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I enjoy giving a light spanking before topping, especially if it’s to a muscleboy with a bubble-butt. I love getting my cock worshipped fully but initially I had a provider who didn’t like the taste of cum. So I had to concentrate on pulling out before climax. It was very frustrating for me. So on later hirings, I decided to speak about it in advance. I simply related how I wanted to get oral to completion, and not have to worry about pulling out. I offered some flexibility by saying I didn’t care if a guy swallowed my load or not. Luckily I met a couple of muscleboys who were skilled oralists. Each of them told me they enjoyed pleasing a top by swallowing loads.

This really resonated with me. Currently I have a friend in his 40s (expert corporate lawyer) being made redundant by a very profitable multinational. This too resonated. I have a good friend in his mid-60s who doesn’t save and doesn’t realise how financially reckless he is. I’m very concerned for him but he rejects advice.

They’re indeed professional photos, taken by the great NYC photographer of male bodies R1ck D@y. Yes, they’re a couple in real life. I just happened to see their IG stories. I can’t recall precise details, but I think putting real names here is prohibited. I can’t help with any info on how well they perform (either singly or as a couple) but they both have good ripped physiques.

I can’t comment on whether this is a recent phenomenon. Years ago, however, I was close to 3 working guys for several years. Each of them mentioned to me that at some point clients (and men seeking to be) had been rude or mean to them. One even remarked that I’d be “shocked” if he told me in detail how badly some men behaved. As a general observation, I’d say that public manners have worsened in recent years. I’ve noticed this even in Spain which always prized good and gentlemanly behaviour in public.

Interesting thread and observations @PhileasFogg I too like younger men. I’ve always enjoyed the ‘boyfriend experience’ and longer dates allow me to explore and deepen the relationship. I agree with the three characteristics listed, especially the third. I want intelligent conversation at dinner and over breakfast. Getting a young person’s perspective on current affairs and politics is of great interest to me. I’m somewhat vanilla sexually in that I truly enjoy being a top and I’ve no interest in kink. In my 20s, I enjoyed dating goodlooking young men aged 21-35, with fit, muscled bodies. Over the successive decades since then, my tastes haven’t changed at all. I still prize handsome muscleboys and jocks, especially if they have a compliant nature and like to please. My “focus has evolved” on the physical front: I no longer set great store on fucking; I still want a passionate engagement (kissing & cuddling); I value a skilled cocksucker and I delight in a guy who swallows my load.

Interesting thread @RyanDean Thanks for posting; I’d no idea this existed on TikTok

I think that’s an instance of bad auto-correct. IMO it should read “Def NOT safe if misused”

This is ‘a blast from the past’. He must be in his mid-40s by now. I saw him once about 20 years ago. He was an attractive man but, as I recall, he did very little on film. An acquaintance told me he had a date with him; the date was disappointing. I too recall that he went to jail but I don’t remember the details.

To answer the OP’s question: I would never discuss this with a stranger. Indeed, @purplekow I wouldn’t discuss my sexual history and prior dating experience on a first date with anyone. I’m not there to answer a volley of questions. I am interested to learn what interests they have, what motivates them and how they take pleasure in life. I do consider over-sharing to be a modern malaise. For me, the best answer was given earlier by @nycman I too believe in honesty within a relationship and I’ve always made ‘full disclosure’ to my various partners over the years.

On this scale, I’m a 5

Possibly he was wearing just sneakers and a jockstrap? Possibly he was fully clothed but with the addition of custom knee-pads? Possibly he was bare-chested, kneeling and making the acquaintance of another man? The possibilities are endless…

I love a cutie…but I lust for a hottie

No disrespect @Ali Gator but in my view, you’re being too cheap. And the only person who will suffer here is you. You’ve dreamed and thought of this man a lot. Now he’s available and you put obstacles in your own path. I feel you will bitterly regret not taking the glorious opportunity offered to you.

