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A week ago we arranged a meeting, discussed details, confirmed twice in the ensuing days, and then he bailed on me shortly before our meeting, leaving me to scramble for a suitable replacement. Not going to hire him again. 

I'm much better off married. I have big needs and have trouble satisfying them by myself. My husband is very stable, reliable and loyal and has an extraordinarily strong character.  With his nurturing and support I have done amazing things with my life these past thirty years.  One of the most important things he does for me is that he reminds ME all the time about what a strong man I am.  Of course it becomes routine - but I rely on that routine as a sort of compass.   We've helped each other through a lot of shit AIDS, the financial crisis, the pandemic, the deaths of our mothers,  needing to get a loan modification on our house after the financial crisis, his business failing after the financial crisis.  I've been hospitalized 5 times over the course of our relationship, had three major surgeries.  He has been hospitalized twice for life-threatening kidney infections.  And through it all, we have cared for and looked after each other and been there.  It seems every time we come through a hardship, our relationship is stronger.

I haven’t seen any porn in years…so why do you describe him as a “porn mainstay” @snogaholic ?
I followed the link. The review you described is certainly a stinker. And I’m no expert on marketing but his working-name?! As a top, I do like bottoms but I’ve never sought a “damaged” one.

Poor country full of handsome Spanish guys....you have to ask if they'd do more for a price ? The answer is predominantly "yes".
Plus Spanish-American culture consistently values "daddy"...so the North American prejudice against age is upside down when you travel South.

Shortly after I turned sixteen I got a job as a utility at a K-mart Supercenter. I got it the week before Thanksgiving with the idea that I would work there for some time. Wrong. I made it through New Year's and quit. It was absolutely the most miserable job experience of my life with the most miserable people I have ever worked with. No wonder the company failed. You might say that I didn't have perspective at that age, but I have had employment of some sort since I was 12 years old without interruption, often multiple part/time jobs at once while maintaining 4.0 grades in school. So work, and hard work was not something that scared me. I left Kmart literally to dig ditches for my best friend's brother's cable company, and was much happier. To be fair, digging ditches and trenches to bury cable taught me I wanted to do something different long-term, but it was a far cry better than being a utility at a Kmart during the holidays. Mind you, it wasn't the customers who were intolerable, it was the apathetic and horrible attitudes of the management and fellow employees that made the lasting negative impression on me. Never have I dreaded going to work like I did there - before or since.

To my mind @tassojunior that’s a very French way of thinking.
 
I’ve often seen ‘luxury’ businesses there interpret a slackening of demand for their products as a reason to increase the price. This applies to art dealers, antique shops, perfumers as well as Hermes. 
 
 

To my mind @tassojunior that’s a very French way of thinking.
 
I’ve often seen ‘luxury’ businesses there interpret a slackening of demand for their products as a reason to increase the price. This applies to art dealers, antique shops, perfumers as well as Hermes. 
 
 

amazingly to many of our physically bright guys, the natural instinct when covid cuts your clients in half is to charge 2x as much to the remaining clients to make up the difference, pushing demand to zero. 
the shortage is mostly clients, not providers. 

I feel for you @agentgemini  It’s very frustrating when someone ‘no shows’. 
 
To answer your 1st question: this happened to me some years ago. I was left waiting on an overnight date in LA with a very well-reviewed muscleboy who was exactly ‘my type’. I was upset but stayed calm. I finally reached him by phone 4 hours after the time he’d set. He was very apologetic (but gave no reason) and begged for a second chance. A month later, I’d fixed another overnight from 6.30pm and I phoned him as arranged at 4pm with the WeHo hotel room number. He said he’d hurt himself and had to go to hospital. (I phoned him later on another phone to check how he was; he didn’t recognise my voice and instantly told me he was free to meet; I said I’d think it over) 
To answer your 2nd question: always have a Plan B. Because the well-reviewed versatile muscleboy had let me down once, I had the numbers of 4 other LA muscleboys with me. I phoned 3 and quickly set up dates. I saw a lovely guy for sex before dinner. Afterwards I had a well-muscled guy (later I discovered he was famous) for a great session before I slept. In the morning, I had the 3rd guy come and service me before breakfast. 
I had loads of fun with the 3 muscleboys and the 3 dates in total cost less than I’d agreed for the overnight with the ‘no show’. 

