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And that's when you should have dropped him.

I wouldn't.... although I'd let Justin Timberlake fuck me...

I can second this. Bobby's as muscular as he is kind. And he has no problem with kissing.

The RM market doesn't care if your rents are skyrocketing. It only cares about what clients are willing to pay. We need constant reminders that this is an economic situation, not a moral one.

If you can't find Loboa, I'll let you "instruct" me

Yes. There's been a sharp uptick in new providers in my area. At the same time, fewer and fewer guys are asking for more than 300 (or 350 if they're in high demand). (even better - some of the new providers are actually professional enough to work with!) This economy defies general understanding. Some economists say that it looks like we'll get out of this without a recession. But what I see in reality (including my workspace) shows the exact opposite.

I just hired Axhel last night. Didn't know he was travelling with a friend. Oh well.

What others said. Success breeds attitude. What others might jump at, another doesn't pay much attention to.

Why don't we give an answer to this thread: "You can't trust anybody - including escorts and providers - on their health status. Always be safe."

Undetectable people often leave their HIV status blank. Technically, they are negative, but if they forget to take their pills, they could spread again.

Sounds right. The problem is when the overpriced NYC escorts come to places like Chicago and expect the same reception.

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These SA stories are great to read, but I wouldn't want to experience them. To be fair, though, you do see some same problems among younger RM as you do with SA (being late, having personality problems). SA is just 100x worse.

Ditto to many others. The MB ads are usually pretty old. Since it's free, you get a lot of fakes. MB lacks the data an RM ad contains about what providers are willing to do. Likewise, there's no way for a provider to list themselves as "available." Since the ads are so old, it's a crap shoot if they even still exist. I've hired guys who were on MB, but only because they were already on RM or Friendboys.

The frequency with which visiting and new providers have just ghosted or ignored me, even if they're marked as "Available" on RM and I make sure to text them my profile, is appalling. Some escorts have enough customers or sessions to not need new ones. That's fine...as long as you don't act otherwise.

I have 2-3 providers at any one time. I prefer local ones who have good availability. I try to keep it simple: I look for providers who act professionally. This means they're honest, generally on time (and letting me know if they can't be), and are able to satisfy one or more of my physical needs without adding an emotional component. I am likewise honest and punctual for them. We have a honest but respectful mutual understanding that this is a regular business relationship, and treat it as such. I don't tip very often, but they can expect extra monetary gifts at the holidays. Likewise, providers usually have a plan to "retire" after a few years, and I make sure I respect both their current work and future plans. I treat such providers as "guests" when they visit, granting them a lot of social prerogatives when we're together. I act like a good host, and they don't abuse the status (not all escorts are that scrupulous). I make sure to see a regular, at the very least, once every 2 months. I'm afraid many escorts are very unprofessional, especially younger ones, and demonstrate entitlement, rudeness, and carelessness. When a regular has done this to me, I've dropped them on the spot.

Another bucket list item of mine - Bangkok, the city with the most accurate double entendre name.

I thought the same. That and the Rembrandt museum are on my bucket list.

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Personally, I'd love that level of straightforwardness. It's a business transaction, and the price is the most important piece of information. I wouldn't hire Alam for conversation. My only concern is that he no longer lists his HIV status, whereas he used to be openly undetectable. Obviously there were a lot of scientifically ignorant clients out there.

Until escorting is legalized, there's no chance at making a legal contract or agreement. When we do have such things, I'll consider paying deposits more often.

A lesson every generation learns anew 😊

Believe it. All the providers who insisted on my money upon arrival were lousy and, in one case, an outright thief who left right after grabbing the cash.

Oh, you can legally buy it. You just have to pay with fancy meals and gifts.

I can tell we're dealing with a master criminal here...