DrownedBoy

I can't believe he charges that much. I saw his ad when he visited Chicago, but decided against contacting him because I only saw one photo that attracted me. If I had heard his prices, I would have texted a quick "nm."

Agreed. As a client, I want to get the deal agreed to as soon as possible, then just wait for the session. If I knew rates, payment method, general location, etc. ahead of time, it would save both parties a lot of wasted time. But in the U.S., that's not likely to happen soon. Also, the process works both ways. I've contacted way too many escorts who drag negotiations out and cancel for BS reasons (3 in one day recently). My time is valuable too, and with my skills, I could be using it to make more money.

Wrong Mario. I specifically said it wasn't this guy.

Yeah. I'd at least insist on Strip Monopoly.

Keep up with the news. Or @Pensant's remark. https://www.google.com/url?q=https://worldcrunch.com/lgbtq-plus/bolsonaro-lgbtq-violence&sa=U&ved=2ahUKEwi27cKY9L37AhULFjQIHfDHDocQFnoECAkQAg&usg=AOvVaw38UNZCBhaJtxtCzB8Hawx2

My policy is that you have an appointment when you agree on place, time, fee, and payment method. I ask, "Do we have a deal?" If they say yes, I consider it a verbal contract. From that point on, the deal cannot be changed without the consent of both parties. I often get new escorts who try to add conditions at the last moment (they assume I'm horny and lack self control). That's a violation of contract, and I usually cancel the appointment if they try that. Since they broke a contract, they are not entitled to a cancellation fee. Please note what was said earlier. When the provider texted you a "?," the polite thing would have been to tell him why you hadn't finalized a deal. If you don't like getting ghosted by providers, don't ghost them.

What a crime! There's none of his world-famous kissing in there at all!

There has got to be some privacy law being violated here. EDIT: By allowing facial recognition based on the open internet to trigger a law enforcement check.

As a client, I'm always polite, even when escorts get agitated. One of these days, though, I wanted to make a list of all the mean things I've thought but would never dare say...

I keep thinking of that scene from The Name of the Rose, when the monk paid a peasant woman a cow's heart for a lay.

Unfortunately, that's usually the case. Professors and managers don't wait for people to finish therapy; they want them productive right now!I Hence all the medications.

Yup. The Lydians invented currency, and almost immediately afterwards, escorting spread quickly. That's a hint.

Question - how common is Zelle usage among you gentlemen? And do you consider it as secure? (from what I've read, it is the most secure, and my preferred app for regular fees)

Point of order - in most major American cities (including NYC/Chicago/LA), reforms have been carried out that make prostitution legal, but hiring an escort is still a crime. So, in probably the majority of American hires, the client is the only party liable to any criminal penalties or publicity.

This is ironic. I'm also meeting more pushy providers who say they want to meet before letting me give them _any_ details. There are times when I feel I'm watching their economic interest more than they are (the younger guys). I wanted to post the following list on my RM profile and tell providers we need to agree to all these items or both of us could end up unhappy: 1. Are we close enough to travel to meet each other? 2. Who's going where? Is there an Uber or hotel involved? 3. What time are we meeting, and how punctual are we going to be? 4. How is the payment being made (this is one I have to consistently remind them about, with most of them using apps! unbelievable!!!!!!!) 5. Are you willing to do what I'm asking you to do? EDIT: I spell out all details before any deal is made My RM profile already makes clear that making last-minute changes to a done deal is going to result in cancellation. That's standard contract law. Doesn't matter if it involves money, Uber, or photos. Some kids think standard practice just doesn't apply to them...

I'll try that.

It seems to me like a lot of EDIT new and young ENDEDIT escorts don't understand how important it is to be punctual. If you're a businessman at, say, a convention or staying at a hotel, you have precise hours when you can discreetly receive escorts. If you sell your time but can't accommodate someone's schedule, you may be in the wrong business.

No....it's what happens when I reach out to new providers to find new talent. On those unusual days when I plan to hire, but all my regulars are out of town. Luckily, I maintain a strict separation between business and libido. Later that day, I booked a guy, and at the last moment, he demanded I send a photo of myself. He found out about that separation the expensive way.

I'm sorry, but this has happened to me 3 times already. I use my Google Translator to communicate with the other person. They don't speak English, but I'm translating. For some reason, they never are able to find the Uber, even if I send screenshots of the car and map, etc., and call the driver ahead of time. Is this some kind of sport? It only hurts me, and does nothing to benefit the a@@holes.

I actually have noticed that. The funny thing is - many escorts are still asking massively inflated prices, but when I turn them down, they start getting desperate. However, I wouldn't suggest removing your number from your ad. Another client and I tried to contact a Chicagoan who did that, and we both got blue balled: .

You get this in the U.S. too. This phenomenon has been established through sociological research of providers in the U.S. Many younger people believe that black men are too "stingy," and that they're too demanding when they hire someone. So many U.S. providers avoid black men as well. (the last time a provider asked me what my ethnicity was, I refused, and when he insisted, I cancelled - I'm not black, but also not racist)

I'm noticing that a lot too lately. In the past few months, I had 2 guys cancel on me. To be fair, though, they were both really young and others later told me they were unreliable. As for doing same day - I just wish that if there are escorts who are ready to come "right now," they indicate it in their RM ad. I've texted waaaaay too many people with "Available" on their ad, who never bother answer (or do so a day or 2 late). I really can't find escorts who are that ready anymore. So if they don't want to schedule ahead of time, and they don't want to come when called, what do you do?

Well he's on my block list. Finally gives me his number, we reach a deal and a time days in advance, then a few hours beforehand he says he can't make it. Either he plays games or is horrible with time management. Either way, a lot less likely to trust ads without phone numbers.

Yup. Watch out for inconvenient last-minute price hikes because he "didn't realize" something. That cut off any chance of us ever meeting.

Oh man. I refer to the regular I hire the most as my "main regular" and "my first choice," and he seems to like that. Different places, different relationships. Absolutely. Some guys are looking for relationships with younger men. Others just want house boys. Neither is wrong, as long as both parties are mentally and psychologically prepared.