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  1. I would also not approach an escort I have met in a public situation. I would probably do something like give him a brief nod or wink if we managed to make eye contact and leave it at that. On a related note I recall how terribly uncomfortable I was when an escort from NYC I was with in another state ran into someone he knew socially while we were together and that person started a conversation with him.
  2. Sometimes you can try searching in a browser like Bing (depending on the information you have) and then selecting the cached version of the page instead of loading the current page. That is usually available by the small down arrow icon to the right of the URL on the second line.
  3. My very first hire was from written publications (personal ads on the back few pages etc.). Yes times have changed. Rentboy was probably my favorite before its demise. There was also another one I didn't quite like as much, but it's long gone and I don't remeber the name anyways. My current go to is rentmen. Have used grindr, craigslist, friendboy. I am currently trying out seeking, but I don't really look at using that site as a traditional search for an escort, more of a search for a continuing relationship. Currently my escort hires have either originated from rentmen (after asking for info here on this forum) or the message forum (as long as I can visually see their presence on another website like rentmen or twitter. I do not do onlyfans or the like.. just not my thing or interest. I don't think I could ever get adam4adam to work for me lol.
  4. Its the shortcut you use when pronouncing a word rather than saying the individual initial. A better example would be 4play where you pronounce the 4 as four+play , 2go for to+go, L8r for later or Bhive for bee+hive. In this case, you are simply pronouncing the S as it's sound "ess" hence ess+cort. I fully accept it doesn't save much at all... but some people shorten/abbreviate etc. everything they possibly can.
  5. Name change. Some of those pictures belonged to an ad from Dallas, Texas... HoganXX. @DallasClient might be able to verify this as he posted that he used to see him. Of course, as Hogan, he charged a lot less! Doh! Just saw @azdr0710beat me to the punch.
  6. In my very early days of hiring I used to be willing to hire without seeing a face pic. Unfortunately, I had to stop doing this because it always ended in disappointment for me. I think this was mostly because I couldn't prevent myself from projecting via fantasy of what the faceless provider looked like and the cold reality when actually seeing the escort of how off I really was to the real thing. The funny thing about it is I likely would have been ok in many of the cases if I was able to see the real thing before having to use my imagination. Put me in the category of someone who will not hire without seeing your face. I definitely appreciate those providers saving us both time and problems by being upfront about refusing to provide a face pic- instead of providing a fake one!
  7. Of the 4 factors listed: Tie for 1st: Body and Face combo ________ Personality (only applicable for rehire status or extended hires) Endowment (as long as average or better I am ok)
  8. While I wouldn't personally go the apologizing route (I just don't see a positive outcome there at all) and I would just move on, I think you should do whatever you will find easiest to live with. If you are going to drive yourself nuts over the wondering and won't be able to just let it go, then by all means spend a little more effort pursuing the answer you need. Whatever you choose to do, do not under any circumstances cross the line to stalkerville and definitely prepare yourself for the real possibility that you may never get the answers you seek. If closure is something that you absolutely can't live without and you aren't able to get a response... may I suggest you write a letter to the escort... putting everything you emotionally need to in that letter, seal it, and then burn that letter and move on.
  9. Is the current 33% off membership deal (that is almost over) one of their better offers?
  10. Scort = " ess-kort" not "skort" Get over it! Just like T-rex = "Tee - rex" not "treks" 😘
  11. https://rent.men/Hunterthunder Anyone met him? Thanks
  12. Great start, you're well on your way. If I could give any advice/ what worked for me: Investing: Treat investing for your future as a monthly expense item.. (pay the rent, pay yourself) Keep it simple- unless you really want to spend the time and have a really active hands on approach... try something like the couch potato portfolio which is so easy and very low cost The couch-potato portfolio is an indexing strategy that requires only annual monitoring and rebalancing but offers significant returns in the long run. Couch potato portfolios invest equally in two assets, common stocks, and bonds (via index funds or ETFs), and maintain this 50/50 split year in and year out. In the couch potato portfolio, the equities allow for growth, while the debt instruments provide protection against market volatility. Couch potato portfolios decline less than the market in down periods but also appreciate less in up markets. Diversify if you are going to pick individual stocks instead of picking low cost index funds. Savings: Keep 3-6 months cash on hand in an online savings bank or credit union that pays higher interest than the traditional bank. Always participate in your employers 401K plans at least up to the $ level they match. Always fund your Roth IRA to the allowable level. Consider using a "bucket" approach (for example). Spending: Don't rack up credit card debt. I use credit but don't carry over monthly balances. Do you really need a new car every 2 years? Consider a Honda before buying that BMW. Can you be happy in that nice $1500 a month apartment, or do you really need to rent that $3000 a month condo? Do you really need to eat out every night or will 2-3 times a week suffice?
  13. My Top3 (alphabetically) without hesitation. AlxWard CooperXXX Peter Hung
  14. Doesn't bother me at all. Not even if they pronounce scort "ess-cort" or "skort".
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