Well this isn’t my first Rodeo and I have never taken anyone to a 5star dining experience and regardless of their age, I didn’t think I was taking a Barn Animal out 

I've encountered a number of very hung total bottoms over the years. I wondered if maybe larger cock correlates with a larger and/or more sensitive prostate.

I feel for you @agentgemini  It’s very frustrating when someone ‘no shows’. 
 
To answer your 1st question: this happened to me some years ago. I was left waiting on an overnight date in LA with a very well-reviewed muscleboy who was exactly ‘my type’. I was upset but stayed calm. I finally reached him by phone 4 hours after the time he’d set. He was very apologetic (but gave no reason) and begged for a second chance. A month later, I’d fixed another overnight from 6.30pm and I phoned him as arranged at 4pm with the WeHo hotel room number. He said he’d hurt himself and had to go to hospital. (I phoned him later on another phone to check how he was; he didn’t recognise my voice and instantly told me he was free to meet; I said I’d think it over) 
To answer your 2nd question: always have a Plan B. Because the well-reviewed versatile muscleboy had let me down once, I had the numbers of 4 other LA muscleboys with me. I phoned 3 and quickly set up dates. I saw a lovely guy for sex before dinner. Afterwards I had a well-muscled guy (later I discovered he was famous) for a great session before I slept. In the morning, I had the 3rd guy come and service me before breakfast. 
I had loads of fun with the 3 muscleboys and the 3 dates in total cost less than I’d agreed for the overnight with the ‘no show’. 

I try not to be "that guy" who only posts, "he's hot", but......
He's hot. 

And you're shocked this puppy lacks manners in other areas too ?

I don’t disagree with you @lonely_john.
 
I always think that, when escort demands seem excessive, very politely saying ‘No, thank you. But good luck to you” remains the greatest power a prospective client has. 

Did Broadway dim its lights tonight in honour of Mr Sondheim?
In London, all the theatres in the West End will dim their lights to mourn his passing on Monday evening (at 7pm for 2 minutes)

I feel for you @agentgemini  It’s very frustrating when someone ‘no shows’. 
 
To answer your 1st question: this happened to me some years ago. I was left waiting on an overnight date in LA with a very well-reviewed muscleboy who was exactly ‘my type’. I was upset but stayed calm. I finally reached him by phone 4 hours after the time he’d set. He was very apologetic (but gave no reason) and begged for a second chance. A month later, I’d fixed another overnight from 6.30pm and I phoned him as arranged at 4pm with the WeHo hotel room number. He said he’d hurt himself and had to go to hospital. (I phoned him later on another phone to check how he was; he didn’t recognise my voice and instantly told me he was free to meet; I said I’d think it over) 
To answer your 2nd question: always have a Plan B. Because the well-reviewed versatile muscleboy had let me down once, I had the numbers of 4 other LA muscleboys with me. I phoned 3 and quickly set up dates. I saw a lovely guy for sex before dinner. Afterwards I had a well-muscled guy (later I discovered he was famous) for a great session before I slept. In the morning, I had the 3rd guy come and service me before breakfast. 
I had loads of fun with the 3 muscleboys and the 3 dates in total cost less than I’d agreed for the overnight with the ‘no show’. 

I feel for you @agentgemini  It’s very frustrating when someone ‘no shows’. 
 
To answer your 1st question: this happened to me some years ago. I was left waiting on an overnight date in LA with a very well-reviewed muscleboy who was exactly ‘my type’. I was upset but stayed calm. I finally reached him by phone 4 hours after the time he’d set. He was very apologetic (but gave no reason) and begged for a second chance. A month later, I’d fixed another overnight from 6.30pm and I phoned him as arranged at 4pm with the WeHo hotel room number. He said he’d hurt himself and had to go to hospital. (I phoned him later on another phone to check how he was; he didn’t recognise my voice and instantly told me he was free to meet; I said I’d think it over) 
To answer your 2nd question: always have a Plan B. Because the well-reviewed versatile muscleboy had let me down once, I had the numbers of 4 other LA muscleboys with me. I phoned 3 and quickly set up dates. I saw a lovely guy for sex before dinner. Afterwards I had a well-muscled guy (later I discovered he was famous) for a great session before I slept. In the morning, I had the 3rd guy come and service me before breakfast. 
I had loads of fun with the 3 muscleboys and the 3 dates in total cost less than I’d agreed for the overnight with the ‘no show’. 

