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It will contribute to antibiotic resistance. PreP for HIV makes sense to me, and I use it. But this is dangerous and, frankly, unnecessary. All the STIs are treatable, and if you're on Doxyprep, you're 99% likely to be on PreP. So why contribute to antibiotic resistance? We're not making new antibiotics and treatment-resistant gonorrhea is on the rise. 

There’s a morning-after pill to prevent sexually transmitted infections
WWW.VOX.COM Why aren’t more doctors prescribing it? OP note: I don't think antibiotics should be taken unless they're needed. 

I had a client that looked just like my paternal grandfather. Just like him, even the eye color. I tripped out and my grandfather had a rare ethnic ancestry and I never saw his penis, thank God, but the clients dick was hung like mine and our beautiful mushroom heads looked identical. We had a kick out of it. It was interesting and nice blowing a penis was just like my own.
 
Off topic but I hated that grandfather who is now dead, thank God, and I let the client violently slap me until I got afraid that he was getting too carried away and would kill me or something. I'm sure a psychotherapist would love to analyze that. Anyway...thanks for reading

It's so stupid, they or their digital pimps, believe that the middle finger makes them look straight, tough, and masculine. 
I was offered to model for that mastertim foot fetish websites but all the guys are made to hold up the middle finger and that's not my thing.

I just assume clients that take a long time showering, are doing the incognito thing and they are really taking a dump beforehand. 
So they let the shower run, and then flush when they get out. LOL. 
 
It's much better than pooping but turning on the sink faucet and hoping that no one knows what you're doing, but we all know. 
 
I have a fancy bidet but I prefer clients to also shower if they use it, because it's just nasty and disrespectful to me. I've had clients that just have a natural smelly butt and it's so gross spending that whole time smelling it, and then their smell will remain on my skin and fingernails. It's so damn gross and rude. 
 
If a client has to shower then I prefer them to shower at my place because their asses can sweat on the car ride over. Thanks for listening to my TED talk.

I always cyber stalk and investigate before responding to potential clients. With free websites and apps I can find out everything about you just using only your phone number, and your name definitely helps too. 
I tend to not meet someone if I cannot verify and screen his identity.
Sometimes I feel bad for denying a client based on disliking his annoying social media posts, but whatever.
 
It's foolish when closeted/married clients pay me electronically. A client that's well known gay conversion therapist did that. I warned him that some people are petty.
 
And I love it when a client flakes on me and I already have his wife's social media and cell phone number at my disposal. Fools!
 
So my advice is to investigate yourself online and not use anything connected to your phone number and real name. Don't have your real name on any social media accounts, and always pay with cash.
 
This is another tip that has to do with something more sinister but I doubt any of you, or most of you, will ever encounter it: make sure you flush your semen. Never leave any fluids behind because some of us will/can take it and preserve it to keep you coming back or obtain more from you. I've noticed that clients from a particular ethnic group that is aware of these witchy practices will refuse to use my towels and insist on using toilet paper and flushing it.

What I dislike are the silly kooky ads you see everywhere that shows some ridiculous scenario. You can get off just by looking at the ads without any sound, but the way they are produced is like they are mocking the viewer.
Brazzers and the same gay studios make them with the same tired ass pornstars.
It's sensory overload with a condescending demeanor almost like the visual is the equivalent to eating a shitty McDonald's burger or taco bell cheesy beef burrito that you'll regret in an hour.

Some people actually get off on just talking and endless texting, and when I notice that I just tell them setting up an appointment isn't difficult and that all the details are on whatever website, and I ignore them and/or block.

I don't like referrals because I'm very picky with my clients so if I don't want to see a client then I feel it might reflect poorly on the original client that referred me.
 
Only a few times have the referrals been a lot cuter and had more chemistry than the original client, and more times than not, the referrals are ugly and I would decline to work on them if I had a choice beforehand.
 
I have a personal list of new, younger masseurs and escorts that I refer to clients that I don't want. Of course I never contact them and ask them, but I consider it a nice sacrificial act.

Take a lesson from Max, the one-time, and, short-lived "Alex Summit" if RentBoy:  Go for the Gold, that is, an exclusive, mutually beneficial "arrangement" with a gentleman of means, in his case the heir to a NYC real estate fortune, who can "properly" appreciate that which you have to offer and can enable you in the realization of your ambitions. He might be a toad in his physical appearance and his manner might leave a lot to be desired, but you will have less "wear and tear" on your body and spirit. Make certain, and this is the caveat of the thing I propose, that you are mindful of your place in the relationship; that the day will come, as with Max, that your benefactor finds you old in body and more of an aggravation than amusement, and, thereby, the titles to the moto vehicle and condo are in your name and you have cash stashed in a safety deposit box. I pray you good fortune in your enterprise.

If the provider is Latino, I pay attention to the grammar and word use in the ad. Bad grammar = probably doesn't speak English well.

When I see intuitive I assume they have little to no formal training and I pass. I require a certain amount of technical know-how.

Sorry to dash your hopes but that's not what it means.
An "intuitive" masseur simply means they are good at reading the needs of your body in terms of tensions /pain etc.and how to heal you. 
Nobody needs intuition to understand what a boner means. 🍆

I believe it’s referring to using their training and skills to locate knots and ateas of stress etc etc simply by applying their hands to your body and “knowingly sensing” where they need to fix things. I think masseurs throw that word around a lot to convey their expertise. 

Hello,
I see a lot of masseurs on masseurfinder state that they are "intuitive."  I am always confused by what that means in a massage context.  Could it possibly (hopefully) mean that they are open to extras or a more sensual massage.  I recognize that I can ask, but would like to have some idea if this is code before I waste anyone's time.

I always thought it meant if you get hard that they’ll pull a load out without you having to ask for it. 

The fact that her refusal to get treatment was accepted and she wasn't locked up and treated but left on the street is the reason she's dead. 

Even the gay life in San Francisco died down compared to what it used to be in the past. Nowadays we have the drug addiction problem and the massive amount of homelessness eating up the city. It sucks because the place is gorgeous and full of history. What it always like this? 

Hey California guys! Let us know how you are preparing for and getting through your first Hurricane in decades.

This guy makes scented candles and sprays, just look up the label or Xander McGee.
 

This guy makes scented candles and sprays, just look up the label or Xander McGee.
 

This guy makes scented candles and sprays, just look up the label or Xander McGee.
 

Sorry off topic, but I love the commercial and seeing this guy. He's soooooooo hot. I want him before he lost the weight too.
 

Some people are so open minded their brains have fallen out…
I’m all for calling people what they want. But this feels somehow like…virtual signaling.
My first boyfriend was trans. I didn’t mind and made that clear from the beginning. To me, it is was about him, not his gender identity, that I was attracted to. But he was often bringing it up. It was as if since I didn’t see it as noteworthy (as normal) he was displeased or unsatisfied at least. He and I have since split and he is dating another transman now.
This is a difficult situation for me. I want to be a full-throated supporter but it seems to me the goalposts are always moving and now people who don’t seem to have any intention of living anything but an outwardly cisgender life are somehow “nonbinary.” Enjoy the outward privilege of binary identification until among those who would feel guilty if they misgendered a nonbinary person. It just seems off to me…
I probably have said too much…