Jamie21

I had a client who wanted to be tickled. For the whole session. I just tickled him all over. It was ok at first, I thought he’d tire of it and want sex but no…he asked for more tickling each time I tried to get more erotic or do some traditional massage. “Tickle me more” he’d ask. I’d tied him to the table just by his wrists and ankles so he couldn’t resist, which was his request. If I’m doing a firm massage or I’m fucking for ages I’ve usually got the stamina but tickling a guy is something else! I got really tired in my hands and forearms. The tickling became less and less vigorous. I was kind of hoping he’d cum from the tickling, which would have been intriguing to see. However, although he got hard (and I kept stroking his cock every so often) it was basically the only part of his body that wasn’t ticklish and he didn’t seem to want touched. Our time ended and he’d not cum (nor had I but that’s not unusual) so I asked him if he was happy and he said it was fantastic. My hands were so tired I could barely undo the knots to release his binding. It’s definitely a request I wish I’d declined because it’s not really my thing. Either that or I’ll double my rate.

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I get some from clients googling for sensual/erotic massage and finding my website; sensualtouchco.com. I get around 20k visitors a year to it and it’s growing. I’ve got videos on there, frequently asked questions, my location etc so that they can see what’s on offer and I don’t have to answer too many questions. I think it gives clients confidence I’m professional about things and it’s a great way to promote yourself. I’d definitely recommend setting up a website if you are currently just relying on advertising platforms.

Exactly this. “Discover your inner sexiness” Although I’d say it’s not inner because it is on display in how you behave and interact. A good provider will notice these things like that guy noticed you taking a shower. Someone who only looks superficially won’t notice. It’s the reason if clients ask to send me their picture I decline. It’s not necessary to see a picture. A picture isn’t the person, it’s just what they look like not who they are.

Who knows? I’ve tried to understand the patterns of business but it always defeats me. Sometimes it seems to be the phase of the moon that decides whether or not I’m busy… The only pattern I can see is that the start of the month is slightly busier, because I think people have been paid (monthly pay cheques in UK). That’s all, otherwise it’s random.

I look to my clients for 3 things. Be clean and fresh (that’s the top requirement and an absolute red line), be punctual (I have a schedule, if you’re unavoidably delayed please communicate, we can always reschedule), be respectful and polite (I’m a human being not a piece of meat). That’s all. If they’re those things then I’m able to give my best for them. They’ll get my total attention and focus because there’s no issues with cleanliness, rushing or dealing with attitude to distract me. Their body size, shape or colour isn’t any issue atall. A good provider knows that sexiness goes way beyond physical appearance. There’s something sexy and attractive about everyone and a great provider will know how to find it in their client and bring it out. The fact that you’ve come for a session in the first place makes you attractive in my opinion. It means you chose me to share it with…and that’s definitely a positive for me! It starts things off well and I’m eager to show you that you made the right choice. Long post, sorry but I think this is important because lots of my clients say they worried about being sexy enough to have a massage and fun. It’s a shame because everyone can be sexy and they shouldn’t worry about their body shape. Just be clean punctual and nice.

I wouldn’t welcome being approached in public. Just a nod and eye contact is ok but if a client started a discussion with me I’d feel quite awkward and monosyllabic. I’d be anxious about where the conversation was going. Fortunately it’s never happened. I’m not embarrassed by what I do, I discuss my work with friends who are understanding but unfortunately not everyone is open minded and tolerant so I’m careful about who knows what I do. I think it’s important to keep client confidentiality so I’d never even acknowledge a client if I saw them in a non work context. I’ve even seen clients at sex parties I’ve attended and not given any indication to anyone that they were a client so I’d expect the same courtesy back. Discretion is the most important quality of a good escort and one that escorts appreciate from clients too.

I did see a table partially collapse at a massage training session I was at one time. An interesting event…12 naked guys on massage tables with 24 semi naked women learning how to give a sensual massage to a guy. I was one of the 12 demo models. The females would rotate around every so often so that they got to practice on different guys. At the start of the evening the guy doing the training was demonstrating a move which meant he had to lean on the table. As he leant over it one of the table legs collapsed, rendering it unusable. I was asked to give up my table so the now table-less volunteer could use mine. As I was a pro masseur and knew the guy running the event I stopped being a practice model (unfortunately) and helped him to train the women in how to massage their man. They did well, 10 of the 11 guys reached climax. We discovered later that the collapsed table had a screw missing. Generally I think most tables are sturdy. It’s just that if the person on the table is big then it’s difficult for the masseur to mount the table. Sometimes if my client wants to be fucked it’s better if they bend over the table and I can fuck them from behind rather than having to mount the table myself. It’s quite a good position.

