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A New York Times article today  talks about sex workers being denied banking services and having accounts closed because of their, in many cases even legal, sex work. 

"If a person’s repeated stream of cash deposits sets off an alarm bell, banks may also consider a sexually suggestive social media or public profile, for example, in combination with too many transactions with websites the bank deems high risk."

I think that certainly could start to apply to many of us on here, both customer and escort. I definitely have gotten one bank call about a large CashApp that was for an escort. 

Fortunately, I have a little side gig where I bartend for events at a local theater and have lots of cash tips. I've increasingly use that as my "play money" so I keep it completely out of the banking system. 

Something to watch out for though for sure. 

1 hour ago, BOZO T CLOWN said:

Whether the law is "idiotic" or not, is still THE LAW. And if you are a Canadian citizen, I suggest you contact your MP to change the law. Probably sooner rather than later because if the polls are accurate, Trudeau's government will get shellacked at the next election.

And what exactly do Larry Flint and Congressmen paying for sex have to do with Canadian immigration officers enforcing their border laws? 
Do you object to Canadian border patrol doing their job by preventing non-citizens they suspect may be trying to cross their border to work illegally? 

BTC

I think this is actually US Customs and Border Protection denying entry to Canadian sex workers entering the US.  There would be no point in Canadians contacting their MPs about US laws. 

Yes unfortunately I agree that pretty much everyone should not share face pictures on online escort web sites. With face recognition technology, it's just too risky. Even US escorts. I mean you may not be detained from an international trip now, but that certainly could change in the future. 

1 hour ago, Vin_Marco said:

It's a pity.... all because of the fakes, FLAKES, and the disingenuous 😕 

I'd say for the most part guys on RM are real. I've met with several "new" guys and I've usually had a good experience. If anything, a lot of the profiles are just noncommunicative so you just don't bother if they don't respond. But I do think they're mostly real. 

My rule of thumb for new guys generally and especially those with new profiles is to A) Not host and B) Ask that we meet in public (hotel lobby for example) first. I often also will be pretty light with what I carry (cash only. Leave credit cards in the car). I had only really had one odd experience where I thought I as being ripped off and fortunately walked away pretty quickly. 

I often like to do some kind of mutually-enjoyable activity. Perhaps that is seeing a play or concert, going on a bike ride or enjoying a nice dinner together. If dinner, just remember how that might effect one's ability to bottom if that is something one wants to do.

13 hours ago, Jarrod_Uncut said:

 

Don’t reach out to multiple providers in a day. Be patient and wait for the guy to get back to you, and generally allow 24 hours to complete an exchange. 4 hours at minimum. 2 hours at absolute minimum. If you start messaging a bunch of guys and then pick the one you want, you’ll come off like a flake. This is not hookup apps or any of those other timewasting sites where wasting time is part of the deal. Timewasting is not part of the deal with escorting, as some like to believe. It’s just become a common situation that has not been properly mitigated by websites. Give each guy a chance to discuss what they offer, and make a proper yes or no plan. They may not be interested in you, you may not be interested in them. 

I do agree with Jarrod if you're in your own city. But if you are travelling to LA and only have a limited amount of time,  I don't think it's bad to contact a few guys. In my experience (in travel generally but this actually happened to me in LA specifically), many guys don't get back to your quickly and even when they do, they are sometimes the one to flake on you.

I was in LA once for a weekend and thought I had a guy all lined up but he actually ended up doing a porn shoot instead.  had my eyes on a couple other guys but by the time I got there, they were either busy already or also didn't get back to me. I ended up with another guy last minute who was alright but who lived much further away from my hotel, wouldn't travel and the whole thing was just a lot more work that I wanted it to be.

On a recent trip to DC I actually did reach out to a few providers (including Jarrod who is the guy I ended up with) and certainly I felt bad when another guy reached out to me a bit too late (I actually contacted him right before my trip but he didn't get back to me until I got there after I had already made another appointment). But I just was straightforward and said that I had booked an appointment with another guy already but would definitely reach out if I returned to DC again. To his credit, the other guy seemed understanding and legitimately I will reach out to him if I see him if I visit another city where he's at.

I do think there is a risk if I did that repeatedly that I would be labeled a "flake," but I think it's okay to reach out to a couple of guys you're interested in and go for the one that seems to respond both more quickly. It really is not a bad idea to have a "backup" in case it doesn't work out on his end. I would only do max 2-3 guys because more than that you're going to inevitably disappoint someone. 

He's super-new. Ad only created yesterday. I doubt that anyone knows much. 

I liked his profile too and tried to contact him both on messenger and through text on the phone he had on there. Unfortunately no response on either channel. Maybe I just caught him at a bad time but he had been RM, 7 hours earlier  when I contacted so it feels like he's checking his ad. He's been on RM for close to a year with no reviews but it's also a bit odd that he's been paying for the ad the whole time. 🤷‍♂️ I honestly don't know.

