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I can’t argue with your strictly legal approach [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] Start ‘em young, Train ‘em well ;-)

The pic is years old (maybe 17 years) but OMG he was beautiful then. I met him once when he was in his prime: spectacular. A few years ago, I saw a then-current pic of him - the intervening years had not been kind. Help please. I cannot recall the name of this guy (again, the photo is very old) but at the time he was my physical ideal tho I never met him IRL

Excuse me @muscmtl but the size and thickness should be increasing! If as you say you “hire less and less”, I’d expect a fat bulge to result. I'm referring to your wallet of course. I can’t explain the decreased libido.

I met a young man in LA a while back. He came from the Ukraine originally. He has curly hair and doesn’t look Slavic at all. I think there may be more photos online of him naked rather than clothed.

I could, with my dominant streak, imagine doing this to a willing sub but I’ve no experience with, nor knowledge about, administering “electro shocks”. So please forgive my simple questions: 1. How safe/unsafe is it for the recipient? 2. Is the voltage easily maintained at a low and harmless level? 3. Is the excitement only for a sadist administering the shocks? Or is it also exciting for a recipient who’s a masochist/sub? 4. I noticed the hunk (Neill) did not get aroused at all - is this usual? 5. Do electro shocks cause the sub/recipient to climax?

@Unicorn I’m intrigued that you’d quote part of a post by me that’s 7 months old. I do hope you’ll let time heal your broken heart. Lust might be a force for good, but I feel that Max E is unworthy of your lust. I still believe that he is less interesting than an underwear model. And FWIW I’m told that it’s unnecessary to “pay big $$$”

Thanks for posting @sydneyboy I hadn’t read about this. I too admired VG’s singing and acting.

I do have pics but I’m definitely not sharing them

It seems to me that’s a lot of effort @m_writer if you’re going to do so little. I used to play regularly with a blond muscleboy when he was an undergraduate. He was a terrific bottom and had a submissive streak so one day, just for the sake of variety, I offered to tie him up. I hadn’t done it before, nor had he had it done to him. To my surprise, it was a lot of work for me - stripping him, putting him into restraints and tying him up with some rope - but he found it hugely erotic and sported a rigid erection throughout the preparation. I felt I deserved to make good, hard use of him afterwards and worked him over fully; he shot multiple loads.

That brought back memories @LONELY SOUL. I met Marc in his younger days - must be 12-15 years ago - and before I’d seen him in any porn. Back then he advertised briefly as ‘full service’ and he performed well as a muscle-bottom.

BTW @tassojunior I don’t know if any are some of “your guys” but I ran into 4 BelAmi men at the weekend. I don’t know if they will be filming but they’re enjoying the great weather in Cape Town currently

FWIW I ran into several of the BelAmi guys at the weekend, I don’t know if they will be filming but they’re definitely enjoying the delights of Cape Town...

Over the years, I’ve dated maybe a dozen young fit Brazilians. They all seemed to me to be hardworking and eager to improve their situation in life. None of them were keen on labels (bi/str8/gay) for their sexuality and all were uninhibited in bed. BUT without exception, they did NOT want their friends and family back in Brazil to know how they made a living.

@hypothetically I simply wanted to avoid having a bad date or disappointing session. If a provider was unsure about whether to meet me, an older man, I was happy to provide a photo. I appreciate that other clients might not do so - that’s up to them, and how they make arrangements. For me, sending a pic was no big deal.

I disagree profoundly @myophile. You’re ignoring what’s important (to me, at least): sexual energy and erotic passion. As a top only, I could in strict theory pump any guy but I prefer to have a handsome fit-bodied guy on the end of my cock. I want him to be fully engaged; I never wanted to hire a robot.

And when the muscled hunk is bound and at your mercy @m_writer just what would you do to him? Would you worship his physique? Lick his body all over? Force your cock into his more or less willing holes? Enquiring and lascivious minds want to know!

I always offered to send a pic of me when I hired. IIRC only 3 guys ever wanted to see my photo beforehand, and the dates went ahead as planned. My offer was based on self-interest. We’d discussed time/place and what I enjoyed doing so that I knew we were compatible. My pic was to prevent any surprise on meeting. If he didn’t want a date with an older or a middle-aged man, I’d move on.

I think that’s an excellent way of finding out who’s interested in you as a person, rather than interested in your money.

It’s OK [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER]; I figured someone might say that. For me, the answer is more nuanced. I’ve always been open-hearted and I’ve often been told I’m very generous. When I invite people to restaurants, I want them to have an enjoyable time and to choose what they prefer. The behaviour of the regular provider began to grate over time: at one dinner, he ordered caviar and champagne as his first course and I made no comment...not even when he left most of it, saying he had decided he didn’t like caviar. The €34 cup of tea stays in my memory as we’d stopped for an espresso; he watched the flowers unfold in the hot water, smelled them and drank perhaps half the cup. I think it’s because I find the emphasis on having the most expensive item to be essentially vulgar. As for the “young hottie”, he arrived one evening, announced he’d argued with his room-mate, had nowhere to go, so he wanted to stay for a while - turned out to be 8 weeks. He wasn’t my boyfriend, and he had full-time paid employment. I never asked him to pay rent, but he never contributed a thing - never bought a bunch of flowers or paid for a coffee - but each evening he’d ask What are we doing tonight? So I’d pay for theatre, concerts etc and for dinner afterwards. He relentlessly saved his money and I found his sense of entitlement graceless.

I guess @LaffingBear that you know the feeling of irritation is irrational in the larger scheme of things...yet I share that feeling. I had a young friend staying with me (his idea, not mine) for some weeks. When we shopped for dinner, he would add items for his own consumption at a later date but never offered to pay for them. I commented on this once and his retort was forthright: Why should I pay? You’re rich! I also had a regular provider who became a friend. He invariably chose the most expensive items on the menu when we had dinner together. I still recall us stopping in Paris for coffee one day, and he chose white jasmine flower tea; it was 10 years ago and his tea cost €34. I felt that his approach - ‘I must have it as it’s the most expensive‘ - was that of a hustler. And I noted that despite him being very attractive physically, he never had friends for long; he’d tell me about how he’d fallen out with each friend in turn.

The obituary in the Financial Times (London) today quoted a local source that Gao was uncomplaining by nature but he had worked for 17 hours straight on several days.

Interesting thread, especially the replies from clients. Some years back, I discussed this topic with a provider with whom I’d become friends. He was mid-20s, handsome face with a great physique, and I can vouch for his versatility and uninhibited skill in bed. He was also a nice guy who had been well educated and could converse on a range of topics. He’d become an escort on retiring from being a ballet dancer as he needed to supplement his income. Despite all the advantages he possessed, he lamented to me how many men dated him once but did not repeat. He felt that clients just preferred novelty, to date a new face/new body every time. He expressed his surprise as on entering the business, he’d felt that he could be a high-end provider able to service well a few regular clients.

I don’t mean to argue with @rickx but I feel strongly that you should always have with you the condoms that fit you best and your preferred lube. Why delegate to others the provision of what keeps you safe and healthy?

I enjoyed it immensely.

I agree with the OP. The comments in this thread make Gwyneth Paltrow seem intellectual.