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It's not there anymore - I confirmed. I know I read the profile of a Santinoxxx before, so he must have traveled to Chicago before. However, without seeing it again, I couldn't tell you if it ever went further than that.

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Mr. Number: Mr. Number - Caller ID & Spam - Apps on Google Play A lot of providers use this. Although I have to pay for a premium account, I signed up for it. First, I'm able to look up clients ahead of time and check them as well. Second, unscrupulous providers can leave fake warnings. When I signed up for the premium account, it turns out three of those b@stards left warnings. With my account, a single text message erased them all immediately.

I strongly agree, if there's a lot of prep work. However, this does apply to providers too - it's not like only clients are bottoms. And if an escort is too late, the Viagra wears off. Both of us have preparations, and I'll report, without delay, any escort who does the same to me.

You would think that providers would actually use RentMen to confirm if the client is a Premium member, yet I've yet to meet one who does. That's a missed opportunity - a Premium provider account means the guy is willing to spend.

As others have said, only for RM who I have good reason to trust, and only for ones who are extremely attractive and/or popular. The most recent time was for a hot provider who had like 100 reviews on RM with a 4.9+ average. Someone that popular needs to filter out flakes - I get that. But I still wouldn't pay a full half of the fee ahead of time; he had to settle for less. The only time I lost a deposit was when I cancelled the appointment. The only times I've lost money is when the criminal came and personally took the cash.

I just have one question for clients who travel internationally: In countries where escorting is legal, how do providers treat potential clients?

Yeah, but Savage would be hard to "dig up" if you catch my (bad) pun.

Since (in the U.S.) the escort market isn't policed, we have to police ourselves. If a provider does something that would warrant a bad review on Yelp, they warrant a bad review here and RM. It's just business.

That's never changed. When I came out of the closet at 19, my first boyfriend called getting fat the "gay sin." Once, after made an appointment with a provider, I went on RM to read his interview questions. He shot me an angry RM message asking me if I was going to book him or not (he didn't know my RM name). I should have cancelled there and then, but didn't. I had to wait until he came, took my money, and walked out 15 minutes later.

Good idea - sounds like the hallway-to-door dialog I hear regularly from couples in my condo building who get into arguments.

I've seen a rise and fall where I live (Chicago/Midwest) between 2019 and now. The baseline then was 300 standard, a little less for newbies. After and during the late pandemic period, escorts were asking a lot. Established ones tried for 350 and 400, and even newbies with no reviews wanted 300 (and sometimes more!). Since late 2022, the standard seems to have returned to 300, with new escorts charging less. I found a really good new regular that way. I can only speak from observation and casual conversation (which is no doubt guarded for financial reasons), but it appears - in my area at least - a lot fewer people are hiring, but a lot more escorts are on RM. And many escorts - even established ones - have become a _lot_ more grateful to find regular clients to provide steady income. In my social circle (mainly Chicagoland technical and financial professionals), the current economy has meant layoffs (several friends from different companies just lost 10% of their coworkers), wage and hiring freezes, reduced benefits, and longer hours, not to mention indefinite delays for many projects and planned improvements. I've been hit by all those things, and it hasn't been fun. Clients have less money and financial stability right now. You don't need a PhD in economics to understand what that means.

No, but thanks for pointing LustNoir out to me.

I did something similar when the escort acted weird and demanded money to leave (was on drugs). Instead of running away, the moron ran into the hotel lobby and made a scene and started telling random people he was an escort. Security kicked him out and told him not to return. I stayed and had a nice meal at their restaurant. Moral: when an escort acts like a criminal, he will be treated as one, and it's very unlikely anything will come of it for the client.

And for obvious reasons the under-40 clients disappear eventually (I used to be one).

And that's when you should have dropped him.

I wouldn't.... although I'd let Justin Timberlake fuck me...

I can second this. Bobby's as muscular as he is kind. And he has no problem with kissing.

The RM market doesn't care if your rents are skyrocketing. It only cares about what clients are willing to pay. We need constant reminders that this is an economic situation, not a moral one.

If you can't find Loboa, I'll let you "instruct" me

Yes. There's been a sharp uptick in new providers in my area. At the same time, fewer and fewer guys are asking for more than 300 (or 350 if they're in high demand). (even better - some of the new providers are actually professional enough to work with!) This economy defies general understanding. Some economists say that it looks like we'll get out of this without a recession. But what I see in reality (including my workspace) shows the exact opposite.

I just hired Axhel last night. Didn't know he was travelling with a friend. Oh well.

What others said. Success breeds attitude. What others might jump at, another doesn't pay much attention to.

Why don't we give an answer to this thread: "You can't trust anybody - including escorts and providers - on their health status. Always be safe."

Undetectable people often leave their HIV status blank. Technically, they are negative, but if they forget to take their pills, they could spread again.