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He looks great to me; I love a young jock who bottoms readily 😎 My guess is that @JayinHKNYC is simply saying that Jock Boy (as he styles himself) is much more of a bottom than truly versatile. I’m not surprised. I dated quite a few muscleboys who were very good bottoms, and almost all billed themselves as “versatile”. I think many such guys felt that using the term “bottom” reduced their masculine appeal. I made sure to express my appreciation of them being a good bottom - all that preparatory work, taking a good pounding, moving into different positions to please a top, swallowing loads etc.

Not so. Under UK tax law, you can claim a deduction for donations to registered charities in other countries as well as those in the UK. But you do have to file the donations per country (and on enquiry, list the particular charities).

I feel you might get more responses, and enquiries about availability, if you linked your post to your reviews and where you advertise. This would help potential clients to advise you better.

OMG. I really hope this works well for you @Coolwave35 - please remember to prioritize your personal safety.

Perhaps they’re busy looking for clients and working 😎

It’s interesting to me how the usage of certain phrases changes over time. When I worked in finance (in the 20th century), the phrase meant that you had sufficient money to continue to live in the style you wanted whether you worked or not. Specifically you could say “fuck you” to your employer if something unwanted or undesirable was asked of you (as in my case, when I was up for partnership and it was suggested to me that I would afterwards help run the Chicago office).

Maybe I’m old-fashioned, but Yes I do consider it rude to ask for something that hasn’t been offered. I entirely agree about having clear plastic glasses for beverages outdoors (as years ago I had the experience of idiots bringing glass outside and broken glass ending up in the pool - and Yes the pool had to be drained to get all the shards out). But I don’t know how ‘entitled’ people feel nowadays. Would it be acceptable to ask not for ‘white wine’ but for a glass of ‘good white burgundy’ or ‘an excellent California Chardonnay’?

So true. But I can make a stab at what it will cost the OP. I’m old now but years ago, I had boytoys: several but only one at a time. The biggest difference in cost is whether he lives with you or not. (And if he doesn’t, how will you know that he’s stopped working with others?) IME the stipend might run as little as $2000 a month assuming you pick up all the bills (groceries, restaurants, theatre, concerts, travel, gym membership, clothing, iPhone, weekend trips, overseas vacations etc). The total costs overall for me might have run as high as $10-12000 a month. It’s for the OP to decide what exclusivity he requires, how often he wants companionship etc and it’s a matter of negotiation between him and the working guy. FWIW I was always very open and direct (about what I enjoyed and expected from the young man) from the very start so that misunderstandings were avoided.

Thank you @Coolwave35 for relating this. I always enjoy posts that begin with “I took a boy to Mexico…” 😎

Visitors to London and the UK shouldn’t get too excited. Both the 60+ card and the Freedom Pass are only available if your principal residence is in London. 😎

United Kingdom and parts of Spain. In the UK, it’s after age of 65 generally (but there are some variations). The exact benefit varies between the regions/cities. For instance, in London residents aged 66 qualify for a “Freedom pass” (a photo ID card) which allows free use of all of the Tube and bus network all day (after the morning rush-hour). There’s a similar card which allows use of the National train network with a 33% discount. In the Balearic Islands, there was a similar system for the aged using the island buses. This year, however, it’s been extended from just the elderly to all local residents. It’s an experiment to discourage car-usage.

That’s why, once I’d found a nice muscleboy-bottom, I’d always prioritise the man who was ‘eager-to-please’. For me, that was the best indicator of good performance.

Are the farm boys blond @keefer? And do they walk around bare-chested?

Please don’t be reticent @DrownedBoy Where is this?

Have you considered that you may be 5 years too late @marylander1940? My post was in 2018 😎

Actually that increase is just under 43%. But I don’t dispute your central point: the rate is what some people may charge and some people may pay.

