Versatiles assumed to be tops

[jeezifonly]

I love that I find tidbits like 

This… Ahem…

(Thank you Qweerty!)

Isn’t this just a porn trope? How extensive does one’s real life experience need to be to counter such nonsense? I’m pretty sure my own trail of youthful trysts gave me a clue in less than a year…

We have to remember that non-binary applies to more than just gender… 

 

[Jamie21]

Ha ha, it’s true though. Often hung guys are assumed to be top only. I’m not complaining because I do usually like to top. I’m very big which most bottoms seem to see as a challenge lol. But come on guys, even if you’re average size or small I’m really glad if you want to fuck me back. 

[+ poolboy48220]

Long long ago, when I first discovered the internet as a source of porn, there was a site with a guy with a big dick who was mostly a bottom.  i remember some people commenting it was such a shame that he didn't like to top.  Damn, I wish I could remember his name. 

[+ sniper]

I've encountered a number of very hung total bottoms over the years. I wondered if maybe larger cock correlates with a larger and/or more sensitive prostate.

[Rudynate]

6 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Ha ha, it’s true though. Often hung guys are assumed to be top only. I’m not complaining because I do usually like to top. I’m very big which most bottoms seem to see as a challenge lol. But come on guys, even if you’re average size or small I’m really glad if you want to fuck me back. 

I love to suck big dicks.  Doesn't matter whether he's bottom or top.

 

[HotWhiteThirties]

I love being vers and certainly appreciate a well endowed chap, but an awesome ass gets my top juices going and I don't care whether he's large or small. I do feel for the guy in the referenced article, and can see how that can play into the psyche, but sad that he thinks dick size means he can't enjoy topping someone larger than him. I've topped guys both larger and smaller, or maybe we have flipped depending on the vibe. One guy was huge in the dick department, larger than me, but was a major bottom - probably the best I've ever had...and that's all he wanted and we were both satisfied. 

[jeezifonly]

Isn’t it sort of a grumble-brag?

”I love getting fucked in the ass, but my dick’s too big” 

[+ Tygerscent]

20 hours ago, Jamie21 said:

Ha ha, it’s true though. Often hung guys are assumed to be top only. I’m not complaining because I do usually like to top. I’m very big which most bottoms seem to see as a challenge lol. But come on guys, even if you’re average size or small I’m really glad if you want to fuck me back. 

 I top 99.9% of the time… rarely does anyone ever venture to the playground in the backyard~ 

 Even when I’m hired to bottom, I end up topping before my bottoming has ever begun~ 

 It just seems to worK out that way~
 
 I’m do the hygiene thing before every appointment despite no attendance later on~ I like to feel “light” when I’m playing, (although I sometimes get “food hard ons” after dining). 
 
 Anal sex is fun… it feels good~ A prostate massage done with finesse can be an aesthetic experience: Blissful and relaxing~ 

 “Topping” and “bottoming” are such loaded words… they are also inaccurate~ Using the words for general purposes of quickly discernIng preferences works most of the time but, more accurate for me has been to think in terms of actions and positions: topping and bottoming are sometimes also stand with the stereotypes and stigma is of sub and dom~ That’s were I find the inaccuracy~

 For example… I had a “sub”~ he was on the ground and spread eagle… His arms were restrained of a gross head… I’ve been doing all kinds of things to him and he was hard as a rock. I threw a towel over his head so he couldn’t see and basically forced him to fuck me~ He would never fuck me on his own… He would never do anything to me on his own~ He’s submissive and doesn’t initiate any kind of action towards me at all~ I’m definitely running the show there~
 His dick was beautiful and hard… I straddled myself over him pushing that towel agains this face and rode his dick in a way that made me feel good. Is hot a big load all over his chest and the towel~ It excited him and he got embarrassed and told me he was close. That out fire into my eyes~ I refused to stop, rode his dick and he shot a big, juicy load~ He stayed hard for over half an hour after he came~ So, after some relaxation on my part, and while touching him gently the entire time, I jerked/forced another load out of him~ 

 Fun~!!!
 Despite having just taken his dick up my ass, I was still the top and he was defiantly the bottom~ 

 Top and bottom, dom and sub don’t necessarily correlate to what’s going on~
 

 On the flip side of that, I’ve seen guys who are tied up, getting fucked, sucking cock, eating ass or whatever and they are unmistakably the figure of dominance and in control~   

 I’m very “go with whatever feels good & is escalating the intensity of the moments”~
 Despite being dominant and loving to fuck, that can include having my ass plated with or taking a dick up the ass~ It just rarely happens~ 

 I can even role play being submissive but, it isn’t who I am by nature and so, it’s just a role play thing I’d get into on a kinky pervy dirty day~ (We all have those)~

[+ Tygerscent]

14 hours ago, sniper said:

I've encountered a number of very hung total bottoms over the years. I wondered if maybe larger cock correlates with a larger and/or more sensitive prostate.

That’s an interesting idea… So, the question is: To what extent do the size and location of one’s prostate influence once’s propensity to seek out receptive anal sex~
Well done~! 
 I’ve had some guys with smaller dicks and you also have very tiny tight prostates who love to get fucked and when they shoot they shoot like rockets. 
There’s other guys I’ve played with and I’ve noticed that their prostates are flattened and almost filleted out~ they seem to take a longer time to come but also get a lot of pleasure from it and when they do come their prostate tightens up and gets almost pointy upon orgasm. I can feel that on my finger as well as on the back or front of my dick~ 

 your idea has sparked my curiosity and so now I’m gonna be paying more attention. Thank you for that insight~! 

Edited November 30, 2021 by Tygerscent

[+ Tygerscent]

14 hours ago, Rudynate said:

I love to suck big dicks.  Doesn't matter whether he's bottom or top.

 

Yeah… I get that. I’m a top but, I also like to suck dick. I don’t really care if it’s big dick. I actually prefer average size dick or smaller. If it’s more than I can fit in my mouth I feel like it’s a bit wasted. I also like balls that get peach pit tight…  
 Sometimes they form a little cave in the center of their scrotum. I can put my finger, my tongue and even my dick in there. My dick goes in the scrotum hole and down along the base of their dick~ When I fuck their peach pit it’s just like fucking pussy. It’s so fucking hot~ Dumping a load into that peach pit pussy is a great option when guys want to get fucked but, for any number of reasons anal isn’t open for business~ 
 It’s even hotter if I can fit their dick and their ball sack in my mouth at the same time. I nurse on all of those goodies like a baby suckling for milk. So hot~ 

 On the other end of that… It’s fun to teabag a nice set of balls… See if I can get them in my mouth both at the same time very gently and caress them with my tongue. There’s something ironic about sort of choking on all of that~ 

 All of that aside: inevitably, my destination is the sweet, velvety dick purse in coconut grove~ I want ASS~!

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Edited November 30, 2021 by Tygerscent

[Rudynate]

Gosh, I love talkin sex with you, Tyger.

[+ friendofsheila]

Versatiles assumed to be awesome

Fixed it for you.