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IMO it’s not “mean” to correct politely an untruth. He’s a much older man and as @purplekow suggests “maybe (SD) loves him” but he is not a Prince (ie not royalty) but he has a much less grand title, hence minor aristocrat.

Then I’d urge you to see the production. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed.

I feel this thread has rehashed too much of the history of SD. At the time, both in reviews and in private messages, many clients said they felt they’d been treated as an ATM with some reporting they’d been charged extra when going over the hour by as little as a few minutes. Now he’s retired; not with a Prince but a minor aristocrat, and no castle.

FWIW we saw this in London and enjoyed it very much. Our only disappointment was that we couldn’t get tickets to see it a second time. Also in the UK press it was reported that Mr Sondheim refused another producer who wanted to update it, but was persuaded by Ms Elliott to permit the gender role-change. It said that he became enthusiastic and readily offered to change several songs for the new show.

You’re kidding @marylander1940 In 2003/2004 there were thousands of working guys in Europe, with more than 1000 running adverts in London alone, and I suspect there were many in major US cities. Certainly SD was a very prominent traveling escort. That is so very true. His venom and vitriol were spectacular. SD kept them to private messages for a long time - once he tried to extort me by threatening to ‘out’ me until I pointed out that everyone knew I was gay. Eventually the venom and vitriol spilled out in this forum. He was banned 2x IIRC before he went on to display his true character as IceFireWizard as @ArVaGuy rightly observed. In never meeting SD, I truly feel I dodged a bullet.

Surely if you just want “to lie back and wait”, it depends on you doing exactly what turns you on psychologically and physically ? If that means strapping on a vibrator as in the video or inserting a second vibrator, go for it. Or find a guy who will take charge and do this for and to you. I used to top a blond muscleboy who always came without touching himself: sometimes it was while I was topping him and he was flat on his back; but every time when he was sucking me off, it happened as my cum hit the back of his throat.

Men, please be careful. Like Voldemort in the H Potter books, just mentioning SD so much may bring him back “from the dead”.

@westernsyd I sent you a PM

Assuming that’s not a rhetorical question.... If you have any habits or interests that the law does not condone, the appropriate laws could be invoked.... If you’ve some sex videos on your phone, pornography laws would apply... If you’ve been exchanging messages re a date with an escort, you could be charged with soliciting prostitution

I take issue with this. You’re making contact; the other man is not objecting. You’re assuming that silence equals consent. I think that others are right and this will end badly for you.

Generally posters get more comments and info when they provide links to the man they’re asking about. (And I don’t have time to look this guy up and do that for you)

Yes, a high thread count matters hugely. And I agree about Egyptian cotton. it is important to me that we have good bedlinen and change it often. When it’s been hot here at night in the Summer, we’ve taken to sleeping on Irish linen sheets. Of course, it does mean that the laundry charges are high but I feel it’s a price worth paying.

I had to look him up. I feel he expressed a strange sentiment for this day and age, but maybe that’s because I know many young people who are very open about their sexuality. https://www.out.com/celebs/2019/6/21/brandon-flynn-sort-addresses-his-relationship-rumors

I feel you’ve had several helpful comments here @Dtxstudfinder but I wouldn’t beat yourself up or over-analyse it. I can relate to your situation. I too am a top only and I too like young attractive jocks. FWIW I had a very long-term relationship end 20 years ago and it was difficult to get back into the ‘dating game’ after so many years together. What helped me was crafting a good profile on online sites and joining a gym for regular workouts with personal trainers. I basically went on a lot of dates with men who seemed nice, and I got myself very fit and in good physical shape for a man in his mid40s. Getting very fit gave me more physical confidence. Going on a lot of dates showed me what was out there. I had a decent social life and I certainly kissed a lot of frogs. I also met and dated a few very attractive escorts and that helped me renew my libido; they also taught me some new moves in bed. (I will add here that I do have an old friend who also lost his partner about the same time as me. He has shut himself off from life, never dates and only goes on vacation if I invite him. I find that very sad and I don’t want you to go the same way). I don’t regret what I did. And perhaps it prepared me to respond well when my ‘ideal man’ came into my life more than 5 years ago. I don’t want you to lose heart, but I do want you to put yourself out there and rediscover joy in life.

I’ve no knowledge of him @Reisr30 but he’s certainly very big and built if he is only 22. My guess is that steroids are involved. I mean no disrespect to your choice, and I don’t know what you intend to do together. My suggestion is simply that you check with him on his current state - is he bulking or is he really ripped?

