keroscenefire

Denver only has mountains so it lacks the water/mountains combination that elevates the beauty of Seattle and Vancouver. That said, I think Denver has a slightly better climate. We have quite a lot of sunny days even in winter. I've been to the Pacific NW in the winter and the constant drizzle is pretty depressing in my opinion. But that does mean both Vancouver and Seattle are more "lush" and green. Denver can get pretty brown and dry by late summer.

All three have lots of homeless so there's no difference there in my opinion. 

49 minutes ago, former lurker said:

Not that it changes much of the thinking on the subject, but PNP likely includes more chem sex drugs than meth.  It could include G or K (I forget what "G" stands for,

G is usually GHB, a easy-to-make and easy to consume drug that increased libido and produces euphoria. It's usually what people think of as the "Date-rape drug" and can actually be pretty dangerous when combined with alcohol. 

Denver is definitely $250-$300. You can still find a few that do $200. I also find that guys will price shave pretty easily. I was quoted $350 recently and just told them that was higher than I willing to go and they immediately went down to $300. I think sometimes they just try to get the higher rate if they can but once they realize they're talking to a client that knows the market, they go down. 

I went to Paris last spring and met with https://app.rent.men/Lucas_Frenchy. We're both vers and he is a really nice guy with a great ass and a beautiful body.

No experience with any of the guys you posted but Nolan, Alex and Bruno caught my eye when I was there too. 

15 hours ago, DWnyc said:

I have been asked pretty much every time with a new provider if I was interested in that. Not all would have listed it. 

To reiterate, it’s a little redundant to express horror or announce how it’s a criteria to rule out a provider (who may be a user himself even if he doesn’t list it). 

Those keeping quiet are smartly not broadcasting their own use but also not being counted for empirical purposes  

And my experience is almost the opposite. I've very seldomly been asked except for the couple who were actually really into meth and in both cases , they were clearly already high and saw me as a way to get more drugs. Both were bad experiences, which is exactly why PNP is a red flag for me.

I do know at least one escort who listed PNP who doesn't do it regularly and just offers it for clients who are into that thing. He definitely didn't strike me as a hard drug user so I believe him. In fact, he told me he is pressured into doing it and doesn't always want to but often those sessions are the ones that are longer and pay more. I was one of the few that did an overnight with him where drugs weren't involved (except 420). 

I really like Steamboat Springs, Colorado. Technically not a big gay scene but there are some great restaurants and nightlife options. But the best thing is Strawberry Hot Springs which really does get pretty fun at night with lots of nude dudes and definitely some cruising. It's not exclusively gay but there is enough space where you can find a nice little nook. And you can stay there as well so it wouldn't be hard to bring a guy over. 

I think it's ideal for bringing an escort date. Ski during the day, stay in a cool mountain cabin and relax in the amazing hot springs. 

I don't know about casinos. But I do know that several escorts in Denver are also go-go dancers and/or work at gay bars around town (often shirtless or even in their underwear). And one of them told me he has gotten clients from that. I think the already sexual nature of those businesses makes that a bit easier to make that transaction happen. I don't know if that's something you're able to do or interested in, but that could be a good offline option.

44 minutes ago, DWnyc said:

And even if it does … why single out one provider under discussion here while many many others also list it. Use / tolerance is far more widespread than the comments here might suggest (including among providers)

Well the profile has only existed for a few weeks and there's not much to go on in there. So to me, the PNP stands out as does a few pics that reinforce that this escort is probably into PNP. 

It may be somewhat common and that's fine. But I just did a search in Denver and less than 20 percent of escorts listed PNP in their profiles. 

So whether you're looking for a PNP escort or not, this particular thread now points that out pretty quickly. I think that is likely useful either way.

17 minutes ago, FrankR said:

There is a lot of judgment in this thread. Some men on rentmen interpret PnP as “willing to smoke weed with you” - why assume it means hard drugs?  

I guess that's possible but PNP is pretty common slang for "Party and Play," typically meaning more hardcore drug use than just pot. If you're really just into smoking pot, you put in 420 like my man Jake.

I will also say that there's no judgement here. If you're into PNP, then that is your business and feel free to seek that out. But I've personally had bad experiences with escorts who are into PNP, which is why it's a red flag for me.

2 minutes ago, Njguy2 said:

Have this book and its a slow read for me which is unusual.  I'll finish it;  doubtful if the sequel will hold any interest but maybe the twist that @keroscenefire has eluded to may change my mind.  Glad others have enjoyed it.

Interesting that you thought it slow. I kinda liked that each new travel location was kinda its own section. It sort of held my attention more than if it was more straightforward. The twist isn't super crazy but it is a nice cap to the story.

Listing PNP is a bit of a red flag and his photos also reinforce that to me a bit. Not sure I would go for this one, but YRMV. 

