DrownedBoy

3 ounces! That's 1.5 shot glasses of ice cream.

Nice name. If he's part of the NES generation (and his age suggests it), I might guess the source.

I had a regular fake an orgasm once. I told him he was sweet, but he didn't need to.

There are too many ways to hack an account to narrow it down. Most likely your username \password got leaked from a site where you use the same EDIT or similar password. Always use different and hard passwords on any financial account.

I had non English speakers who had helpers, but I don't think they were managed. If a escort fed me the same line as the OP, I'd smile outwardly and dismiss it as bullshit inwardly. It sounds like an attempt to exaggerate his popularity and intimidate. I've heard BS like that before, from escorts who proved untrustworthy.

It's been said many times. A good regular will grandfather in your rate. A bad one won't (personal experience). That being said, a client in this situation should be generous in other matters, like tips or more regular patronage.

I've met a "bisexual" escort who kept talking to himself about his "girlfriend" even when I had him in my mouth. He kept moaning, "Oh man, I really wish I was with a woman." I thought it was both creepy and insulting, and couldn't get rid of him quickly enough.

I understand the agreement, but I'll never understand why clients "require" that a provider comes. There's too many factors beyond everyone's control. I'd say offer a decent tip if they come. Nobody would agree to an hour of work where they might not get paid.

The proof is in the pudding, but if they don't bother responding to you (even to say they're busy), it doesn't matter.

100 lb? I'm tempted to send him a restaurant gift card.

On the hookups apps, did you mention you're generous? They probably get regular EDIT propositions every day.

I need to see if the client has facial hair. So a headless shot is unlikely to get my interest. I might send them an RM text asking for a face pic, but if they need a text, sorry, there's a couple hundred other guys who want my money. If you're that fearful of being identified, neither a client nor provider be.

I once tried to follow a recommendation, but I found the provider to be an egotistical fast talker trying to get more money. Pass. Everyone has their own tastes...and unnegotiatable dislikes. What one person puts up with, another won't.

I did give a second chance to a provider who robbed me at the second visit. So, no. Supply and demand are on my side.

Bodybuilders at competitions need sponsors. And gay men are no strangers at such competitions. Nothing wrong with asking. However, I wouldn't approach a bodybuilder directly at a competition. Find another way to contact them. They need the money, but they don't want others knowing.

Ditto. That usually says the escort is more exclusive. I respect it, and politely cross such escorts off my list. If you won't unlock for a Premium member, you're a fool.

Maybe it will become a better mindset when they come out with AI-powered sexbots.

It's been answered several times - it requires skills beyond just being sexy. I know of no online site or book that tells providers the basics on getting started, what to expect, how to deal with the steady stream of texts, of which only some are valid offers, etc. In my opinion, in the U.S., law and public opinion are the biggest obstacles. In addition to removing and opportunities for proper training and protection, it makes working in the industry too risky. It's a lot rarer today to see gay prostitution stings, but the whole "sex trafficking" bullshit makes it a PR nightmare for a company to hire people in the industry. It's easier - again, as someone mentioned - for college students to work out a "Seeking Arrangements" position. From personal experience, I can say it's a much easier path, you're more likely to have friends who can tell you about it and give useful advise, it's a lot less risky, and it is (or was) considered more "socially acceptable" for both parties involved. EDIT: To clarify: SA (or FB) weren't around when I was in college. We used traditional "social networks" to pass word about interested, rich, gay alumni. This only made the whole process safer.

As another CoM mentioned, a provider who visited Chicago did the same thing after being hired for an overnight. When his current client was sleeping, he was texting other clients. If he hadn't arbitrarily, and without notice, cut my session short after getting the overnight, I could put up with it.

Yup. Most men can't come from getting blown alone, and many see it as just foreplay.

There was once a guy in Chicago who advertised offering 30 minute mini sessions prior to the pandemic, but he stopped. Even his (now normal) ad isn't up regularly anymore. I don't know if he would have been any good, since he turned me down after I told him what I was into. Even though I was trying to book a whole hour.

I have a regular who said, if he saw me in public, promised he would completely ignore me and pretend he doesn't know me. He didn't need to go that far. Personally, I think simply exchanging a quick "hi" is the best answer. But everyone has their personal level of safety.

My opinion - that's fine. Thanks to my education and profession, I've turned into the "free IT guy" for my family and neighbors, as well as any hire who needs technical help. I've helped set up RM accounts and helped providers further monetize their stuff. However, that only gets done after the session is over. And only to providers with a good attitude.

I do wonder what providers expect from clients. One of my regulars likes getting deep-throated, so I do my best to pleasure him whenever he comes over. How important is reciprocity in hiring situations?

The main problem with bodybuilders is that so few of them are willing to kiss (probably because the vast majority are straight). I've met non-bodybuilder providers, bi ones, who told me their policy was that they would only receive oral sex, but not perform it. Luckily, I replied that I have a strict policy of only performing oral sex, but I refuse to receive it. So, worship and getting blown are fine....as long as they're willing to kiss. My personal take, based on experience.