DrownedBoy

What he said.

He seems like a gentleman - I already scheduled for when he visits Chicago this weekend. I'm wondering if he sets up candles when he stays at a hotel.

I haven't been able to try him yet, but this guy specifically advertises that he's a champion french kisser. https://rent.men/EthanRock

They go under "leather goods" when you order on a regular CC. Oh the irony....

I generally get Uber requests when the client is from out-of-town. If a British guy is visiting Chicago, you know he's not going to have a car. I don't like having CC information out there, but for good escorts, I'll order one. There's only one time I regretted it (someone completely different from his pictures, who I called an Uber to take back maybe 15 minutes after he arrived).

I finally had the chance to meet up with him, and was impressed. Real nice guy, and he's taller and has a better body than the photos might suggest. The only problem is it's hard to get a hold of him sometimes.

Hi, all. As many people here know from experience, some escorts never respond to the first text . Even if they're marked as "Available" on RentMen. To be fair (in case the escort is busy or with a different client), how long should I wait after that initial text before moving to "Plan B" and trying someone else?

Thank you for all these answers. But I forgot about one: If you set your RentMen profile to "Available," even if it's midnight, are you generally willing to host more sessions?

I just wanted to ask a general questions - do most escorts keep night hours on the weekends (e.g., 10 pm to 3 am)?

Was he speaking Italian? He's from Milan, and Spanish and Italian sound very similar.

I read an escort say, 50 years ago or so - "if you can tell the judge the color of the cop's underwear, you go free." It wasn't true 50 years ago, and apparently it isn't true today.

You speak Spanish?

Role playing. It means I'm not interested in oral/anal/etc. In my experience, straight guys who have no problem sticking their tool into another guy's butt just can't bring themselves to stick their tongue into another guy's mouth. Unfortunate. Something else I should write a monogram on.

I emailed him here in Chicago, and he got back to me immediately. I'm purely an RP guy, but I do need to kiss. He was honest enough to say he couldn't do that.

I have been really hoping that at least some of these sites have some juicy records for protection - like the IP addresses of some Republican members of Congress. I had a lot of fun when the Ashley-Madison data was leaked - I downloaded the database and found (among other things) the name and CC of my town's former mayor, as well as several police detectives (who should have been smarter than that). If I was a hypocrite, I would have had a lot of fun with that.

He's really hot, but to communicate well, you'll need to speak Spanish. If you do, though, good luck. I'm afraid my limited language skills keep me from hiring a lot of guys I'd like.

Exactly how interactive is Reese? I understand not being into anal/oral, but what about kissing and lift-and-carry? (and if not, which massive bodybuilders are?)

Rather interesting experience with him.... A year or so ago, had a RP session with him. He was obliging and friendly, and I added his number to my list. Then, a week or so ago, I tried contacting him via text, and he started acting all weird and paranoid, e.g. claiming I was being too "picky" by asking him to be on time, went on a rant that I was somehow "yelling" at him via text, and said he wouldn't do an outcall that night. I politely obliged him, and informed him I wouldn't be contacting him _at all_ in the future. Everyone has their bad days, but I don't tolerate that kind of talk and attitude from anyone, and don't feel comfortable meeting with someone who acts in a paranoid fashion.

It'll be an improvement over the education I received in an Illinois public high school. I can only recall one "LBGQ" lesson, and it was in health class: "Anal sex is unnatural. The ass wasn't made for that, and you'll just hurt yourself."

I've had RM actually send me the actual process: THEM: Your review was rejected. - No communication between escort and client via RentMen ME: What is the proper procedure to communicate with an escort via RentMen? THEM: Use the contact information provided by the advertiser: phone or email. Use the Contact button on all profiles. Which doesn't work on a browser... Personally, I bet the staff of RM are a bunch of Dutch liberals who enjoy watching Americans with money lose it...

I leave an envelope lying in plain sight at the beginning of the session. I do this for anyone I meet with, whether they ask for it or not. I recall three times, when doing this, where the escort opened the envelope before the session, counted the money, and pocketed it beforehand. One of them carelessly dropped the envelope on the floor afterwards, which should have been a tip off. All three of those sessions ended early because the escort refused to do things they agreed to earlier. I have had escorts insist on prepayment, at which point I tell them my aforementioned policy. None of them argued. Surprisingly, only one of those was a bad experience, and it was the one where the person grabbed the money and dropped the envelope, as I mentioned before. And it was by far the worst session I ever had. I ought to write a monograph on this someday...but there seems little point in kicking someone out immediately after they have your money.

Yes - I recognize the name now, and that forum remark about his "brother the state wrestling champ." Thanks.

Hey, in Chicago there's an ad for a guy called "Chicagofitness." https://rent.men/chicagofitness I recognize his main profile picture - it appeared under a different name a year or so ago. Moreover, I recall him getting some bad reviews on this forum. Does anyone recognize his picture and remember his older escort name? Without that, I can't search M4M to find information on him. Thanks.

I tried to hire him once (here in Chicago). He agreed to meet via text, but then suddenly went quiet and didn't show up (or respond to any followup texts). Rather weird.

Lifeguards, forever.