I like the new version but it's way too buggy. Just today, the search wasn't working at all for me. I probably would like the new version once it's in better shape, but I feel in its current form it's not as useful as the older version. 

12 hours ago, BuffaloKyle said:

We can always just rank clients on here too:

1. @BuffaloKyle

2. @JoeMendoza

3. @RadioRob

Wow I'm #1!? 🏆

Talk about some erroneous information. 😆

Vegan chili and vegan tater-tots should not be really challenging. I mean the Ore-Ida tater tots you can get frozen at the grocery store are already vegan. 

I have several vegan friends, so when I go to a potluck, I like to make my vegetarian chili. I use sweet potato, beans, tomatoes and chipotle peppers. I provide cheese and sour cream on the side if people want to add those, but it's vegan otherwise. Most bean-based chilis would be the same. 

I've had pretty convincing vegan nacho cheese made of cashew cream. My boyfriend is allergic to tree nuts though so that would make him sick. 

I'm not vegan but there are lots of regular foods that happen to be vegan that don't require "vegan versions." Peanut butter and jelly sandwiches, pasta with a simple marinera sauce, tacos with veggie fillings and guacamole. 

In my experience in talking to escorts, the vast majority of clients want to bottom when they hire. One of my regulars actually is more of a bottom and has vers/bottom as his description on RM. Even so he told me that 70% of his clients want him to top.

To me it makes sense. I am not sure how is in other cities, but Denver has way more bottoms than tops. If I want to top, it's quite easy for me to find someone on the apps. But I very seldomly can find a good top on the apps.

That's when I find a great true vers escort....that's the best!

A close friend got into a horrible relationship scam on Grindr. His mother had just passed and he was really vulnerable. This guy really spent a lot of time on him, even calling him on What's App and eventually he got money from my friend for his mom's "cancer treatments." 

Somehow they're able to spoof that they are nearby even though they are often in Hong Kong or Malaysia. It was when my friend tried to meet with him and noticed inconsistencies with his stories, that he realized he'd been scammed. I felt for so bad for him. He was pseudo-in the closet because his mom was quite religious and this was his first "relationship."

People really suck.

I have to give some props to my city of Denver. Colorado has long been considered the fittest state in the country.  Men are really active here. We got a lot of bearded, lean mean that spend all their time rock climbing, biking, running, skiing, etc.

Every time I go on a run (often even the winter), I see dozens of incredibly sexy men often with their shirt off. Probably most are straight but still. 🥵

1 hour ago, jtwalker said:

Every once in a while, I will now subscribe to leave a good review.  Especially if it is a new provider without a lot of reviews;  I like helping them out.

Yeah this is exactly why I like to have a membership too. 

18 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

with all the snafus RM is having with all these new versions, I agree a sudden doubling of the premium membership cost seems inappropriate.....I may write to them to voice polite "concern" about the new fee......if enough others do it, they may back off on it for now.....I'm not upset about the new version rollout (it must be complicated and time-consuming), but am more upset about the new fee

https://rent.men/about/contact/

I did the same. I think this increased price really has the potential to disrupt their ecosystem in unexpected ways. Like because I let my membership lapse, I haven't reviewed the last couple guys I met (one a great newbie with no reviews). So escorts are going to have fewer reviews, which likely means people will be less likely to hire them. With more guys hinting about their services on Grindr, Twitter and Onlyfans, many may not use RM if they feel it doesn't bring them much.  To me the value of the site is the (admittedly BS reviews). I think if they make that harder to happen, RM does so at its own peril. 

https://rent.men/Wellhunglatin

On 2/22/2023 at 7:57 PM, Simon Suraci said:

 

Any suggestions or preferences for what clients like to use more?

For sure put your RM profile and your web site on your signature on this forum. I've definitely clicked on those and booked directly before. 

14 hours ago, nate_sf said:

 

Rentmen of the Day (if you can find an open spot - they're seldom available) $48.00 for Western or Eastern USA, $12.00 for Canada for 24 hours

Thanks for the info Nate. I didn't know that Rentmen of the Day was a paid thing. I thought they just picked someone randomly who was a sponsor or something. Dang, the really try to monetize everything.

40 minutes ago, NYXboy said:

the new version on the app doesn't seem to allow you to search for profiles by name which is annoying 

You can but I agree it's not intuitive. Click on the search button on the top and once in there click on Search by name, hashtag or keyword. Unfortunately, it brings up quite a lot of profiles with this search function so you kinda have to be pretty close to the name to narrow it down.

It's crazy there charging more for such a bad experience. Let me membership lapse and very unlikely to renew it with this current product. 

There is kinda. So if you buddy list an escort, RM will actually inform you when they are close to your location.

This is what it looks like: 

Hopefully @Erikshelly doesn't mind I buddy listed him