DrownedBoy

I occasionally see ads that say "same day only" or "preferred." I wonder if that's a real phenomenon. Even if it is, the guy's being a tease by not giving his rates a few days in advance.

I found precisely 1 bisexual guy on the list of "gigolos" and he wants 700 pounds for 2 hours (minimum). Can't see his face either. And he doesn't like roleplaying. EDIT The straight guys only charge - I just randomly looked at one - 500 for 2 hours min. Supply and demand is in the one bisexual's favor. You can find many more "cultured" guys on RM.

As a client, I've seen this only when providers have to travel a significant distance to get to an outcall. For instance, I've hired visiting clients where the "commute" can be about 40 minutes. In that case, they usually want more than an hour to make up for the travel time. I'm generous with that, as long as providers are in the 300/500 range for 1/2 hour visits. If someone was charging 400 an hour and somehow I hired them for an outcall, I wouldn't be that generous.

I want too. Sometime after he returns from his travels.

I do have a question for masseurs in general. It sounds like you don't want to be contacted for intercourse. What about things such as kissing and fetishes? (thinking of BDSM in the latter category, which masseurs have good skills for, IMHO).

There was another provider who was making a bunch of "work out exercise instruction" videos on social media. I didn't mind watching him flex his muscles.

Being the John still is prosecuted in all cities where prostitution itself isn't (LA/Chicago/NYC). I understand that some escorts are so popular that they get texted by a lot of people. But if I text someone with intent to hire and make clear I'm interested in hiring, I'd think escorts could at least respond with "I'm busy" instead of just ghosting me (if an escort ghosts me, I never text them again).

Unfortunately Chicago still has a lot of 2021s.

When I've considered escorts who charge that much, they're often so busy and full of themselves that they don't pay attention or care too much about a single customer. Not the kind of attitude I hire for. I'm waiting for the recession to finally hit. I thought 300 was too high prior to the pandemic, and with inflation I think it's much more fair. This is an unregulated market with a very low barrier to entrance. Just pay what you want, reject prices you think are too high, and wait for supply and demand to kick in.

Yeah happened to me because a regular was in my contacts. I quickly hid it - I didn't want to get personally involved.

RM Auto Message allows you to add your rates, which U.S. ads don't. That's why I found it immensely time saving, both for myself and for the provider.

Just ask them. I do all the time for facial hair. Just word it nicely. Like: "I saw your ads, and your hair is different in each photo, so can you let me know how your body hair is now?"

Hopefully he's still active. One of the kindest, I agree.

That's how supply and demand works. "Cost of living increase" applies to both provider and client. And most companies don't automatically give wage increases to clients.

You should post in "The Deli" if he's an escort, not here.

As always, the Japanese are ahead of us in thinking of stuff like that. Ai To Yokubou Wa Gakuen De (Yaoi) manga - Mangago

I think it only becomes a moral issue if the provider is in a position where he really can't refuse, and the client knows it. Like they need the money for food or don't have anywhere to stay. My opinion (not shared by everyone I know).

Got that one too. When he dropped to 450, I just said, "No, I don't like to haggle. You asked for 600, and I have to pass."

Fort Wayne is easily the most sexually repressed city I've ever visited around here (albeit this was back when I was in college). Lots of fundamentalist seminaries and such. One of my uncles wasted a perfectly good brain by "following his calling" there.

I have seen some RM who have an automated feature on their RentMen messenger. If anyone tries to contact them with it, it automatically responds with rates and a reminder to text them if you're interested.

Well the people saying he's "crazy" are people who only texted him, whereas others actually met him. Getting to be a tough competitive market out there.....

Yeah, tell me about it! Such different reviews! I think he had a break from escorting, because he's been in Chicago forever. I met him twice within, I think, the past 6 months. Easily the most intelligent and cultured escort I was able to meet and have a conversation with. Of course, I was more impressed with his mind than his body....which seems to be a factor here. EDIT: I should add that I don't generally hire escorts who mention their intelligence, as I'm admittedly shallow, and I've hired many "educated" escorts who seemed anything but. However, if his knowledge of the humanities is any indicator, this guy struck me as someone who received a humanistic education at a very good university.

A bit expensive for live porn, I think, if they're already hooked.

I don't know if it means anything, but many of providers I've met have given me a variation of this. Hopefully they're just trying to keep their boyfriends under their hat, but I've met a provider who seemed unable to sustain a relationship. I know since he treated me like a free therapist.

Translation: Thanks for the money, sucker.