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Personally I am always polite but direct in expressing my desires.
I would compliment the masseur in some way and say “I always enjoy getting sucked off. And I love it when it’s to completion.” 
Then add “If you’re fine with that, I have to tell you it drives me insane when a hot guy like you swallows my load”
That allows the masseur to understand what you want and if need be, to negotiate with you.
So stay polite and be generous.

Is this the same provider who needs a luxury car? Alfie?

A great moment for Barcelona and for Spain, no doubt, and quite the spectacle for all to see. BUT ... the architecture of the building has always been polarizing. Personally, I find its design at best unconventional and at worst approaching the grotesque, lacking in both charm and grace. Big? Absolutely! Warm, comforting, inviting? For me, not so much, as I prefer the lines and symmetry of St. Patrick's in New York, London's Westminster Abbey, or St. Peter's in Rome; traditional vs avant-garde. But some love escargot and others don't. It's a matter of taste.

How would you describe his natural role? Versatile, does it all; Masc dom top; Affectionate sub bottom?
And what sort of fee for 1-2 hours?

Mark, you have inadvertently spoken for a number of us who have been here for years...

I totally endorse what @Charlie wrote. Do it while you’re still healthy and feel fit and capable. 
If you wish to take ‘baby steps’, I’d suggest you first take a lengthy vacation say 3-6 months. You’ll get a good idea of the place you choose and can decide whether you want to visit for longer and travel within that country. 
 
FWIW
(1) I lived in San Francisco for over 2 years, even tho I’d always preferred Sourhern California  - I enjoyed my time in SF very much but my preference remains unchanged. 
(2) I lived in Buenos Aires for more than a year. I had some acquaintances there and I made a couple of friends, and I speak and read Spanish at what’s classed as ‘an advanced level’. Again I enjoyed that time and I had a lot of fun. But the problems of living there (bad pollution, high level of crime - I was not a victim, but I witnessed street crimes, general difficulties with banking and bureaucracy) led me to decide that was enough. 
 
(3) I lived in Amsterdam for more than a year. I made strenuous efforts to learn Dutch and that helped me immensely to make friends and access the quite distinct culture. I enjoyed it and it’s a useful base if you wish to visit Europe more widely
I’d recommend the Baltic countries or Spain first as English is very widely spoken. It’s relatively easy to learn Spanish, and you could learn some basic phrases in the Baltic countries as it won’t be expected but it will be appreciated. And on a geopolitical front, I’d visit the Baltic countries before Putin decides to expand his territorial ambitions and embarks on another military adventure. 

If you do a google image search on the picture with the back tattoo and look for exact matches, it hits on several.
Except it isn't matching now - that's interesting.
Ah but yes it is - if you search on this image
 
https://media01.rent.men/public/photos/crop/224/1538397_1780605224_FC8rM35h9V.jpg
 
 

I met several men using DMs on IG. My advice is to keep your messages succinct and polite.
I used to say to guys with ‘fitness’ or ‘muscle building’ profiles that I wanted to get in great shape and was interested in personal training IRL.
I told them I was happy to pay appropriately and I gave them a way to respond to me direct. 
I did not put anything sexual in the DM - nothing about my preferences/wishes etc.
Hot guys get a lot of DMs so you want your messages to stand out in a good way. 
I agree.
What surprised me is that several guys told me how nice it was to get a serious message.
It turns out that lots of DMs are crudely written and crass.
Not so much “OMG you’re so hot!” but more “Wanna fuck?” or “How much? I’ll swallow your load”

Aloha! The number of visits I've made to the Valley Isle - and only once was there a provider actively working, in Kihei, and this was several years ago, and we were unable to connect. Maui is very gay friendly, but the tourist trade to this island is overall not in search of MM massage, I guess. 
If great fish tacos, whales and trade winds aren't enough of a treat, you may have to book a commuter hop to Honolulu, which can be done from Kapalua (up north) or the main airport in Kahului. Cheers! 
 

