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He just...stood there. I guess he could have been a stand in for Mitch. Like I mentioned, it was so awkward. He just literally stood there. I had no idea what to do with him and politely asked if everything was still okay and we were still good with what was discussed.

Gone. I've tried three different browsers (and in private mode). It's gone.

Well, it appears that he has just deleted his rent.men profile (in the last 90 minutes) so I feel there's nothing that can be done. The honest advice you offered is sobering, and while I'd like to think I did my due diligence, I suppose I really didn't and now I'm out the cash and (figuratively and literally) embarrassed myself with sharing this experience.

I'm sitting here in a San Francisco hotel room feeling really awful about the experience I just had with one of the areas' best reviewed (on this site!) providers. I was coming into town to do some networking and had wanted to reach out to a provider that had received consistently good reviews on this forum. I felt confident in reaching out to the and was anticipating the meet-up when it all just felt like a nails-on-the-chalkboard experience. The provider was a prolific texter. He asked for "stats" and; while not uncomfortable, provided him with pictures and details as far as what I wanted to have happened, and to my delight, there were no issues in our back-and-forth's. Upon coming into town, he asked to move the date to accommodate going back to Los Angeles for Thanksgiving. Luckily, I had that flexibility and; recognizing that scheduling around a holiday can be awkward, was good with that. Then, I started to receive what I deem the "flake texts". Reconfirming the time and place a multiple of three times, Asking for confirmation each time. I'm sympathetic to that - some of the best providers on this forum have attested to flakes, and I've always lived up to my commitments and his reputation was solid, so I always responded positively that it was still correct, still a yes. He asked if he could do a workout in before and maybe 5 minutes late at tops. Again, this was not unreasonable and I said yes. Time comes, he arrives, on-time and polite. We go back to my hotel room and then...everything just stops. He's not verbal. Not emotional. He just STANDS THERE. It really threw me for a loop. Not that it couldn't happen with any escort, (or course it can and it did) but this one had SO.MANY.GOOD.REVIEWS.ON.THIS.SITE. I couldn't do anything to engage him for 10 minutes, arouse him, get him to talk. He was as stiff as the 100+ year old wainscotting around the room. I was so mortified I asked if I could take a pause and have a glass of water and he said nothing. With his back turned to me for a good two minutes, I just gave-up. Told him it was me (it so wasn't! And I wanted it so bad!) gave him the full rate for 1 hour after 15 minutes and he left in 30 seconds Sad story over, but now the dilemma: for a provider so well thought of on this forum and so well regarded, do I have any recourse? It was like trying to arouse an Easter Island monolith. He never offered once to do something, anything; or, make me comfortable or even try anything. It feels like I'm challenging the reputation of someone who has been exceptionally well received on these forums over years and I feel like it might come out petty if I were to say anything here (Or; god forbid, rent.men) Do we let sleeping dogs lie after $350 for 15 minutes; or, should we be honest and say something (in the appropriate time/place)?

Sigh. Agreed!

Hello, Curious as to whether anyone has any insights into Derrick9 listed on Friendboy.Pro https://friendboy.pro/boys/Derrick9 The brief review at the bottom doesn't inspire a lot of confidence; but, would be open to any insights. Cheers!

I met Ryan Musclegod two weeks ago for a session and had a great time, had no issues. Would highly recommend, PM if you like!

Bonjour! This is most likely a longshot request; but, I'm curious if anyone has any insights or experience with escorts in Quebec City, especially these two fetching gentleman: Hot Guy VincentXXZ: https://friendboy.pro/boys/vincentXxz BlackAttack12: http://www.canadianmale.com/profile_details.asp?id=11226 I did reverse image searches on both - The latter was taken from Trey Stallion Flirt for Free, albeit the details were in sync. The former, I'm unable to find any links to his images or reviews either. Might be too good to be true for both. Though any info is always appreciated!

Bonjour! This is most likely a longshot request; but, I'm curious if anyone has any insights or experience with escorts in Quebec City, especially these two fetching gentleman: Hot Guy VincentXXZ: https://friendboy.pro/boys/vincentXxz BlackAttack12: http://www.canadianmale.com/profile_details.asp?id=11226 I did reverse image searches on both - The latter was taken from Trey Stallion Flirt for Free, albeit the details were in sync. The former, I'm unable to find any links to his images or reviews either. Might be too good to be true for both. Though any info is always appreciated!

Good catch! Just saw this ad and went here first to see if there was any information. Glad I did (seemed too good to be true).

Really appreciate the comments from both the community and a few of the escorts. I thought I might provide an update. About a week and a half after I left San Diego, I received an e-mail from him. He apologized for not responding, indicating that he had family in town and wanted to be discreet. Although we had agreed on meeting up during the same time, he must have realized he couldn't host a client and a family member at the same time and laid low. He inquired if I was coming back to San Diego soon. As I don't know when I'll be back in town for another project, I couldn't offer him a satisfactory response and he never replied in kind. I agree with a lot of the advice here - written, clear and concise requests are best, and - in advance. It's to be expected that this isn't something you can call BBB with if you're unsatisfied with the service; however, with the right approach, it may be more productive

Wow. I knew this forum would come through with polite, concise, and appropriate commentary. I'm inclined to text (a low risk activity); however, none of the gent's indicated that that was their preferred method (in fact, there was no method at all - I'm always happy to follow their instructions for the right guy) It's probably bad luck. I've had a really long streak since a weekend in Toronto in May when two RM escorts gave me a lackluster time and I became gunshy. Thought I might be able to get back into the swing of things here... I'll get back on the horse.....

He's actually in Las Vegas right now. Wrong Timing. I appreciate the feedback from everyone. I might have been too earnest in my approach.

Forgive the headline - I don't mean to be dramatic, but I'm down in San Diego for work this week and reached out to three different escorts on RM about a potential meetup within the last week, and I got: One e-mail response back with a request if I could host, which I agreed to and then he never responded by e-mail or phone after a week of attempts; One who was upset I called him on his RM phone number while he was driving and asked to call back when he wasn't driving (my clairvoyance is not as keen as his); and One who was annoyed by phone when I asked about what he specialized in/liked to do. (Ambiguous ad, hot photos. Wanted more info...) It seems like for two months its been like this - reach out and ask and get rejected as if you're trying to date them. Maybe its the 'gentleman' I've been interested in hiring; however, it just seems counterintuitive that one would advertise their services and not reciprocate with courteous interest or helpfulness. Maybe its' just the reality of the "business" in that it operates in a grey area and we get-what-we-can-get. I don't know. Maybe it's just bad luck. Would any of the seasoned commentators be willing to offer some commentary or sage advice? I'm flummoxed at this point.