DrownedBoy

I'm in an interesting situation. One of my regulars wants me to do a three-way by hiring another escort at the same time as him. He said he'd give me a discount if he can watch and join in. Not sure what to make of that.

Ditto. I love bodybuilders, but I learned the hard way about how often they had to eat. It's a major turnoff to be with a guy who has to stuff his face full of microwaved chicken breasts every 2 hours. I just cannot mix food with sex; it's just how I think, and how my stomach automatically reacts.

I hate to admit you're right there, but that would explain a lot. I'm a little worried about hiring that type of person, since I'm sure working through an agency that sends them across border would be classified as "sex trafficking" by conservative LE reps. I'm also a tad concerned about Venezuelans. I've done some volunteer work for the Venezuelan refugees who were/are staying at Chicago police stations. I heard that some group claimed to be from a "church" and was offering a full package, job, housing, etc. Luckily, they were so suspicious that even the Venezuelans didn't fall for it (we later learned that it wasn't a "church" but some unknown group that used that word to try and gain their trust). The Venezuelan men, in particular, are desperate to find work; they constantly ask volunteers to help them find paid work. This is a dangerous situation, and could lead to something that I would morally consider sex trafficking.

I am sad to hear about this change, both for providers who have extra work, and the clients who will stop hiring because of it. I'm weird, in that I'm not too interested in dick pics. I don't bottom. If they want me to take them in my mouth, it's actually easier if they're shorter, so I can deep throat without gagging. Hope that isn't too much information.

I think clients who "fall" for providers are ignoring the fact that there's dozens of other guys the provider sees, and that acting is part of the job. I'd point that out (politely and indirectly) when it looks like someone is letting their emotions override their reason. Clients need to keep a realistic perspective. Being the obsessive classifier that I am, I personally have these "intimacy" levels, highest to lowest: 1. BF 2. FWB 3. FB I get along with 4. FB I am able to put up with An escort, no matter how nice, would never get about #3. Unfortunately, many gay men are unable to realistically recognize intimacy levels, especially if they're new to dating/hiring.

Google is your friend. All this information is available if you know where to look for it. Now please excuse me as I add you to my blocked list. I put up with enough lazy dimwits at work, and don't need to waste my free time doing so here.

Their annual revenue is 15 million. Not exactly a FAANG. And they're not publicly traded. Unfortunately, the only way competition is possible is if some court ruling legalized U.S. prostitution. There's 0% chance SCOTUS will do that. It's already been pointed out that the U.S. is using RM to crack down on visiting providers. They're already getting a fire lit under their ass. Making a competing platform would be too financially risky. The shutdown of RB mainly backfired on the Feds. The judge herself said it was unwarranted , the NYT accused Homeland Security of homophobia, and the agent who leveled the case is now in private practice. However, the political climate has changed, and that creates a chilling affect. Everyone knows that they're going after transsexuals only as a door into returning to the legal gay bashing of the past. I'd start looking for an alternative just to be safe. If MAGAites started attacking RM publicly in this political climate, the company might end up shutting down.

I had a question for providers here: Is it common to travel to cities that don't have many RM listed, and charge higher prices, to take advantage of locals? I found a guy in rural Wisconsin with 2 reviews, and he wanted 1K for 2 hours. I pointed out how high that was, and he told me to "take it or leave it." I laughed at him and left it.

That's what he did.

I did, but for some reason, they wouldn't print my comment. I did warn RentMen, and now I can say "I told you so" to them. An escort whose first review is 1-star on RM is pretty much finished. As for everyone else - they could have found this warning had they participated in this forum. EDIT: I believe it was because I lost access to the old email I had attached to FB. If they sent me an email to confirm my review, I can't receive it anymore because I lost access to that account. I'll try again with my new email.

Well that idiot got his first RM review, and it's 1 star. At least that should keep him out of trouble for awhile.

It looks like escorts get hired for companionship all the time. However, I don't think RM/FB is the place to advertise if that's the only thing you're offering. A guy in Chicago put out an RM ad for that a few years ago. The ad was gone after one month with no reviews.

I dated an escort back when I was, say, 22 or 23. However, this was years before I began to hire; we just hit it off after meeting in public. I had a sugar daddy in college, so I didn't see anything wrong with it. Unfortunately, my censorious "friends" did care (including 2 guys who had a sugar daddy at the time!), and ostracized me from the local (and small) gay community until we broke up (EDIT: this was a small town, decades ago; first job out of college). I later dumped all those "friends." I regret not dumping them earlier, and I was very glad when one of them ended up in prison for stealing money meant for AIDS education.

That's why I deleted the post.... This is not to say I don't expect stings for male prostitution to increase. Those sheriffs running for office in MAGAland need to show off.

This. I personally find at-home visits to be safer. Probably because anyone walking into my condo walks directly in front of a clearly visible security camera. If a provider is well-reviewed and such, and has a large number of such votes, it's probably safe. But yes - for Christ's sake - hide your wallet and stuff. And keep at least your phone handy - most would run the moment you dial 911. I would also keep a means of defense nearby, but don't let the provider see it, or they might get freaked out.

My nearby dispensary recommends a hybrid strain for arousal, vaped. EDIT: This works for me; only need a couple puffs. I wouldn't recommend any more if you want to come. The first time I ever tried an edible (10 mg), I got so horny I called my closest regular over right afterwards, and had a good time. However, when I tried to repeat, it didn't work, but just made me sleepy. Edibles are too unreliable in dosage, compounded with the fact they last waaay too long.

"I" and "O" are right next to each other on QWERTY.

3 ounces! That's 1.5 shot glasses of ice cream.

Nice name. If he's part of the NES generation (and his age suggests it), I might guess the source.

I had a regular fake an orgasm once. I told him he was sweet, but he didn't need to.

There are too many ways to hack an account to narrow it down. Most likely your username \password got leaked from a site where you use the same EDIT or similar password. Always use different and hard passwords on any financial account.

I had non English speakers who had helpers, but I don't think they were managed. If a escort fed me the same line as the OP, I'd smile outwardly and dismiss it as bullshit inwardly. It sounds like an attempt to exaggerate his popularity and intimidate. I've heard BS like that before, from escorts who proved untrustworthy.

It's been said many times. A good regular will grandfather in your rate. A bad one won't (personal experience). That being said, a client in this situation should be generous in other matters, like tips or more regular patronage.

I've met a "bisexual" escort who kept talking to himself about his "girlfriend" even when I had him in my mouth. He kept moaning, "Oh man, I really wish I was with a woman." I thought it was both creepy and insulting, and couldn't get rid of him quickly enough.

I understand the agreement, but I'll never understand why clients "require" that a provider comes. There's too many factors beyond everyone's control. I'd say offer a decent tip if they come. Nobody would agree to an hour of work where they might not get paid.