I’m pretty embarrassed to share this, but maybe it’ll be useful to someone here. Even with the awful reviews (which he had removed from his profile) and many clearly outdated pics, I arranged to see him in Houston. He was very responsive in planning things, but in the end he flaked: he just ghosted minutes before our scheduled meetup time.
I’m thinking he’s pathological, like “KYsouthernboy” (or something) in LA allegedly is: he likes the ego boost, and enjoys fooling interested guys.
He’s a scammer. Allegedly steals money from some and wastes the money of others. Toxic.