DrownedBoy

Has anyone met this guy? On RM for almost 2 years, but only has 2 reviews (both 5 star). Pictures seem hot, but charges 250/hr. https://rent.men/YordanCuban/

Until a year or so ago, in my experience, the rule seemed to be to reject only bad reviews (on those technicalities) while accepting all good ones. Then the technicalities took over the good ones too. Remember it's the providers who pay RM...

I'm trying, but our schedules haven't synched yet.

It wasn't until recent years that a "boyfriend" could pull the blackmail game as well. And in some places in the States, they still can.

True in terms of French kissing; not sure about dry kissing. Being an RPer, it's not something I always look for.

Saw him in Chicago. Pretty good, and has a talent for massaging (and I've never been a massage fan).

If a provider ever told me that, I wouldn't hire them again. If I ever told that to a provider, I would hope he had enough sense not to see me again. Keep to business...

He's visited Chicago before. Looks like the type I'd try and contact, but can't remember.

Nope. Especially for locals with 0 or 1 reviews.

It seems that SA is for men with time to go with their money. Unfortunately, I'm a few years away from retirement.

Strange. I vaguely remember seeing that ad before, but no business.

Veeeery new, and nice looking. There's something "generic" about the ad, but a quick image search on one of them yielded nothing.

Veeeery new, and nice looking. There's something "generic" about the ad, but a quick image search on one of them yielded nothing.

So all you need to do is buy the "special pen." Cheaper than I thought: https://www.officedepot.com/a/browse/check-fraud-prevention-and-counterfeit-detector-pens/N=5+573547/

One of my regulars mentioned that someone once tried to pay him with counterfeit bills, but they were obviously fakes and he didn't bite. Do other providers have similar stories? In a black market, it's difficult to punish someone for that.

My libido was never much to begin with (I remember friends joking about that when I was in my early 20s), but it's getting worse. It seems like half the time, I can't even come during a session. And I get bored too. I have 2 regulars, but after time, it gets less exciting. I was looking for a new regular, but everyone in this area wants 300 + Uber fee. 20 miles from downtown doesn't seem long, but it is if you're driving in Chicago. And more escorts don't like travelling. And to repeat what an earlier poster said, facial hair is the "thing" now, and it's a major turnoff for me.

It's hard to keep your name private if you do in-calls (easy address lookup, name around the house, etc.). And thanks to intrusive apps like FaceBook, I've inadvertently gotten the names of some providers (they try to get you to friend anyone who you call). I prefer to pretend I don't know anything, and keep using preferred names, and ask the same.

Seems a bit vanilla - he wasn't willing to work with fetishes, and wouldn't do business with me.

I agree with someone else on this thread who said money spent hiring should be treated like money thrown away - money we can afford to lose. Nonetheless, good escorts deserve that money, not cheats.

I'm pretty OCD when it comes to money, so I actually have a line-item for hiring. It's slightly less than 10K a year, which doesn't harm my income. Nonetheless, I do feel guilty, because I'm also OCD about saving money. I pay into my 401k (10% of my income), and into another savings plan (where I save 14% of my gross income, or 25% of my net income). And the more I save, the better. I will say this - before I started hiring, I barely spent anything on personal luxuries. It's literally the most money I spent on myself.

In your experience, do younger clients tend to be more into fetishes? That's my thing. I came out in college and never had problems finding partners....but not partners who were willing to do the stuff I was into.

He got back to me quickly too, seemed like a nice guy, and is willing to do at least a little more than muscle worship. However, that might be because I scheduled a 2-hour session with him next weekend. Aaron is probably right - pay more, get more.

He got back to me quickly too, seemed like a nice guy, and is willing to do at least a little more than muscle worship. However, that might be because I scheduled a 2-hour session with him next weekend. Aaron is probably right - pay more, get more.

A muscle lover here as well. I try to see bodybuilders when they travel near me. The more muscular, the better. This is partly because I'm into lift-and-carry, so I need a strong guy.

Much more realistic. And statistically, if you're pulling 300K/year, you're in the "1%." Translation - a lot of these boys on SA are going to be disappointed. How many of the 1% are gay men? If my salary keeps going up, I'd love to get a houseboy/servant, but I've never been interested in "dating" like that. Probably a hangover from my own youth.