Depending on the amount of ‘entertainment’ you’ll be arranging for that “1 full day”, I’d suggest a large hotel in Midtown where you might book direct. That way, you may be able to arrange in advance for a late checkout and possibly an early check in. (That just reflects my preference for some good cardio before dinner, and for more action in the morning). FWIW I’d suggest you locate the Housekeeper as soon as you get in and tip her well for all the extra towels etc you will probably need. Tho I haven’t stayed in either, the Hilton on 6th Ave/53rd St and the Sheraton on 7th Ave/52nd St seem to be busy, bustling hotels where your guests coming-and-going would be unremarkable.

When do you plan to marry @Unicorn ? You obviously have romantic impulses to a great degree but rather than swap details of houses you “might get” with him, why not swap and discuss details of the pre-nuptial/co-habitation agreement your lawyer should be drafting right now?

I hope it goes well for you @Unicorn My bet is that once the family discover you are financially well-placed, they will want to come and stay on shopping trips, and the requests for gifts and money will soon follow. Be smart and keep a firm hold on your wallet. FWIW I know of a young gay Argentine who married a much older American and of a young gay Peruvian who married an older New Yorker. Both South American families expressed their disgust...but within a few months, both had overcome their horror sufficiently to ask the Americans for money for family parties, vacations etc.

Yum! He’d make a great ‘personal shopper’ for underwear.

To answer your questions: Not recently, tho I spent more than 1 year in Buenos Aires. Be aware that some guys use old photos and some guys change their working name often - best to meet for coffee or a drink in a public place first. You phone the guy and ask him. It helps to speak Spanish as smart guys charge visitors more or ask to be paid in USD. There are lots of ‘telos’ (local slang for hotels that rent rooms by the hour) alongside Recoleta Cemetery. Both gay and str8 couples use telos. And assuming you do speak and read Spanish, there is a local website (such as this) which discusses male and female escorts. Just Google for the name; it’s something like foro-escorts.com.ar

I wouldn’t worry, @edjames. In truth, Vanessa Redgrave contributes little to the play. Of course as a person, she had had a long career in the theatre but I felt her role in this wonderful play was more of a “walk-on role”.

I think this guy is attractive and rather sexy-looking, except for the tattoo on the side of his torso which looks poorly executed.

Interesting thread. I didn’t realise this guy had an ad and was open about escorting. I have never hired anyone for a cam-show but I knew he did do that. The photos are realistic and I checked that he is briefly in Toronto. I met him some years ago when he was just starting out as a body builder. I’m a top only and back then, he was obliging and enthusiastic; decent oral skills and happy to bottom for me. I cannot speak to how he is currently. I put him in that category of guys who may not define as gay but prize their bodies and spend lots of time and effort developing their physique. Without much income to support their lifestyle, they soon realise that only older gay men will appreciate them.

@SirBIllybob That brought back lots of happy memories of 2000-2002. London at that time saw lots of immigrants arrive from different countries: Brazilian muscleboys, Slovak bottoms, wild Aussies, eager-to-please Spaniards etc. I did my best to make the handsome young men feel at home in London. I happened to meet in a Soho coffee-shop a handsome 21year old Brazilian with a long athletic torso. His working name was Enzo and he went to work at VG the day after arriving in London. Enzo had a Brazilian friend and flat-mate, 21-22years old - working name Fred - who wasn’t as handsome but had a terrific upper body with huge pecs. Enzo was rather charming while Fred was obsessed with physical perfection and having cosmetic procedures to remedy supposed ‘defects’. Both men were smart and they realised after only a week at VG that they could make much more money by advertising/finding clients direct. I had a date with each of them one week. Both Enzo and Fred were versatile in bed and happy to bottom for me. I also arranged evening dates with them separately and put them with other new guys; that made for entertaining 3ways and a couple of memorable 4gies. My dates with Enzo and Fred together were fun, but they were much more uninhibited when I played with them separately. I used to keep a straight face when each of them asked me not to tell the other what they did for me in bed. Fred referred to Enzo as his boyfriend, while Enzo earnestly assured me they were not a couple and that he was falling for me and wanted to be my “boyfriend”. I knew that Enzo liked my big, fat cock but that he truly liked my big, fat wallet - Enzo amply demonstrated the truth of that old adage: Love sucks, but true love swallows. I never visited VG but I’m so glad it exists and hope it continues to thrive.

Well written @jazboy. When I was a modelizer (some years ago), I often found that the offer of $1000 gained me access to many men who didn’t “normally escort”. I may have been in full lust but I wasn’t an idiot. Once the date was arranged, I was charming but insistent that the date was for dinner and overnight. Only once was I ‘held to ransom’ by a very fit LA model who demanded $1500 (despite having earlier agreed to $1000) and had various restrictions. I gave in when he agreed to being photographed as well as giving me ‘unrestricted access’ 3x that night.