I often get asked to do surprise visits to client’s partners. It’s always a “no”. The person I’m seeing must always know the nature of the booking. Surprises just don’t work unfortunately.

Yes check with the provider. When I do massage there’s a size limit for the table, but that means the bed can be used instead. Yay! If you check you’ll find out beforehand whether the provider cares or not about your body size. It’s better than turning up and finding out they’re sizeist.

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I use feathers, a back scratcher thing (like those head massage tools), a prostate massager if the client wants it (although I think fingers are better for prostate massage), sometimes dildos. It really depends what my client wants. Nothing beats a skilled pair of hands and a hard cock though.

And that’s an issue too! I’m almost always top and it seems almost all of my clients are bottom which isn’t surprising given I’m hung. However occasionally a client will want to top me, which is fine (I’m versatile) but I wish they’d say in advance so I can prepare. I just assume they’re bottom so I never prepare myself (not thoroughly anyway). Nothing’s happening that way if I’m not prepared.

It’s the low cost airline pricing model. You want a designated seat? That’s extra. You want hold baggage? That’s extra. You want a crappy sandwich? That’s extra.... Those airlines are cheap for a reason. Fly with a decent airline if you want full service. Same applies with providers.

I’m never ‘available now’. For one thing I have other work to do so I’m not just hanging around on the off chance someone will call. Plus those kind of “I’m horny now” clients aren’t the sort I want. Ok spontaneous liaisons can be great but not in a provider / client context, not for me anyway. I prefer clients who have thought carefully about visiting me and made a decision with more than their dick. A last minute decision to use my services to unload isn’t likely to be an uplifting and meaningful experience so that’s not the type of booking I take.

Oh yes Twitter I forgot that. I think I do get a lot of hits to my website via Twitter (well I know I do; the analytics tells me I do) and I agree Twitter is like a gallery for my service and I can post ‘thirst trap’ style pics and videos which brings eyes to my page. The more hits I get to the website and the better I make the SEO then the higher I get on google when someone searches for sensual massage in London. The longer I’ve been established the less I need to advertise so now I keep it to a couple of prime advertisements on high traffic sites like Rentmasseur and rely on repeat clients and referrals for my business. I’ve a lot of contacts in the business so I get referrals from them too and I send clients their way too.

Grindr banned me... Rentmasseur is good, so is UKadultzone for advertising but most of my clients are referrals or via google searches for my website. I get around 1700 unique visitors to my website each month. I’m quite selective now about where I advertise.

My standard times are 60,90 and 120 minutes and mostly I recommend 90 to my clients because 60 is a taster (for first time clients) and 90 is an ideal time to relax. If they want a fully immersive experience and more sex included then 120 is best. I’ve done longer sessions but those tend to be where we take breaks to chat etc and it’s a day booking, more of a boyfriend type experience for him so includes massages, bathing, workouts etc. The longest I received a massage was for 3 hours at a training event but it was 3 different masseurs practising on me so there were 3 different styles which made it interesting.

Yes, in essence you are the goods in this business and that means some buyers won’t like the look of you. I used to worry about that, now I don’t so much because I know that there are plenty who do go for me and what I do. I also make porn and that’s even more brutal in terms of putting yourself out there to be knocked down. Everyone has feelings and insecurities but doing this work has helped me realise that there’s a market for everyone. I don’t take the rejections I get personally. Not often anyway!!

Definitely this. Polite requests from genuine clients get a face pic. If the first question is “face pic” then the answer is “no”. It’s part of my filtering process to deter and remove the time wasters, picture collectors, fantasists and bottom end clients who will ask for a discount. Genuinely interested clients will have seen my website, asked a few relevant questions and then if they want a face pic they’ll get one. I don’t want anyone coming to see me to have any misconceptions about who they’re meeting as that’s a poor way to start off. I want them to feel happy and comfortable when they walk through my door, and even more happy when they leave.

