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I hope @socurious isn’t going to be angry with me for repeating what he wrote! She is to be found* on Twitter (using their Search function) as Alyssa lov3 It brings up a couple of names but hers has the blue tick. And as I stated above, you will find lots of images of sexual action (*FWIW I repeated the search just to make sure it works)

I don’t understand @Italiano and @BaronArtz. I just went to Twitter and typed in the Search function the name that @socurious provided. It’s definitely there. And I saw more images than I care for (not being into she-males at all)

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Yes. Don’t get wound up over this. You’ll waste time and energy if you overthink why a provider has reacted this way to you. If, in the future, there's a point when you’d like to meet the guy again, send him a short message with your date/time. If he responds, you’ll know you’re no longer ghosted; you will become a client. If he doesn’t respond, move on.

Wouldn’t that depend heavily on where the OP and the masseur are based? It seems to me that such a video would be rather compelling evidence if law enforcement became involved…

Ben Murphy - an actor I saw in the 70s in ‘Alias Smith and Jones’. He had long hair, such a pretty face and a smooth muscled body.

There are so many providers in both cities and there are constant newcomers. You will have a huge choice of men interested in earning dollars. Assuming you speak Spanish and can make yourself understood in Portuguese, spend some time looking at the men on the usual sites/apps.

My memory is good and I remember the encounters but not so much how they began. At their place, guys mostly greeted me barechested and in jeans. There are, however, two encounters (2 different guys) where I have excellent recall of how they began. Earlier I’d expressed to each guy my interests (kissing with tongue, topping, getting oral to completion) and my desire to exercise my dominant streak. 1. I saw the first man’s good fit body when he opened the door, dressed only in classic white briefs. He lowered his head modestly as I entered. My hand lightly brushed his bulge and he promptly French-kissed me. 2. I’d already had an excellent first date with the other guy. He had a superb physique from playing various sports. Greeting me, he hugged and kissed me. He was clad only in a white C-IN2 jockstrap which I commented “looks as if it’s spray-painted onto you”. He then surprised me. He dropped to his knees, unzipped me and he sucked my engorged cock until I blew my load in his mouth. On our first date a month before, I’d disclosed that I dreamt of a guy starting a date by sucking me off (‘just a kiss, no talk, I unload and then I can relax before round two’) and he decided to greet me this way.

So well put. I entirely agree. When I first had a relationship with a much younger man, I spent months worrying about the age difference, whether it was appropriate for him and whether it would work. When he said first that he loved me, I relaxed and simply enjoyed the 3 years that followed. And reading in the papers today, age is clearly irrelevant either for heterosexuals or for billionaires. Rupert Murdoch (92) has got engaged for the 5th time to a younger woman (66). Hope springs eternal!

I too would suggest Barcelona. It has all the attributes of a great city (music, theatre, art) located by the sea and combined with many good restaurants and friendly locals. It also is on the high speed train network so you could also visit other cities in Spain (eg Seville, Cordoba, Madrid) and France (eg Montpellier and Paris). To the South, there is Sitges of course. And to the North, there is some beautiful countryside and villages with good hotels (it is very popular with Catalans).

“Thank you. That was great. I’ll certainly remember this for some time”… Said smilingly as I exited from the provider’s place after a disappointing time or an OK time but the bedroom or the bathroom was dirty

If indeed they are formally married, I agree. (I say “if indeed” because all the reports state ‘rumours’ as their source) My curiosity is about the size of the lawyers’ fees and just how many pages their pre-nuptial and non-disclosure agreements comprise.

In answer to the thread’s title: IMO there’s a very substantial downside. With my donations, I insist on anonymity. Even with organizations that I enjoy supporting but where they rank donors in ranges (like Carnegie Hall and The Met) I insist as being numbered among the Anonymous. My reason for being strict is this. Some years ago (post 2008) I gave a lump sum of money to (what was then) a very good theatre with terrific programming. I asked for no publicity. But I later found that their marketing department had shared my contact details with other arts organisations. Six of these knew me as a supporter already and they immediately contacted me, each asking for a similar-sized gift. My contact details ended up on the marketing lists that many charities and arts organisations exchange. As a result, I received an overwhelming number of requests for financial assistance. I reckon I received about 3 letters a week (along with emails) for some years.

So @Charlie “the hottest guy” was emotionally mature and intelligent too

Total overlap. I’ve always been most attracted to handsome, very fit preppy young men 21+. And in bed I’m only a lazy selfish top with a dominant streak. So I only ever dated muscleboys who played bottom and were eager cocksuckers to completion.

It’s a very nice body. Is his face handsome @Mrprofessional ?

May I ask you to expand please on what you mean by this phrase.

