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Ben Murphy - an actor I saw in the 70s in ‘Alias Smith and Jones’. He had long hair, such a pretty face and a smooth muscled body. 
 

I remember him from years ago. Back then, he had a very good body (having recently been on the US gymnastics team IIRC). 
 
We had a very nice, vanilla date and I guess he would, in today’s parlance, be best described as a short king. 

This really resonated with me. Currently I have a friend in his 40s (expert corporate lawyer) being made redundant by a very profitable multinational. 
 
This too resonated. I have a good friend in his mid-60s who doesn’t save and doesn’t realise how financially reckless he is. I’m very concerned for him but he rejects advice.

Bless you, @Charlie 
As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.

Bless you, @Charlie 
As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.

Yes, there are lots of hourly hotels in Buenos Aires. Locally such hotels are known as ‘telos’.
Several of them are located on a side street near the cemetery in Recoleta. Locals do use them. Access to them is easy and no-one blinks if you’re a gay couple rather than a heterosexual couple.
Over the years, I’ve used several. The room sizes and amenities do vary - eg some have mirrored ceilings - but all were clean and had showers etc. I always paid in cash.
I can’t comment on rates as I haven’t visited since pre-pandemic days. The fee is certainly much less than you’d pay in the US or Europe.
 
Of course, it’s much easier to negotiate if you speak Spanish well. If you only speak English, be sure that you specify the currency: prices in Pesos are often shown as $ while prices in dollars may be shown as USD. I think it’s important to note that like other nationalities, Argentines enjoy being treated with respect and they dislike crass behaviour. 
As I alluded to earlier in this thread, I have paid high fees in the past. I once had a ‘holiday romance’ with a local heart-throb. He was an actor, a very handsome man who I happened to speak to in the street, and we hit it off. He looked after me regularly for most of my month-long stay. My point is that tho his fee was high, the time it bought was far in excess of the time you’d get in the US or Europe. I still fondly recall a 4day weekend when I took him to the beach in Uruguay - he was a passionate and loving companion, and I had a great time - where I paid all our costs and afterwards asked him what he needed. He asked for US$300 and I gave him US$1000. 
 
If you do a search, there’s lots of info here on Argentina. 

Bless you, @Charlie 
As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.

Bless you, @Charlie 
As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.

Bless you, @Charlie 
As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.

Bless you, @Charlie 
As long as you have a strong and comprehensive memory, you can (like me) reflect on and enjoy again the wonderful times you had in the past.

When I was 22, I couldn't imagine a day when I wouldn't get a hard-on at the sight of an attractive male. At 52, I worried about whether an attractive male could get a hard-on at the sight of me, At 82, I had trouble remembering how to get a hard-on. 

....antibiotic resistant Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, syphilis, and Herpes 2 and warts anyone?

I agree. It’s fundamentally a question of trust.
I had a boyfriend who was a model; he had a superb physique and travelled regularly for work.
Whenever anyone at our gym asked me if I ever worried or was jealous about him having sex with others when away from home, I used a variation on this theme as my response: “he always comes home to me and to sleep in our bed”.
Put simply, people lie and/or dissemble.
The boyfriend I mention above made all the running in our relationship. He told others I was his boyfriend and he told me he loved me. We were living together for over 12 months before I found out that, apart from the modelling work, he was an ultra-discreet escort.
We had a painful and tearful discussion, and we persevered. 
My advice to the OP would be to sit down and frankly discuss your concerns and fears. You should not assume anything. Ask about how you can safeguard your sexual health in future…and get fully tested now if you’re uncertain. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries (or ‘red lines’) if that’s what you want, eg no overnight dates with clients or certain events are sacrosanct and his presence with you is non-negotiable.

I agree. It’s fundamentally a question of trust.
I had a boyfriend who was a model; he had a superb physique and travelled regularly for work.
Whenever anyone at our gym asked me if I ever worried or was jealous about him having sex with others when away from home, I used a variation on this theme as my response: “he always comes home to me and to sleep in our bed”.
Put simply, people lie and/or dissemble.
The boyfriend I mention above made all the running in our relationship. He told others I was his boyfriend and he told me he loved me. We were living together for over 12 months before I found out that, apart from the modelling work, he was an ultra-discreet escort.
We had a painful and tearful discussion, and we persevered. 
My advice to the OP would be to sit down and frankly discuss your concerns and fears. You should not assume anything. Ask about how you can safeguard your sexual health in future…and get fully tested now if you’re uncertain. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries (or ‘red lines’) if that’s what you want, eg no overnight dates with clients or certain events are sacrosanct and his presence with you is non-negotiable.

I agree. It’s fundamentally a question of trust.
I had a boyfriend who was a model; he had a superb physique and travelled regularly for work.
Whenever anyone at our gym asked me if I ever worried or was jealous about him having sex with others when away from home, I used a variation on this theme as my response: “he always comes home to me and to sleep in our bed”.
Put simply, people lie and/or dissemble.
The boyfriend I mention above made all the running in our relationship. He told others I was his boyfriend and he told me he loved me. We were living together for over 12 months before I found out that, apart from the modelling work, he was an ultra-discreet escort.
We had a painful and tearful discussion, and we persevered. 
My advice to the OP would be to sit down and frankly discuss your concerns and fears. You should not assume anything. Ask about how you can safeguard your sexual health in future…and get fully tested now if you’re uncertain. Don’t be afraid to set boundaries (or ‘red lines’) if that’s what you want, eg no overnight dates with clients or certain events are sacrosanct and his presence with you is non-negotiable.

I would think attacking a lawyer and causing serious injury thereto must be one of the dumbest acts possible. By the time the lawyer's lawyers are done grilling you on the stand to squeeze all the money possible out of you, you'll wish they'd just give you the chair.

That would be an excellent extension to the offerings on Prime 😎

That would be an excellent extension to the offerings on Prime 😎

I guess the provider could have got himself delivered by Amazon. 

That was intemperate of you. Let’s call it a rookie mistake. 

You wait charmingly until you’re given expensive jewellery. Then you delete any online details.

True but one factor us senior men need to figure into is the availability of quality health care and medica facilites like world class hospitals. Those things are rarely available in smaller towns and smaller cites even in Europe. Another factor is no matter how quiet and charming and quaint the place may be, will one have an accepting and supporting community and social life being a single gay senior? Those of us that like the younger men and hire will find that is more difficult in smaller areas and hard to pass as unnoticeable by the locals. There are a lot of things that need to be taken into consideration when moving aboard. These or some of the main reasons I chose larger cosmopolitan cities outside of the USA. We take to good with the bad, but services and a social life are important especially when gay and single! 

I’d be astounded if there are any reliable answers or tips on how to find guys there, especially for casual (and possibly Caucasian) visitors.
The homophobia in Jamaica is extreme, and violence is not uncommon.

Last I checked you don't need to break up with someone you're paying. If you hire a painter or a plumber or a massage therapist and they don't do a good job you just don't hire them again... you don't break up with them. Ask him if he'd like to continue seeing you for free and then you won't have to break up with him b/c he'll break up with you.

That's not an insignificant consideration.