DrownedBoy

How'd you get that? I had to pay 300 and Uber. Which is why I'm not hiring him again...

He's currently being aggressive about finding clients by reaching out with RM. But he's not my type.

When I met him, he was 400 an hour. I'm into RP, so he did everything I asked except deep kissing. He had a great body, but I have trouble enjoying myself with escorts who are clearly straight. But I don't regret trying him at least once.

I'm not offended, and actually more likely to text someone who's proactive. Unfortunately, none of these proactive guys did it for me. A few days ago, I RMd someone who interested me. A few seconds later, I got a message and started chatting, discussing what I'm into, even looking at dates. Then I checked and realized that it wasn't a reply from the guy I wanted, it was someone else who, at the exact same time, RMd me proactively. Embarrassing! I had to back pedal quickly...

In Chicago, the virus is under control, and I'll do another hire by end of the month. RM Chicago ads are nearly up to normal as well (at least 10 pages). Anyone see a reverse trend in Florida, California, or Texas?

In Chicago, the virus is under control, and I'll do another hire by end of the month. RM Chicago ads are nearly up to normal as well (at least 10 pages). Anyone see a reverse trend in Florida, California, or Texas?

If you thought younger guys are in trouble, just wait until the last week in July. In Chicago at least, both the unemployment "coivd" workmen's comp and the rent deferral is going to end. That is going to suck big time. I'm using my SA membership to just look, and am not talking with anyone unless they send a message first. But users might want to make sure their "sugar babies" aren't wearing a backpack and need a shower....

Your area?

Bumping this. It seems like Grindr is getting stricter - I've read people claim that "gen" and the usual emojis are off. Right now, I'm just saying that I "prefer younger" men and "realize their time is valuable." Would like to be obvious without getting banned. Is there any code that escorts and such use on Grindr to indicate they're for hire? I don't want to make the first move in case I get reported (or worse).

Ditto.

Reading this stuff, I'm seriously considering paying 90 just for the entertainment value! Sometimes a good laugh is better than a good lay.

Still debating whether I'll hire in mid July or wait until August. Illinois is pretty damn safe with covid right now, but I still don't see as many choices as there were before the plague.

I'm not into SA because I don't have the time, but is there an influx of flakes due to covid unemployment?

That's basically what this guy wants. Hire a top to f@@k him, and you're allowed to pay an additional 150 to watch. https://friendboy.pro/boys/Look4DaddyVoyeur

I did have a more general question. Are guys on SA looking for a place to live? Or just regular meetups? Some of us still live in condos.

If you're concerned about $90, SA definitely wouldn't be worth it...

We Illinoisans have it together too. Tested negative less than 2 weeks ago, but since you can catch it 5 seconds after the test, it doesn't mean much.

Very good advice. Working with regulars you're familiar with provides not only better data on whether you'll get along, but often a more decent rate. It took very little time to work something agreeable out.

Very good advice. Working with regulars you're familiar with provides not only better data on whether you'll get along, but often a more decent rate. It took very little time to work something agreeable out.

The only time I did this, the provider later said he was with another client, then shot back with the "if you send an ultimatum I don't want you as a customer." Personally, I thought that was a good honest response. If a provider marks himself Available Now when he's not (as in working with s different client), he's being unprofessional, and I have no use for him.

The only time I did this, the provider later said he was with another client, then shot back with the "if you send an ultimatum I don't want you as a customer." Personally, I thought that was a good honest response. If a provider marks himself Available Now when he's not (as in working with s different client), he's being unprofessional, and I have no use for him.

Among escorts, I believe there may be a level of hypocrisy. Let me tell a story from when I was in my 20s. There was this hot waiter in his early twenties. He regularly dated guys in their 30s and 40s who always picked up the tab. Then an older gay couple gave him free room and board to spice up their relationship . He met an escort who advertised online. When the guy asked him out, he laughed at him, and called him a "whore" who "sold his body on the Internet." Absolute and complete hypocrisy. The older I get, the more I hang out with guys who share interests besides sex. You get better conversation and boyfriends that way, although in my case, they're far from attractive to me.

Hey, for anyone who has any experience here: I'm thinking on going on a vacation and inviting a professional to accompany me and see the sites during the day, and have fun at nights. What would I expect to pay for a week? Assume I'm covering all hotel, travel, and food options, and it's a decent hotel.

"Have your way with me" is a standard, if old fashioned, euphemism.

Weird. He spoke English fine...