I used Viagra a couple of times only: it made my erection very stiff but it also gave me a bad headache. I preferred Cialis as it has a more ‘natural’ effect on me. Neither affected my ability to ejaculate. I use Vardenafil (Levitra) nowadays as my physician thinks it’s best for me, tho I find its duration to be much less than Cialis. I climax easily when and how I want. (It undoubtedly helps that I have sex with a young, attractive partner). Some years ago, I found this too (using Cialis) on occasion. It seemed to occur when there were expectations about my ability to perform (I had a reputation at the gym as a top that could pound a bottom repeatedly and vigorously). The longer I topped a guy, the more I worried about ejaculating. I resolved the problem by deliberately relaxing and not concerning myself about the bottom’s pleasure or wants (oddly enough, this turned on some guys). I know there are a number of factors (physical and psychological) that can affect the ability to ejaculate. Without speculating too much @spaman, is your weight appropriate, do you have a balanced healthy diet, moderate alcohol (and limited drug) usage? And are you having the sex you enjoy with a partner you find desirable? If you function well otherwise, you may find it best to consult your physician on this particular aspect.

I entirely agree. I’ve had dinner at Frances many times. And I rate it more highly than her sibling restaurant in Pacific Heights (even tho that’s much closer to my house). I’d also recommend Delfina on 18th Street & Guerrero. This long-standing favorite Italian restaurant and pizzeria has been newly and beautifully refurbished. It’s in the Mission district but it’s an easy walk (8-10minutes) from Frances on 17th & Pond St. A ‘foodie’ would find much to salivate over and enjoy in ‘Gourmet Gulch’ (local nickname), the area around Delfina with Tartine Bakery (superb) and Bi-Rite Market (wonderful grocery & ice-cream) and in a separate store nearby Bi-Rite Creamery. Reserve ahead. If you can’t or won’t reserve, arrive a few minutes before opening time. Both Delfina & Frances keep a few places for walk-ins. Bear in mind that Frances is a small place (which I prefer) and has no room for strollers or people’s luggage!

Short answer: in my case, one muscleboy at a time. Serious, long answer: Narcotics Anonymous. I’ve known two muscled gym-friends who became sex addicts. One man sublimated his urges by working part-time ‘under-the-radar’ as an escort. He reckoned that using drugs fuelled his sex-addiction; he used crack. The other man was single and handsome; he confided to me that after having sex with a guy he found online, he’d go back online to find a 2nd (and sometimes a 3rd) guy for sex the same evening. Despite his good looks, he had a deep-seated sense of inferiority and he needed to be desired by other men. He used cocaine. Both men found help via Narcotics Anonymous which in a large city often has a related self-help group for sex addicts.

Respectfully I disagree. The provider said that he had “other clients interested” when he asked for a deposit last-minute. Like @Archbishop, I too might have seen this as a “red flag” - why the last-minute demand for money upfront? The demand could well have been a scam. Years ago, I’d agreed a 3 day weekend trip with an LA muscleboy. (We’d dated and been on trips before). 4 days prior to departure, he told me that another high-paying customer was offering $2500 for an overnight date that weekend. He asked me either to match the money he’d forego if our trip went as planned or he could be with me for 2 days only but he’d expect the same fee. I told him No and never saw him again.

I can’t advise on pain management (I have a permanent spinal problem but I take nothing for it) but I’d suggest you seek out a skilled chiropractor. A chiropractor, preferably experienced with elderly patients, will be able to assess her and her range of movement. Some moderate manipulation may help her considerably. Alas for you, it may take more than the next couple of weeks for her to regain full and independent mobility. Have you considered getting a care worker in for some hours a couple of times a week?

This is so wrong, and I blame you. You let it happen to you @Coolwave35 He behaved as if you were a prostitute; he despoiled your floor; and he left without paying. This is also wrong @Coolwave35 You’re the older man. It is your duty to train the younger man to be a better lover - he may be a 10 as you say, but he’s selfish in bed. Message him and tell him he has to suck your hard cock and bring you to climax, and then you’ll get in the bath and relax while he gets off 😎

It’s sad that this happened to you @TectonicThrust but don’t let this affect your new life. Most gay men are pleasant and over time, you will have gay friends and a good social life. An escort once threatened me with exposure (we’d had 3 dates before) and he was in my apartment. I laughed scornfully at him and said ‘Go Ahead. My neighbours know I’m gay, my friends all know I’m gay and my work colleagues know I’m gay.’ He then said I’d be in trouble with the law (he was 28) and I retorted that I would call the Police and report him for extortion and attempted blackmail unless he left - which he promptly did. Never pay a blackmailer. They’ll only exploit your vulnerability and repeat their demands. Remember this is a tale as old as time. Harriet Wilson at a young age became the mistress of the Earl of Craven (in the 18th C). She went on to become a rather famous courtesan and numbered the Duke of Wellington among her ‘admirers’. When she wrote her memoirs, her publisher sent letters to her ‘gentlemen’ asking for money to omit their names from the book prior to publication. It caused the ‘Iron Duke’ (as he was known) to write back his famous reply of “Publish and be Damned!”

That was certainly the case 40 years ago. That’s when I spent a lot of time there and dated various attractive men (including my first Marine). Is it still the same @EZEtoGRU? Friends have reported to me that it’s changed considerably (fewer guys for hire, unreliable professionals, flaky amateurs etc)