MattDaniel

Gender and Sex - We’re seeing an influx of trans and fluid escorts. It’s what some people want and what some people don’t. It would be helpful to filter by it.
Location and Range - Get rid of cities, it’s a mess, especially in SoCal where everything bumps up against each other. Just have a provider say “I’m here and I’ll travel this many miles before extra rates kick in” or “I’ll be here…”
Tattoos - Make it a scale rather than a binary. Something like “None, Small/Discreet, Several/Noticeable, Tatted Up/Covered”.
LMT Certification
Ethnicity - Get rid of Mixed and just make it a multi-select. Everyone is mixed these days. Then make the search a Boolean that allows for Only/Includes/Excludes.
Flag false stats - Allow clients to flag a provider-reported stat as false. If, say, five clients all say something is off then flag the ad.
Auto-Reverse Image Search - I literally reverse search every photo before hiring someone to avoid frauds. Make it a feature.
 

I had a positive experience back in 2019, solid B. I contacted him via Grindr and maybe that made a difference in his responsiveness. His current pics are recent (I follow his IG).

Communicated with him quite a bit via SA last year. Nice guy, good conversation. Ultimately I didn’t feel it was a match so didn’t meet him in person, but no red flags either.

Hey… been an exclusive top for well over a decade and thinking about trying bottoming again. Looking for a provider rec who has the personality to make it comfortable and relaxing for me. Physically into lean/muscular pretty guys, light on body hair and tattoos.

Fake. Photos are of a fitness influencer who lives in Mexico City.

Fake. Photos are of a fitness influencer who lives in Mexico City.

How interactive is he?

Check out Discreet_Jack in SD. He’s expensive but worth it. Also, very polite.

Piqued
 
https://curiosity.com/topics/peaked-my-interest-is-a-commonly-misused-phrase-curiosity/
 

He wouldn’t say, but the way he talked about it, I got the impression it was one of those “caught in public, raped on a car hood” videos.

First, reverse image search them. Reversee is a great app you can use on your phone to do it.
 
Second, google their phone number. See if it’s been associated with other ads with different pictures.
 
Third, ask for a quick clothed FaceTime or Skype to prove identity. Say “clothed” so they don’t think you’re trolling them to get to see them naked for free. Kurt’s reply wasn’t great, but for all we complain about escorts being flakey or liars... I can only imagine how bad the clients are.

Got a massage from him when he was Ricky in Irvine. It was a good experience, and the dog was locked in another room but was there. He was attractive, and sweet, and I got the vibe that he was gay but hadn't dealt with it yet. He said he'd only ever been with a guy once, and it was for a sketchy and abusive porn shoot that he clearly was still upset about. I don't know what other people's bad experiences were, but to me he was a sweet lost puppy.

We have similar types. Depending on when your trip is, https://rent.men/EthanRock/ is usually based out of Chicago (he's in DC right now). I can vouch for him.

We have similar types. Depending on when your trip is, https://rent.men/EthanRock/ is usually based out of Chicago (he's in DC right now). I can vouch for him.

I don’t think anyone was asking about someone like you, who is easily identifiable and verifiable with even a small amount of effort (like an Alam Wernick, Ryan Rose, or any other social media savvy provider). I’d agree that anyone asking for more from you is likely a troll.
 
I’m curious Kurtis, what you recommend to us clients who come across profiles that are questionable for legitimate reasons, and want some extra verification before we schedule a meet.

I don’t think anyone was asking about someone like you, who is easily identifiable and verifiable with even a small amount of effort (like an Alam Wernick, Ryan Rose, or any other social media savvy provider). I’d agree that anyone asking for more from you is likely a troll.
 
I’m curious Kurtis, what you recommend to us clients who come across profiles that are questionable for legitimate reasons, and want some extra verification before we schedule a meet.

First, reverse image search them. Reversee is a great app you can use on your phone to do it.
 
Second, google their phone number. See if it’s been associated with other ads with different pictures.
 
Third, ask for a quick clothed FaceTime or Skype to prove identity. Say “clothed” so they don’t think you’re trolling them to get to see them naked for free. Kurt’s reply wasn’t great, but for all we complain about escorts being flakey or liars... I can only imagine how bad the clients are.

“Before we meet I need to tell you, the pics aren’t me. They are representative, and my stats are real. I hope you understand. I’m cool meeting you in a lobby or something first if you want.”
 
That’s what should happen. Instead we as clients get put into these awkward positions where we’re expected to know how to graciously respond to someone who is actively gaslighting us... because we’ve already identified them as a liar and so we’re concerned about our safety and privacy and unsure how to respond.

Check out Discreet_Jack in SD. He’s expensive but worth it. Also, very polite.

He's actually in Las Vegas right now. Wrong Timing.
 
I appreciate the feedback from everyone. I might have been too earnest in my approach.

Care to share your ad? Perhaps we can crowdsource some marketing advice

“Before we meet I need to tell you, the pics aren’t me. They are representative, and my stats are real. I hope you understand. I’m cool meeting you in a lobby or something first if you want.”
 
That’s what should happen. Instead we as clients get put into these awkward positions where we’re expected to know how to graciously respond to someone who is actively gaslighting us... because we’ve already identified them as a liar and so we’re concerned about our safety and privacy and unsure how to respond.

“Before we meet I need to tell you, the pics aren’t me. They are representative, and my stats are real. I hope you understand. I’m cool meeting you in a lobby or something first if you want.”
 
That’s what should happen. Instead we as clients get put into these awkward positions where we’re expected to know how to graciously respond to someone who is actively gaslighting us... because we’ve already identified them as a liar and so we’re concerned about our safety and privacy and unsure how to respond.

Do you guys know if Joey from Seancody escort? Would love to meet him even if it is just once.

Pretty sure he's fake. I told him I'd found another person with the same pics and asked him to send a three finger verification photo, and he said he'd FaceTime me instead. I said sure, and it's been two days of "I can't right now" ever since.