Jamie21

Yes exactly that. It’s why my two hour rate isn’t double my 1 hour rate. I’ve got to prepare and sometimes travel etc for an hour booking. If that is a 2 hour booking the second hour requires less effort, as in I’m already there and prepared etc. So it’s lower price for a longer session to incentivise maximising income. A 90m session is a really nice sweet spot for me.

It’s to screen out the cheap clients. I get a few who say I’m too expensive for them, and some ask if they can have a special discount. Sorry but no, those are exactly the type of client the pricing structure is designed to avoid!

I liked his chutzpah. But it didn’t happen…he was window shopping…‘please send pics etc’. I send one (despite there being lots on my advertising), it goes quiet then ‘got any more?’ 🙄

Yes 🚩! My second hour is 15% less than the first hour. I don’t publish rates longer than 2 hours but the % reduction would be about the same. It really depends on the set up and my willingness to do a longer session. I generally am not keen to do multiple hours so I’d price it accordingly. I had one guy ask me for my rate for a 4 hour booking. I gave him a number. He divided that by 4, came up with an hourly rate….and then asked to book just an hour. Smart. Of course I said ‘sorry it doesn’t work like that, the first hour is more expensive’ so he said ‘ok I’ll book just the 4th hour then please’ 😳

I sometimes suggest to clients who are reluctant to verbalise what they want to send me a link to a video of a porn film (even one of mine! 😂) which shows what they’d like. It’s easier to say ‘this movie shows what I’d like to happen especially the bit from minute x to minute x’. They don’t have to use any words or descriptions. As always a picture is worth a thousand words. However, even better, I think it’s important for clients to describe how they want to feel rather than what they want to happen. It gives me a better understanding of what they’re looking for. If there’s activities they want that I’m not able or willing to do I can perhaps include something else that gives them the same feeling. Of course getting guys to say how they want to feel is almost as difficult as getting them to say what they want done to them 😂, but if you can get there with that understanding then as a provider you can really make a difference for them. As always, I say sex work means working their biggest sex organ - the brain.

From the masseur’s perspective I like the client to have their eyes open. Nothing better than gazing into his eyes. Some decent writer once wrote ‘the eyes are the window to your soul’. He knew.

Yes the straight guy thing is definitely one I recognise. I love seeing my ‘straight’ clients. Often they’re extremely naive about sex, and especially about their own attributes and how to explore them. It’s like being able to show someone a whole new world that they never knew existed and be on that journey with them.

I know him. I’ve filmed with him. Very sexy guy, really lovely and friendly.

Yes, there always is. Even with a clear recent test it doesn’t mean 100% safe though. It’s a risk doing bb. One takes as many precautions as possible (be on prep, doxy prep, test regularly, ask partners about their status etc) and then decides. I’m responsible for my sexual health and I’m not blaming anyone else if I catch anything.

Cum in the eyes is the worst thing. I definitely don’t like it there. Anywhere else is fine. I keep eyewash handy in case it goes in my eye. One time I got poppers in my eye. this wasn’t in a client session, it was just a hookup but he was clumsy when taking poppers and happened to pour some of it in my eye. It stung so much we had to stop. So now I keep eyewash handy just in case.

It’s quite sensible to be safe only with clients but do bb on films. When you film with other guys who do sex as a job they usually take their sexual health seriously, and sometimes you can get a certificate to show they’ve tested clean recently. With clients you can’t be so confident that they’re getting tested regularly or are even on prep. All of the porn films I’ve done have been bb (top and bottom) because bb porn does better than safe, and I prefer bb anyway. I’m confident to do bb with other porn performers but less so to do bb with clients (although it does happen with clients too).

Nice replies here. There’s no age limit, it just depends how you feel. The right provider won’t care about your age. What matters most is your attitude. It also doesn’t matter if you don’t get hard. I’ve older clients who don’t get hard, some don’t cum (medical reasons) but they still have a great time. Everyone wants to feel special sometimes don’t they? The right provider will get off on making you feel special, that’s why they do the job.

And that picture of the All Blacks isn’t them demonstrating with their hands the size of their 🍆…it’s them doing the Haka which they perform to their opponents before a game (which I think gives them an unfair advantage but that’s a different issue). Anyone emigrating to Canada will have the King as Head of State. Americans might not like that.

Hey thanks ☺️….if you do ever visit London I’d love to see you for a massage.

Yes, kind of. In my calendar when a client books I keep a note of their name, the rate, and how they booked (as in via text, WhatsApp, DM on X, email or phone). After their session I make a note of what happened, what they liked etc. If they book another session I can then search it by name or whatever to check what happened last time. Of course for regulars it’s easy to remember what they like.

I’m making a joke.

I have some sympathy with him. I won’t see a client staying in a PremierInn or a Travelodge 😂

I like this! It appeals to my record keeping mentality. I do keep notes about what clients like etc… ’tall slim guy, liked prostate massage, shot in my mouth, don’t massage his feet’… that kind of thing…to which I can add ‘doesn’t want to be contacted unsolicited’. To those concerned about data protection - it’s all GDPR compliant.

Most of my clients want to bottom if it comes to that. I’d say 80% are bottom but of course that’s not a statistical measure, just my estimation. It could be affected by me being quite large lol. Rarely am I asked to bottom. I think there’s a difference between advertised status and real status. For professional sex (clients / films) I’m vers/top because that’s what the market wants, 90% of the time I’m top. For recreational sex I’m generally 50:50 vers. I suspect that many of the guys advertising as vers top or top do so because that’s what the market is driving them towards. In their non work lives they’ll have a different designation.

Not in my experience. None of the other providers I know are concerned about competition. Everyone knows clients move around and no one minds. I make recommendations to clients about other providers if they ask me and I get clients recommended to me by providers I know.

Yes but probably not in the way you might think. We share info about trouble makers and time wasters.

Happened to me with a client. I’d bottomed fine with him until we changed position and he did me as I was bent over the end of the bed. Maybe the change in position caused it, I don’t know but as he was fucking me I suddenly got a sense of being ready to go, and as he pulled out (because I asked him to stop so I could run to the bathroom) a mess quickly followed his cock. All over the floor of the hotel bedroom, and ruining my new socks (I particularly remember the socks). It took a while to clean up, and I threw away the towels we used. The client was fine about it, totally relaxed. It was towards the end of the session anyway but he was fine for us to carry on after I’d cleaned up (no more fucking though). I’ve also had the experience of clients being messy when I’ve fucked them and it’s fine, one can’t get difficult about it. It happens, just clean up and carry on.

I just said that it looked a bit sore down there so I avoided it because I didn’t want to make things worse. I’d flipped him over and sucked him off so he seemed happy with that. He knew he had a ‘problem’ down there but I don’t think he realised quite how much of a problem, or what it looked like.

I didn’t!

It was at least 10 more y’s that that.