I feel for you @agentgemini  It’s very frustrating when someone ‘no shows’. 
 
To answer your 1st question: this happened to me some years ago. I was left waiting on an overnight date in LA with a very well-reviewed muscleboy who was exactly ‘my type’. I was upset but stayed calm. I finally reached him by phone 4 hours after the time he’d set. He was very apologetic (but gave no reason) and begged for a second chance. A month later, I’d fixed another overnight from 6.30pm and I phoned him as arranged at 4pm with the WeHo hotel room number. He said he’d hurt himself and had to go to hospital. (I phoned him later on another phone to check how he was; he didn’t recognise my voice and instantly told me he was free to meet; I said I’d think it over) 
To answer your 2nd question: always have a Plan B. Because the well-reviewed versatile muscleboy had let me down once, I had the numbers of 4 other LA muscleboys with me. I phoned 3 and quickly set up dates. I saw a lovely guy for sex before dinner. Afterwards I had a well-muscled guy (later I discovered he was famous) for a great session before I slept. In the morning, I had the 3rd guy come and service me before breakfast. 
I had loads of fun with the 3 muscleboys and the 3 dates in total cost less than I’d agreed for the overnight with the ‘no show’. 

I feel you’ve answered the OP’s questions very well @sjmuktop
I’d just add that years ago when I hired, I wasn’t concerned if an escort asked for my pic or asked about my age, weight, sexual preferences etc.  I was always picky when dating and I accepted that escorts might be picky too. I much preferred to find out in advance that we would not be compatible . It saved me time and money, and spared me an unsatisfactory date. 

My sangfroid usually allows me to brush these things off, considering that the vast majority of my interactions have been positive. That said, a gorgeous blond who I flew out for a weekend to LA from Detroit and with whom I had a marvelous time failed to appear for a weekend in Philadelphia months later, with no response. The fare was around a little over a hundred bucks, so I shrugged and called Premier and ordered in a doppelgänger.

I feel you’ve answered the OP’s questions very well @sjmuktop
I’d just add that years ago when I hired, I wasn’t concerned if an escort asked for my pic or asked about my age, weight, sexual preferences etc.  I was always picky when dating and I accepted that escorts might be picky too. I much preferred to find out in advance that we would not be compatible . It saved me time and money, and spared me an unsatisfactory date. 

I feel for you @agentgemini  It’s very frustrating when someone ‘no shows’. 
 
To answer your 1st question: this happened to me some years ago. I was left waiting on an overnight date in LA with a very well-reviewed muscleboy who was exactly ‘my type’. I was upset but stayed calm. I finally reached him by phone 4 hours after the time he’d set. He was very apologetic (but gave no reason) and begged for a second chance. A month later, I’d fixed another overnight from 6.30pm and I phoned him as arranged at 4pm with the WeHo hotel room number. He said he’d hurt himself and had to go to hospital. (I phoned him later on another phone to check how he was; he didn’t recognise my voice and instantly told me he was free to meet; I said I’d think it over) 
To answer your 2nd question: always have a Plan B. Because the well-reviewed versatile muscleboy had let me down once, I had the numbers of 4 other LA muscleboys with me. I phoned 3 and quickly set up dates. I saw a lovely guy for sex before dinner. Afterwards I had a well-muscled guy (later I discovered he was famous) for a great session before I slept. In the morning, I had the 3rd guy come and service me before breakfast. 
I had loads of fun with the 3 muscleboys and the 3 dates in total cost less than I’d agreed for the overnight with the ‘no show’. 

Patti LuPone doing justice to "Ladies who Lunch." Such a legacy but glad we still have those who can interpret his work with such verve and wit.  
 

I feel you’ve answered the OP’s questions very well @sjmuktop
I’d just add that years ago when I hired, I wasn’t concerned if an escort asked for my pic or asked about my age, weight, sexual preferences etc.  I was always picky when dating and I accepted that escorts might be picky too. I much preferred to find out in advance that we would not be compatible . It saved me time and money, and spared me an unsatisfactory date.