You forgot to state how often you include in your diet some of “all the cute guys” you mentioned earlier…😎

I feel you should shop daily @Luv2play. A heathy body can best be maintained by a varied diet of fresh produce. 😎

I’d like to add ‘my two cents’ for the OP. If your date doesn’t find you attractive @DMonDude - or if you fear that - ask him to focus on the features of Benjamin Franklin that they will soon be fondling. A lot of working guys truly like him, and some even find him readily arousing.

I’ve had similar requests for help and expert advice over the years. If I barely know someone, I tend to smile and give a very brief response. If a person persists, I comment that ‘it’s complicated’ and ‘it’ll take me time to research (or answer) so I’ll have to charge’. That deters most. If someone does insist, I say ‘I’ll have to consult my diary and I’ll need an immediate large retainer’ Once I met a great young man for what was a terrific first date. He’d done a little research on me and at the outset, enthused about my work and asked me various questions as he wanted to make a career in this area. I answered politely but briefly. Then I deflected by saying “ there’s so much to talk about, so let’s talk over coffee afterwards. I want to spend our time together by getting naked and seeing how compatible we are”. I felt then that I’d handled it well. He performed as agreed and we were both happy. He didn’t offer me coffee later and we didn’t discuss his career plan further. It was a great date but no repeat. Other times, people I like and know have asked for help and I’ve obliged. It’s easier with people I know but don’t like: I simply say ‘unfortunately, I have to charge’ and I’ve named a fee of 6-10x what I’d normally charge.

There may be tough days ahead of you @SomethingFun but for what it’s worth, I feel you’ve made the right decision. Now get yourself a good (aka aggressive) lawyer to handle the divorce. In the future, you and he might be friends as @PhileasFogg suggested but give yourself plenty of time and space first. And don’t rush into a second marriage even if you suddenly meet a great-seeming man.

To answer the OP, I’d avoid. It’s just me: I’m cautious. I always wear the seatbelt in cars (survived one car crash, shaken but unhurt). In hotels, I always check the fire exits nearest to the room before I unpack (experienced 2 hotel fires, got out quickly and unhurt). In commercial aircraft, I pay attention to safety briefings and check location of the exits (been in one incident, hard landing on foam, unhurt) I know everyone deserves a second chance but I never had “convicted felons OK” on my Seeking ad/profile

Has anyone actually seen him for a date? If so, please report back.

He’s obviously a handsome young adult. But to me, his photo has a certain quality as if AI generated.

My guess is that it will prove very popular…assuming “AGV” stands for Added Girth(cum)Volume

Very good list of warning signs, in my opinion. Simple: I don’t want people doing drugs or getting high on a date with me. The only time I’ve ever been threatened was when a guy after a good dinner (on our 4th date, and at his request our 1st overnight) took some substance in the bathroom and then in bed started to complain that ‘the rich always get what they want’. I threw him out.

Interesting report @purplekow Thanks for taking the time to detail your experience. He’s a handsome guy so I wondered about your interaction… How good was his English? Do you feel he didn’t fully understand what you wanted? Also, I wonder if he normally played with younger men? I’m a top only and I truly enjoy and appreciate a muscleboy who bottoms. In the past, however, I have had fun when I played with other tops. The range of activities has been more limited. I certainly would not hire just to jack off. I’ve not tried to penetrate them (I for one like to be rimmed but dislike being fingered); I might give oral if I’m excited by the man; I’ve always enjoyed deep kissing and without exception I received oral (and generally been fellated to completion). I stress ‘in the past’ as I’m now in my 70s. if I were now to hire a guy, I’d be very explicit about my age and what I enjoy and what I expect the man to do in bed.

Why not? I eat a big bowl of porridge (with seeds, nuts & berries) for breakfast every day. Accordingly I get through a 1kilo (2.2lbs) bag of organic oats every month. It’s healthy nutrition and it’s a quick, easy breakfast to make.