I haven’t visited NYC in a while, so how about some reference points? I do recall that in 2019 I was routinely paying for dinner for two (good restaurant in Manhattan, 2-3 courses with wine and 20% gratuity) $240-300. And 5* hotel rooms in Manhattan were running at $500-700 a night. How much are those rates now? And with this thread (and others on the topic of rates), I looked back at my email history. I dated in 2007 a very hot muscleboy, early 20s in LA was asking (and getting - he was versatile and in demand) $350 an hour and $1500 for a full overnight. Also in 2013/2014 I dated a gorgeous, muscled cover-model a couple of times; he asked for discretion and $600 an hour. My point is that rates have always varied wildly…and now we have inflation in the mix. Please tell us more about this club (location, frequency etc)

Sorry I can’t help but you have good taste @RexB. He has a great-looking physique. FWIW in years past, I had various paying dates with guys in Australia. I always found Aussies to be very uninhibited in bed, eager to please and keen to deliver the agreed upon services. (I was told several times by Aussies that they liked that I was direct and upfront in saying exactly what I enjoyed and what I wanted to do) If you can afford the price @RexB, why not take him for a test drive? You may have a marvelous time.

The primary rule is to protect yourself, so get away fast. Or if it’s in your own home, get him out fast. It doesn’t matter if it costs you extra $ to extricate yourself from the situation. Nothing is more important than preserving your life and health.

Just wonder how interactive he, as a ‘straight’ service provider, might be… @Buckeyeseven Would you describe him as very gay-friendly?

Not an escort nor a current client. But I’ve known this to happen on dates with guys, sometimes in talk over dinner but more often in post-coital chat. I think some men are simply nosy. My answer is to smile in response to such questions. I then say “I’m happy to answer questions about myself but that stops at the bedroom door. Intimate experiences are private matters”.

Perhaps the OP has not been completely open with us about what he specifically requires. Perhaps he requires an escort/stripper/dancer (ESD) to glide smoothly as he incorporates the pole into his routine. Perhaps he wants the ESD to handle a certain thickness of pole. Perhaps he expects the ESD to be able to use a certain length of pole. Personally I’ve always found it very difficult to dance while disrobing, and I’m sure it’s even more difficult to perform sexually while stripping. It’s why I always enjoy my bottom removing my clothes before I top him. 😎

You baked him a cake for his birthday, and then he didn’t eat it? How rude!

Splendidly put. I wonder if I can get a stonemason to inscribe that on my headstone… I had the OP’s problem with 2 Italian-Brazilian men who shared an apartment. They advertised as working singly and as a duo. Both were very attractive physically so I hired each singly. I found I preferred one (Vincenzo) much more than the other (Ricardo). I topped both using condoms. Chatting with each in post-coital bliss, I found their views of their relationship varied. Vincenzo told me Ricardo was NOT his boyfriend; Ricardo said he was. I was discreet as Vincenzo told me Ricardo was a little jealous, and Vincenzo did with me certain acts that Ricardo said they didn’t do. For example, Vincenzo was very happy to suck me off to completion and he readily swallowed my load; Vincenzo also rimmed me, whereas Ricardo said they never rimmed. For the OP, my 2 cents are Hire the man you prefer as often as you like. Maybe hire both when you want a 3some, but first discuss with your preferred guy how it may go with the two of them. Or hire another guy when you want to play with the preferred man in a 3some.

I had several regulars over the years, tho I only hired when I was between boyfriends. Frequency varied a lot. I saw each regular at least 1x a week, generally for an overnight date. I recall one regular, a nice guy who didn’t want an overnight date, so in the first flush of lust, I’d date him for 1-2 hours 3-4x a week. I’d take my regulars on weekend trips at first. Once we’d established full compatibility, I’d invite a regular on an overseas vacation. One aside: I got to know very well a young man who was not only splendid physically but also very versatile in bed. He had wonderful reviews here. One night, he confided over dinner that I was his only regular - he’d been so surprised when he started working that so many clients always wanted variety (a new guy) and no matter how great the date went, his clients didn’t repeat.