Hello everyone! First of all, thank you for this community and for keeping it alive. It feels great to have this space and be able to ask questions.
I have hired a few times before (4, I believe) but have always struggled with what the first message should be and the flow of the conversation, English is not my mother tongue so there´s an additional layer of wondering if I´m being too formal or clear enough. Usually, it goes something like this:
Hey man, I hope it´s going well! I am looking for a BFE and looking to top. Kissing is important to me. Are you available on ______ ?
Depending on the response, I will follow up with more concrete questions.
What are your thoughts? When do you discuss rates? How do you ask for a face pic if the provider isn't posting one on their public profile? How do you mention your health stats and ask for theirs (if you do)? Lastly, do you mind sharing your first approaches?
As always, thanks!