The one thing I encountered is that a lot of the hotels there are quite confusing since they literally want you to gamble more than they want you to easily get to your room. They also have multiple entrances, towers and lobbies and things so it is quite confusing. I once had a guy say meet me in the "lobby" but I couldn't find where it is. So I was just like, can you meet me at the entrance that faces the strip on the south side? 

Edit: Or actually even better is all the casinos have bars/restaurants with real names. Especially if its a slightly longer session. Hey let's meet at Rhumbar (actual bar near the entrance where I stayed at the Mirage) for a cocktail at 9pm before we get started. 

I'd say having the guy cum is not even a guarantee for escort services so I rarely expect it from a masseur. 

There are some people who are just really good at languages. I have a college friend who works for the Department of State. He knows Spanish, Chinese, Korean, Japanese, Italian and French fluently to the point of being able to do instantaneous translation. 

4 hours ago, RyanChambers said:

I'm leaving this business behind and rejoining the professional world....

I won't be advertising any longer 

Best of luck to everyone

Feel free to send me a DM if you have any questions about my "retirement"

Best of luck Ryan! Know you'll always have fans on here if you want to return. But truly wish you all the success in your new endeavor. 

I've done this before both through hiring and just in my normal sexual life. It's also called a Lucky Pierre.  I find it hot. It does take a little bit of control with you and it helps if you have somewhat larger than average dick (or your dick may pretty easily fall out).

One easy way IMO to do a threesome is to simply hire a couple. Most cities usually have one or two that either advertise together or will say something in their profile like, "Ask me about my friend...."

A lot of them are totally willing to do something like this. And instead of hiring two separate guys, often a couple will do a little group rate like $500 for an hour (where it would be $300X2 for two guys). 

Maybe a small amount of extra caution is warranted in Texas, but I think the usual rules apply. 

Use this forum to choose trusted, quality, verified escorts. 

Yeah I think the escort really has the choice to delete it if they want. So I do think in cases of expiration it's either they intend to go back at some point or they just forget about it. I had to remind an escort friend of mine that his ad was not still showing up but in fact showed up as a "review of the day" on the main page just a couple days ago. He has a professional job so he was grateful for that.

I think you should be a bit more direct if you want more time. IMO, a 2-hour session often includes another round of fooling around. Obviously, guys only have so much in the tank so sometimes you have to adjust a bit, but you can say something like, "I loved what you did with your mouth earlier, can you do that again?" Or "You down for another round?" 

Of course, if you're good after just messing around once than my advice to you would be to do just a one-hour session. I actually think that's more than enough time for most guys.

12 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I have noticed that you can be disappointed when you hire for sensual or erotic, I always hire for therapeutic, which often morphs into sensual or erotic.  If it doesn't it's OK because therapeutic is what I hired for, after all.

I agree. The worst outcome to me is an overpriced crappy massage that doesn't actually have any therapeutic value and some half-assed handjob. I don't want to pay $200 for being jerked off basically. 

This is what I (and I think most clients) would anticipate based on the following Rentmasseur levels of massage:

Therapeutic: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles probably with a clothed masseur, maybe in his underwear. If I got a hand job, great but I would not expect it.

Sensual: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles done likely nude or in skimpy underwear. Almost for sure a hand job to climax, perhaps some mutual touching (his body and probably his dick), oral unlikely but possible.

Erotic: A great, therapeutic massage to relax the muscles almost for sure done nude. Definitely a hand job to climax, almost for sure some mutual touching (his dick/body) , probably including oral (maybe receptive and giving), probably not fucking or anything else, but possible, more likely for an "upcharge" to escort services.

A couple of good catchwords for OnlyFans models or guys on social media that might be open to a more escort experience:

-Open to collaborations

-DMs open

-The word "Open" generally: Open to hanging out or Open to chilling

-Posting CashApp or Amazon Wishlist

-Sexy Clips/Pics where they ask "Anyone want to join?" or something similar.

Definitely don't post social media. Does that include OnlyFans type accounts if they don't have a RentMen account? I'm fine either way, just curious about that as some guys do have the Twitter/OnlyFans combo that kinda connect to each other.

I had luck once with a local OnlyFans guy. Rent.Men can be expensive and a lot to deal with on the escort's side so I think some guys get off it every once in a while and just focus on existing clients and OnlyFans. But if you reach out through the right platforms, they definitely can be down.

In general, we be cautious but not paranoid with stories like these. The whole point of this forum truly is to vet guys before you meet them through our trusted hobbyists. I think you can still feel confident that most of the guys who forum members say our legit, are likely to be legit. 

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Drip/py is a slang term for fashionable or cool. Usually to describe an outfit or item of clothing. Those Nikes are drippy. 

But I guess it can be used to describe people as well. Basically similar to swag. So this guy is saying he's a fashionable/cool guy.