Loads of towels. Client usually uses at least one in the shower, sometimes two, one large one on the table, another to initially cover the client, one to clean up the cum etc lol, plus table cover and head cushion. Then I use a towel in the shower. Never buy white towels or table covers. They look good but the oil stains them. Dark towels are best. I also use lots of paper roll to soak up the oil. But towels are the biggest problem. My washing is never finished. If I see three clients in a day then it’s at least 15 towels...and getting them dry is a challenge.

I get some no shows too but I’ve learned to see the patterns that indicate they’re likely to flake.....the endless questions, sending dick pics, the “definitely up for it” assurances. Most times I can tell and in those instances I don’t make any commitments to spend to facilitate the session. It’s worse when I arrange a 4 hands and we both turn up but the client doesn’t show. So now I only take a 4 hands booking from regular clients or I take a deposit. Recently I’d arranged a 4 hands for me and a masseuse with a new client and I asked him for a deposit because the masseuse was travelling some distance to the session. Sure enough on the day he messaged to say he couldn’t make it. Unfortunately the masseuse had already travelled. At least I was able to give her some compensation to cover the cost of her travel but it’s annoying because we’d both put a lot of planning and time into the session for the client. Sometimes I think clients don’t appreciate the effort that goes into setting up a session; the venue booking and preparation, preparing yourself and all that goes into that, travel time if it’s outcall, getting any supplies needed. I reckon some think I’m just sitting around all day waiting for them to call. I generally don’t take deposits because most clients don’t want to bother with them (usually because they want to remain discreet) but if I get a no show then they’re blocked for ever and I tell other masseurs (yes, we share info like that) so that others can be aware.

I don’t recognise them with their clothes on but I’m sure it wasn’t any of those guys...

I think discussing charges for “extras” during the massage is awkward. I don’t charge for anything extra, it’s all included in my standard massage rate (which Isn’t cheap) except for me bottoming and if they want that it has to be agreed before the massage, and the rate for that is extra. Because there’s no extra charge or any cause to discuss the charge during the massage it can proceed naturally, uninterrupted and it feels less transactional for the client. I once had a spa massage where the masseur tried to upsell to me during the massage. I’d already paid for the massage at the spa desk. Half way through the massage I could feel through his shorts that his cock was hard as it pressed against my hand while he leant over the table. I was laying on my front with a towel over my bum so he couldn’t see whether I was hard or not. He said to me “I can do relief for you, I get naked and wank you, it’s just £50 extra”. I was quite surprised because this was a high end spa. He was hot but I didn’t want a happy ending as my boyfriend at the time was staying at the spa with me and we’d been having sex all afternoon. I just wanted the relaxing massage. So I said no thanks, which seemed to annoy him. He said “ok just £40, you can get the cash now”. I really didn’t want to get off the table to go and get cash so I said “no thanks I’m fine” again. He then said “ok how much?” which really surprised me because now he was in negotiating mode and the price wasn’t my issue. If he hadn’t been so insistent about it I might have agreed (although the requirement to get cash to pay him during the massage really pissed me off). So I just said to him “no I’m not looking for extras, sorry”. Unfortunately he seemed to take this personally and the massage became much less attentive. I felt in a mischievous mood so when he asked me to turn over I made sure I was hard under the towel to see what he’d do. If he’d have removed the towel, and his shorts and given me a happy ending then I’d have paid him the extra money afterwards but he didn’t go near my hard on atall. He just avoided the area completely and finished the massage in a perfunctory style. It was a shame because he was hot and, up to the point of the upsell discussion, he’d done a great massage. I had no problem with him cashing in on the side but he was doing it in a really poor way that was confrontational and inconvenient. I gave him a good rating afterwards though because it was a nice massage and I’m sure he’d have been hot to play with. He just should have been more subtle and trusting to accept cash afterwards.

The only thing that I can’t accept is poor hygiene. If a client isn’t fresh and clean then they simply don’t get my full service. There’s no excuse for bad hygiene. Fortunately it’s rare, and I ask them to shower beforehand anyway. Aside from hygiene there’s nothing else that means a client is treated any differently. Of course being friendly and respectful are always good and help to make a meeting even more fun. I’m sorry you had some bad hire experiences. You shouldn’t blame yourself, it’s more likely you hired a bad escort. They should make you feel fantastic, if they didn’t achieve that then that’s their failure not yours.