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I’m pretty embarrassed to share this, but maybe it’ll be useful to someone here. Even with the awful reviews (which he had removed from his profile) and many clearly outdated pics, I arranged to see him in Houston. He was very responsive in planning things, but in the end he flaked: he just ghosted minutes before our scheduled meetup time.
 
I’m thinking he’s pathological, like “KYsouthernboy” (or something) in LA allegedly is: he likes the ego boost, and enjoys fooling interested guys.
 
He’s a scammer. Allegedly steals money from some and wastes the money of others. Toxic.

He’s a scammer. He flaked on me and reportedly he steals.

Bad news . Doesnt show up. not reliable. Avg dick w old pics . Trouble!!

Not good. Avoid

If I am the client and I am paying, I can discriminate all I goddamned want because I am the fucking customer. If you are a masseur and have an issue with any type, color, religion whatever
either state it on your profile (so I will know to avoid you) or serve EVERYBODY! Rant over! Terp

He is the one and only escort ever to ask me my weight when trying to make a booking, under the guise of "my table can only accommodate so much weight". When I told him he asked for a photo. Listen- 250lbs is 250lbs as far as your table is concerned. I could be a massive bodybuilder or fat slug- the table can't tell the difference. I declined to send the photo, and took my $$$ elsewhere.
 
Ironically I ran into him in WEHo a few days later. I knew who he was, he obviously had no idea who I was. He was nice, but he definitely looks much older in person.

That's a practice I have adopted as well with white masseurs.
 
I have been asked if I am "Indian Indian" and "a Muslim" before.
 
I also had a masseur go on and on about countries the United States shouldn't let people in from, a list that included my home country
 
Fortunately, most have been welcoming and race is not an issue.
 
This topic was actually explored before:
 
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/do-you-reveal-your-race-to-your-masseurs-escorts.129656/
 
Brothers of color, keep your anecdotes and recommendations coming so that others can see this happens and we are not "playing the race card."

He's headed to LA. Any info would be much appreciated.

Tried this weekend but no luck...

Nothing solidly - I seem to recall him having an ad in Dallas a couple of years ago. Got flaky when I tried to meet up. Looks like he did some serious inking in between those shots.

Sorry it didn't work out. He's quite the flake, I guess. I was interested in a weekend with him, but I don't want to make all the arrangements only to have him flake.

Sorry it didn't work out. He's quite the flake, I guess. I was interested in a weekend with him, but I don't want to make all the arrangements only to have him flake.

Great topic! Yeah, whatever happened to that Sean Cody model with the dark brown hair — Nick Parker at one point, then he changed his name...

Great topic! Yeah, whatever happened to that Sean Cody model with the dark brown hair — Nick Parker at one point, then he changed his name...

Thanks! Any info about whether Drago, who comes to LA for nude parties, is up for private time outside of the parties? He seems really nice.
 

In LA, does Alex Navarro ever show up at the nude parties? He's a semi regular dancer at Fubar Adonis nights.

Could you please share his Instagram handle?

Would you please share the site with us? I'd just like to read his profile. Thanks!

Could someone please PM me his number? The Adam4Adam process is looong and requires their approval. Thanks so much!

Another thing I also don't respond well to is passive aggressiveness, jdjd46. You claim to empathize but then act like you're better than me.
 
I would love to get take out from an Asian restaurant without a white patron thinking that I work there.
 
I would love to go to a Korean spa and not clear out rooms and get nasty looks just for being Asian and entering white space (yes, I know the irony).
 
I would love to just offer a compliment to a guy, with no interest of pursuing anything, without getting a hand to my face, a door slammed, or an automatic block.
 
I would love not to be given a fake address, drive 40 minutes to a random location in the middle of the night, and then be told that my "host" is just messing with me because "chinks are pathetic" (three different guys have actually done this to me).
 
We all try to assimilate the best we can but our race belies that. You think I enjoy being treated the way that I am? The way I see other Asians treated? The way that no one bats an eye at seeing "no Asians" in dating profiles, massage ads, etc.
 
We can't be someone else. You deal with it the way you do. I deal with it the way I do.

Great, good for you both.
 
I generally don't like rejection/offending. If I'm at the spa and a guy walks out when I enter, I avoid going into the room he's in. If I'm at the gym and inadvertently lock eyes with a guy who's not into "my type," I make sure I don't work out near him or enter the locker room while he's there lest he thinks I'm stalking him.
 
Let's face it. A lot of guys aren't into Asians (Asians included). A lot of Asians don't do other Asians any favors by acting a fool or throwing themselves at white guys. I purposely don't act that way.
 
I see some providers at the gym or around town. They hang out with guys that look like them and move/shoo away guys that don't. I know they're doing a job, but if a provider isn't into "my type" I don't want him to be miserable nor do I want to feel undesirable or miserable. So I don't hire them. And I always let them know my race ahead of time.
 
Yes, you can tell from one look if someone is cool with you/being in their presence or not. It happens all the time. I remember one visit to Midtown (a local sex club), one white guy actual stuck his hand in my face (the way you would if someone where pointing a gun at you) and waved NO. Keep in mind I didn't know him, didn't get close to him, I was just walking in his general direction. That reaction really stayed with me and made me feel really worthless. I don't want to feel that way again so if I can avoid it I do.
 
Oh and jdjd46, don't criticize me for making assumptions when you did the exact same thing.

I wish he'd post more recent pictures. I'd like to see him "filled-out."

I wish he'd post more recent pictures. I'd like to see him "filled-out."

He looks great, and had a friend who can join in, but does anyone have any actual experience with him? How was it?
 
https://rentmen.eu/Max_Christoph
 
A little worried that the dark spots on his chest in this pic where he holds the "rent me" sign don't match the pics where he shows his face.
 
Thanks guys.

Would you really call it a review though? I mean, I didn't name the guy, I didn't provide rates or contact info, and I addressed a lot more than just my experience with him, including the tendency of one-on-one experiences with Adonis dancers to turn out badly...