I met several men using DMs on IG. My advice is to keep your messages succinct and polite.
I used to say to guys with ‘fitness’ or ‘muscle building’ profiles that I wanted to get in great shape and was interested in personal training IRL.
I told them I was happy to pay appropriately and I gave them a way to respond to me direct. 
I did not put anything sexual in the DM - nothing about my preferences/wishes etc.
Hot guys get a lot of DMs so you want your messages to stand out in a good way. 
I agree.
What surprised me is that several guys told me how nice it was to get a serious message.
It turns out that lots of DMs are crudely written and crass.
Not so much “OMG you’re so hot!” but more “Wanna fuck?” or “How much? I’ll swallow your load”

Very much agree.
That is the essential point: you become a regular client first.

I always preferred to date one guy regularly. Over time, I dated 3 good guys who enjoyed my company (and my wallet, of course). They OFFERED me a substantial discount.
One charged me 50% of market rates because I ended up seeing him 2-3x a week, and I’d pay for drinks & dinner.
Another guy lived in a small room, so he liked to stay with me overnight; we’d have fun and I’d take him out to dinner on a weekly basis. He always took me out for breakfast. He too charged about half the usual rate for overnight dates.
A third man was very good in bed and, after a couple of dates, he told me he wanted to go on an overseas trip with me. He was great company on a one-week vacation; I paid all the costs of course, and he asked only for some spending money equivalent to one overnight.  
That was my preferred ‘dating pool’, what I termed “enthusiastic amateurs”. I met some very nice men whom I dated for years, and I’m still in touch with several. 

I’m sorry I can’t help you.
I own a lot of inflation-proofed securities, but all the things I enjoy consuming seem to increase in price at a faster pace.
If you do find your desirable man at yesteryear’s price, I shall be pleased for you.
It will encourage me to find dinner in a good restaurant (with great food & wine) on the UES for only $250 for two.

I guess I'm still stuck on one thing I read in this thread: For an overnight a client would rent a separate hotel room for a provider?  Unless the client simply doesn't like to sleep with anyone, whether that be in the same bed or the same room, I don't understand hiring someone for an overnight but then having them not be with the client.  

Very much agree.
That is the essential point: you become a regular client first.

I always preferred to date one guy regularly. Over time, I dated 3 good guys who enjoyed my company (and my wallet, of course). They OFFERED me a substantial discount.
One charged me 50% of market rates because I ended up seeing him 2-3x a week, and I’d pay for drinks & dinner.
Another guy lived in a small room, so he liked to stay with me overnight; we’d have fun and I’d take him out to dinner on a weekly basis. He always took me out for breakfast. He too charged about half the usual rate for overnight dates.
A third man was very good in bed and, after a couple of dates, he told me he wanted to go on an overseas trip with me. He was great company on a one-week vacation; I paid all the costs of course, and he asked only for some spending money equivalent to one overnight.  
That was my preferred ‘dating pool’, what I termed “enthusiastic amateurs”. I met some very nice men whom I dated for years, and I’m still in touch with several. 

As others have suggested, don’t overthink this @BCMan 
It seems you have discovered that escorts are not mind-readers.
It’s good that you’re gracious, but it’s simply proper behaviour to look after a guest.
I’d suggest to you that, as part of the preliminaries before meeting a new man for a date, you ask whether the two of you will be compatible in bed.
For example, I used to say
‘I love foreplay and deep kissing’ and  
’I like to see a fit guy in sexy underwear/classic white briefs/a jockstrap’ and
’I’m only a top and I’ve a dominant streak’ and  
‘I love getting my dick sucked, especially to completion, and I really love it when a hot guy like you swallows my load’.
Whatever your fantasy or kink or simple preference is,  I’m sure the other guy has heard all sorts of requests.

Very much agree.
That is the essential point: you become a regular client first.

