MattDaniel

I would go three or four times a year, always had a great time - but I can see the issues for clientele and the dancers. My unsolicited two cents: Set it up as a club and not a night. Monthly dues cover event costs and a flat dancer appearance fee. Discounts on dancer OnlyFans memberships. Private slack or other virtual community. Client dress code at events. It has a dirty warehouse vibe, it needs an exclusive community vibe for the LA crowd. SoHo Strip House.

PV is one of my regular haunts. Used to love Wet Dreams but it’s definitely drifted towards a hairy/masc/older dancer. Not my particular type, but great for others. I miss the more college/jock vibe they had once upon a time. Be Mine has always been dead empty any time I’ve gone, and you don’t really know that until you’ve walked upstairs so everyone knows you’re there so it can feel awkward. Had no idea about the room options. 69 has been the place I’ve spent the most time recently, but the guys are really aggressive there - I tip guys I’m into generously but have often felt pressured to tip guys I’m not at all attracted to. I’ve had the most luck connecting with guys in the massage parlors.

He’s a fake. The photos are of a Brazilian influencer.

I was there, I did not interact with him - but I can say of all the dancers in the back area he seemed to have fewer limits than just about anyone.

Bump. Anyone hire him for beyond massage? I get they aren’t his pics but how similar is he?

Same as KZDevil. He was my first hire over 15 years ago. At the time he was hot and gave a great massage experience, but already older than he was claiming. I have to imagine he’s at least 50 by now.

Pics are of a Eastern European cam model named Ilya.

Only had him for a massage, but easily the best encounter I’ve ever had. He’s not effeminate at all, but he is a nice sweet guy.

Bump

Fake. Photos are of a straight married fitness influencer in Serbia named Nemanja Grujic.

Communicated with him quite a bit via SA last year. Nice guy, good conversation. Ultimately I didn’t feel it was a match so didn’t meet him in person, but no red flags either.

I had a positive experience back in 2019, solid B. I contacted him via Grindr and maybe that made a difference in his responsiveness. His current pics are recent (I follow his IG).

Gender and Sex - We’re seeing an influx of trans and fluid escorts. It’s what some people want and what some people don’t. It would be helpful to filter by it. Location and Range - Get rid of cities, it’s a mess, especially in SoCal where everything bumps up against each other. Just have a provider say “I’m here and I’ll travel this many miles before extra rates kick in” or “I’ll be here…” Tattoos - Make it a scale rather than a binary. Something like “None, Small/Discreet, Several/Noticeable, Tatted Up/Covered”. LMT Certification Ethnicity - Get rid of Mixed and just make it a multi-select. Everyone is mixed these days. Then make the search a Boolean that allows for Only/Includes/Excludes. Flag false stats - Allow clients to flag a provider-reported stat as false. If, say, five clients all say something is off then flag the ad. Auto-Reverse Image Search - I literally reverse search every photo before hiring someone to avoid frauds. Make it a feature.

Hey… been an exclusive top for well over a decade and thinking about trying bottoming again. Looking for a provider rec who has the personality to make it comfortable and relaxing for me. Physically into lean/muscular pretty guys, light on body hair and tattoos.

Fake. Photos are of a fitness influencer who lives in Mexico City.