is an integral part of the session. On out calls I like to include that element if my client is happy to. It’s a happy ending in every sense.

Unfortunately there’s a lot on drugs. Ok so maybe it allows them to see 4 or 5 clients in a day but it also means they’re likely to be washed up within a year or two. I know a guy who started out looking fresh and healthy. I worked with him a few times in porn and with clients. He was great; intelligent, sexy, fun and we got on well. Then he started to get with the wrong people and began to use drugs. I saw him change in a year, both physically and mentally. It nearly destroyed him. At one point he gave me his cash and credit cards for 6 months so that he couldn’t spend on drugs. There’s a happy ending (like in my massages ha ha) in that now my friend is off that stuff and is back to being the bright engaging person he was before…but he’s not doing sex work any longer (well…he does a bit …because he enjoys it…but he avoids the people who he associated with previously). But he could easily fall back into it unless he’s vigilant. Had he stayed mixing with the wrong crowd in London he’d probably be dead or totally wasted now. That’s how dangerous it is to go down that route. Tempting though it is to dip a toe in it’s almost impossible to manage, especially if you’re the kind of open minded and boundary pushing person who does sex work.

I’d be wary of this if it’s a new client. You might find some guys decline your offer even though it’s very kind and seems a nice way to start. The reason is the risk of something being put in the drink. It’s unfortunate but there are bad clients out there who are looking to take advantage or worse. It’s obviously extremely unlikely but I wouldn’t take the risk if visiting a new client at a location he has chosen. For that reason I always take my own drink.