I always preferred to date one guy regularly. Over time, I dated 3 good guys who enjoyed my company (and my wallet, of course). They OFFERED me a substantial discount.
One charged me 50% of market rates because I ended up seeing him 2-3x a week, and I’d pay for drinks & dinner.
Another guy lived in a small room, so he liked to stay with me overnight; we’d have fun and I’d take him out to dinner on a weekly basis. He always took me out for breakfast. He too charged about half the usual rate for overnight dates.
A third man was very good in bed and, after a couple of dates, he told me he wanted to go on an overseas trip with me. He was great company on a one-week vacation; I paid all the costs of course, and he asked only for some spending money equivalent to one overnight.  
That was my preferred ‘dating pool’, what I termed “enthusiastic amateurs”. I met some very nice men whom I dated for years, and I’m still in touch with several. 

Very much agree.
That is the essential point: you become a regular client first.

I always preferred to date one guy regularly. Over time, I dated 3 good guys who enjoyed my company (and my wallet, of course). They OFFERED me a substantial discount.
One charged me 50% of market rates because I ended up seeing him 2-3x a week, and I’d pay for drinks & dinner.
Another guy lived in a small room, so he liked to stay with me overnight; we’d have fun and I’d take him out to dinner on a weekly basis. He always took me out for breakfast. He too charged about half the usual rate for overnight dates.
A third man was very good in bed and, after a couple of dates, he told me he wanted to go on an overseas trip with me. He was great company on a one-week vacation; I paid all the costs of course, and he asked only for some spending money equivalent to one overnight.  
That was my preferred ‘dating pool’, what I termed “enthusiastic amateurs”. I met some very nice men whom I dated for years, and I’m still in touch with several. 

I’m sorry I can’t help you.
I own a lot of inflation-proofed securities, but all the things I enjoy consuming seem to increase in price at a faster pace.
If you do find your desirable man at yesteryear’s price, I shall be pleased for you.
It will encourage me to find dinner in a good restaurant (with great food & wine) on the UES for only $250 for two.

Met an absolute cutie on grindr yesterday 
$300
We chilled got to know one another then had great sex 
Didn’t have to worry about being one of many that day - and the vibe was great - he wasn’t age shaving or sharing old pics 
For me this is much much better than rentmen 

I’m sorry I can’t help you.
I own a lot of inflation-proofed securities, but all the things I enjoy consuming seem to increase in price at a faster pace.
If you do find your desirable man at yesteryear’s price, I shall be pleased for you.
It will encourage me to find dinner in a good restaurant (with great food & wine) on the UES for only $250 for two.

I’m sorry I can’t help you.
I own a lot of inflation-proofed securities, but all the things I enjoy consuming seem to increase in price at a faster pace.
If you do find your desirable man at yesteryear’s price, I shall be pleased for you.
It will encourage me to find dinner in a good restaurant (with great food & wine) on the UES for only $250 for two.

I met several men using DMs on IG. My advice is to keep your messages succinct and polite.
I used to say to guys with ‘fitness’ or ‘muscle building’ profiles that I wanted to get in great shape and was interested in personal training IRL.
I told them I was happy to pay appropriately and I gave them a way to respond to me direct. 
I did not put anything sexual in the DM - nothing about my preferences/wishes etc.
Hot guys get a lot of DMs so you want your messages to stand out in a good way. 
I agree.
What surprised me is that several guys told me how nice it was to get a serious message.
It turns out that lots of DMs are crudely written and crass.
Not so much “OMG you’re so hot!” but more “Wanna fuck?” or “How much? I’ll swallow your load”

Baldness is hot on the right guy.  The problem is that not everyone has the right head shape and facial features to carry it off, and the lack of hair can turn an average looking guy into an unattractive guy.  Worse, however, is someone who tries to hide the fact that he has a large bald spot by doing a comb over or having long hair on other areas of his head.  Bald or extremely short hair always looks better than someone trying to hide his bald spot.

Short answer to the OP: I’m not.
For me, it’s happening anyway….no matter what I do.
So I focus on having an enjoyable life and I do something nice every single day.

Short answer to the OP: I’m not.
For me, it’s happening anyway….no matter what I do.
So I focus on having an enjoyable life and I do something nice every single day.