DrownedBoy

Depends on context, the guy, and his reviews. It can sometimes backfire. The last guy I met mentioned the Uber was more expensive than he thought, so for the next session, I offered him more to cover it. An hour before the almost-second session, he complained that Uber was "more expensive" than the last time. It's sad that the good ones are often so stupid....

Absolutely not. I just read a profile for a visiting provider. In his ad, he announced he was very "selective" about who he met with, and required a full-body photo. I just blocked his ad as a precaution....

I had a question for providers and clients, but probably more on the provider side. I've been openly gay in this area, ever since college, but there's one thing I've never done - march or appear in the Chicago Pride Parade. I belong to 2 gay groups that march there (one connected to work, the other more social), but I've turned down any invitations, citing an obsessive ex-boyfriend I'm worried about meeting. However, although that "ex-boyfriend" exists, it's not my real reason. Of course, I'm worried about seeing providers I've worked with. I can only think of one that might cause a scene (he did cause a scene once, which was why I kicked him out of my place, and made him even angrier - he tried texting angry messages at me weeks later using someone else's cell phone), but it would only take one scene to complicate my, say, work ilfe. For escorts and providers - have you ever had any problems at Pride Parades, with such call-outs?

That's kinda what it looked like to me....

https://rent.men/timlaurenz The guy looks massively hot, but has no reviews and claims to be visiting from Germany. Anyone recognize this Aryan superman?

He quoted 400 hr for an outcall. I politely declined.

This. Not enough price signals being sent. In my experience, it takes a few texts before I can get a rate quote from an escort, and quite a few won't respond to an initial direct question about their rates. So both my time and the provider's gets wasted, because I'm still going to turn down a price if it's too high. One selling approach is to try to get the potential customer to invest something first (like half an hour of waiting on texts). That doesn't work on me, or anyone else with a few brain cells.

I've only seen that 350 rate with traveling escorts who are models. Unless they're a professional bodybuilder, I tell them it's currently out of my budget.

Yes definitely set expectations, and make sure they have something they want to do. My vacation with an escort bombed when he decided it wasn't fun and took off 2 days in, even after I switched resorts so he had a gym.

On RM, you can have a profile as a client. But I never heard of an escort browsing those pages, or if they even can.

In a different thread (that 80+ page one for SA), an older man who often has young men stay with him said that Brazillian guys tend to be more polite as guests. I'm guessing they're more obliging too. However, I've seen that in most Latino hires.

I'm not a fan of used underwear, but I have a good use for my underwear when they get worn out. After a final wash, I use scissors to cut them into nearly ribbons. Then, when I hire an escort, I have them rip them off me.

I defended one of my regulars once, but that was because the complaint was coming from a guy who never met him (and was simply pissed off that the guy wasn't doing free sexting). Otherwise, my tastes and practices (fetish only) make it rather hard to compare with other clients. It drives me nuts when people ask if a guy "tops" - I'm not into anal!

It seems rare that people are into Asian guys, or to find Asian guys on RM. I have a slight preference for Asian guys, probably because since I came out in college (and in the CS department no less), I was surrounded by Asian guys, and my college boyfriends were a majority Asian. On RM, though, it's hard to find muscular ones. I hired one I've been meaning to try for awhile, but the muscles in his photos had shrunk...

Muscles are a must. The more the better. I definitely like younger guys in their 20s. Twinks aren't my thing, but I love twunks, but can't seem to find too many. Reasonably tall (5'10 to 6' min, unless they have something else going for them), good deep kisser, and never any facial hair.

Always look up a country's LGBT record before you visit. The Dominican Republic isn't a good place. LGBT rights in the Dominican Republic - Wikipedia

Yes. I hired one of them off RM accidentally. Not a fun time at all.

I've met very few escorts who wouldn't at least listen to me talk about my "regular" sex life. Only a few of them counseled me back, though. One minor warning - don't get dependent on hired companionship, even if you keep it as a hobby. And try not to hire when you're depressed.

When one of my long-term regular providers went over by 10-15 minutes, I sort of awkwardly grabbed some 20s from my wallet and gave them to him. I did so without him asking, as I have a good business relationship with said provider, and try to keep him happy. Plus, I don't like being in the position of owing someone something. However, if it was a situation like described here - first meeting, not very good, only 10 minutes and at the end - @excelntsvc is correct - " I'm sorry, I thought you were watching the time" ... end of discussion." You have no motivation to pay more, since you'll never see the guy again.

I've done some short smartphone videos of my particular fetish with regulars. One only consented once I arranged it so his face wasn't visible. Since my face is visible, I'm taking those small MP3s with me to the grave.

If the OP can't, via rules, post the escort's identity here, can he reveal it to people who PM him? I don't give a damn about "proof " of transmission or stigmitizing. If there's even a small risk, I avoid it. Sucks to be him, but that's life in the big city. HIV can be hell on you if, like myself, you have other preexisting conditions.

Ach du lieber, I'll have to visit someday.... ...like others said, when they get more talent. These guys need some meat on their bones.

Guys who add the flexed bicep emoticon: 💪

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This guy is visiting Chicago, and is a bodybuilder who offers worship options. https://rent.men/XxXJOHNSONXxX He also has an OF page: https://onlyfans.com/xjohnsonx Has anyone here met him? I texted him, and though kissing isn't listed on his ad, he claims to be ok with it. Also, his rate is significantly lower than you would expect from a European bodybuilder, so I wanted to check.