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For us, it’s not showering after sex in the early evening and just putting our clothes back on to go out for dinner, reeking of sexual satisfaction.

IME they exist, and often they readily enjoy their work. But beauty costs so definitely @mcbg22 NOT at “a reasonable price”

Not a lesson I had to learn. I’ve always prized clean bedlinen. And if there are more than 2 men between the sheets, it’s only because I want the attentions of more than 1 man at the same time.

IMO it’s not “mean” to correct politely an untruth. He’s a much older man and as @purplekow suggests “maybe (SD) loves him” but he is not a Prince (ie not royalty) but he has a much less grand title, hence minor aristocrat.

Then I’d urge you to see the production. I don’t think you’ll be disappointed.

I feel this thread has rehashed too much of the history of SD. At the time, both in reviews and in private messages, many clients said they felt they’d been treated as an ATM with some reporting they’d been charged extra when going over the hour by as little as a few minutes. Now he’s retired; not with a Prince but a minor aristocrat, and no castle.

FWIW we saw this in London and enjoyed it very much. Our only disappointment was that we couldn’t get tickets to see it a second time. Also in the UK press it was reported that Mr Sondheim refused another producer who wanted to update it, but was persuaded by Ms Elliott to permit the gender role-change. It said that he became enthusiastic and readily offered to change several songs for the new show.

You’re kidding @marylander1940 In 2003/2004 there were thousands of working guys in Europe, with more than 1000 running adverts in London alone, and I suspect there were many in major US cities. Certainly SD was a very prominent traveling escort. That is so very true. His venom and vitriol were spectacular. SD kept them to private messages for a long time - once he tried to extort me by threatening to ‘out’ me until I pointed out that everyone knew I was gay. Eventually the venom and vitriol spilled out in this forum. He was banned 2x IIRC before he went on to display his true character as IceFireWizard as @ArVaGuy rightly observed. In never meeting SD, I truly feel I dodged a bullet.

Surely if you just want “to lie back and wait”, it depends on you doing exactly what turns you on psychologically and physically ? If that means strapping on a vibrator as in the video or inserting a second vibrator, go for it. Or find a guy who will take charge and do this for and to you. I used to top a blond muscleboy who always came without touching himself: sometimes it was while I was topping him and he was flat on his back; but every time when he was sucking me off, it happened as my cum hit the back of his throat.

Men, please be careful. Like Voldemort in the H Potter books, just mentioning SD so much may bring him back “from the dead”.

@westernsyd I sent you a PM

Assuming that’s not a rhetorical question.... If you have any habits or interests that the law does not condone, the appropriate laws could be invoked.... If you’ve some sex videos on your phone, pornography laws would apply... If you’ve been exchanging messages re a date with an escort, you could be charged with soliciting prostitution

I take issue with this. You’re making contact; the other man is not objecting. You’re assuming that silence equals consent. I think that others are right and this will end badly for you.

Generally posters get more comments and info when they provide links to the man they’re asking about. (And I don’t have time to look this guy up and do that for you)

Yes, a high thread count matters hugely. And I agree about Egyptian cotton. it is important to me that we have good bedlinen and change it often. When it’s been hot here at night in the Summer, we’ve taken to sleeping on Irish linen sheets. Of course, it does mean that the laundry charges are high but I feel it’s a price worth paying.

I had to look him up. I feel he expressed a strange sentiment for this day and age, but maybe that’s because I know many young people who are very open about their sexuality. https://www.out.com/celebs/2019/6/21/brandon-flynn-sort-addresses-his-relationship-rumors

I feel you’ve had several helpful comments here @Dtxstudfinder but I wouldn’t beat yourself up or over-analyse it. I can relate to your situation. I too am a top only and I too like young attractive jocks. FWIW I had a very long-term relationship end 20 years ago and it was difficult to get back into the ‘dating game’ after so many years together. What helped me was crafting a good profile on online sites and joining a gym for regular workouts with personal trainers. I basically went on a lot of dates with men who seemed nice, and I got myself very fit and in good physical shape for a man in his mid40s. Getting very fit gave me more physical confidence. Going on a lot of dates showed me what was out there. I had a decent social life and I certainly kissed a lot of frogs. I also met and dated a few very attractive escorts and that helped me renew my libido; they also taught me some new moves in bed. (I will add here that I do have an old friend who also lost his partner about the same time as me. He has shut himself off from life, never dates and only goes on vacation if I invite him. I find that very sad and I don’t want you to go the same way). I don’t regret what I did. And perhaps it prepared me to respond well when my ‘ideal man’ came into my life more than 5 years ago. I don’t want you to lose heart, but I do want you to put yourself out there and rediscover joy in life.

I’ve no knowledge of him @Reisr30 but he’s certainly very big and built if he is only 22. My guess is that steroids are involved. I mean no disrespect to your choice, and I don’t know what you intend to do together. My suggestion is simply that you check with him on his current state - is he bulking or is he really ripped?

Depending on the amount of ‘entertainment’ you’ll be arranging for that “1 full day”, I’d suggest a large hotel in Midtown where you might book direct. That way, you may be able to arrange in advance for a late checkout and possibly an early check in. (That just reflects my preference for some good cardio before dinner, and for more action in the morning). FWIW I’d suggest you locate the Housekeeper as soon as you get in and tip her well for all the extra towels etc you will probably need. Tho I haven’t stayed in either, the Hilton on 6th Ave/53rd St and the Sheraton on 7th Ave/52nd St seem to be busy, bustling hotels where your guests coming-and-going would be unremarkable.

When do you plan to marry @Unicorn ? You obviously have romantic impulses to a great degree but rather than swap details of houses you “might get” with him, why not swap and discuss details of the pre-nuptial/co-habitation agreement your lawyer should be drafting right now?

I hope it goes well for you @Unicorn My bet is that once the family discover you are financially well-placed, they will want to come and stay on shopping trips, and the requests for gifts and money will soon follow. Be smart and keep a firm hold on your wallet. FWIW I know of a young gay Argentine who married a much older American and of a young gay Peruvian who married an older New Yorker. Both South American families expressed their disgust...but within a few months, both had overcome their horror sufficiently to ask the Americans for money for family parties, vacations etc.

Yum! He’d make a great ‘personal shopper’ for underwear.

To answer your questions: Not recently, tho I spent more than 1 year in Buenos Aires. Be aware that some guys use old photos and some guys change their working name often - best to meet for coffee or a drink in a public place first. You phone the guy and ask him. It helps to speak Spanish as smart guys charge visitors more or ask to be paid in USD. There are lots of ‘telos’ (local slang for hotels that rent rooms by the hour) alongside Recoleta Cemetery. Both gay and str8 couples use telos. And assuming you do speak and read Spanish, there is a local website (such as this) which discusses male and female escorts. Just Google for the name; it’s something like foro-escorts.com.ar

I wouldn’t worry, @edjames. In truth, Vanessa Redgrave contributes little to the play. Of course as a person, she had had a long career in the theatre but I felt her role in this wonderful play was more of a “walk-on role”.

I think this guy is attractive and rather sexy-looking, except for the tattoo on the side of his torso which looks poorly executed.