DrownedBoy

Nah. Just honest with providers. 😆

Yup. Escorts who seem sweet as sugar during hourly sessions can turn into real bitches over a whole weekend. Honestly, the only way I'd try to vacation with an escort is if I went with some real friends, and just had the escort on speed dial to get me off once a day. I have little to nothing in common with the men I hire, so I feel no need to spend my social time with them.

I've largely given up on overnights after 2 experiences. First, my sex drive simply isn't what it used to be, mainly because of stress from my job (I'm usually on call, meaning I can get called anytime into a 24 hour emergency meeting). I'm only able to come once during a 8-12 hour session. Second, although I'd really like to fall asleep in a bodybuilder's arms, I end up feeling too hot and withdrawing to my side\bed. Finally, the things that interest me go right over the heads of most escorts, and there's only so much conversation you can have about the weather.

When I've had threesomes, I only worked with RM clients who either advertised as a couple, or with providers whose ad said they "had a friend" to come with for extra. In such situations, I've never paid more than the standard fee for 2 escorts, and they always gave me a discount since they didn't need to make any special arrangements.

Wouldn't be surprised. He would have to travel overseas to gay-sexually repressed places like Singapore to find enough people willing to blow 500 an hour for such a limited session.

Yup. Scammers playing off people's sympathy for the Ukraine. A problem not confined to RM. Too bad. If I were rich, I'd sponsor Kiriki, under the condition that his job would be "my house boy..."

Yup. My first serious boyfriend was also into BDSM, and had permissive parents who didn't believe in corporal punishment. I came from a military family with the exact opposite upbringing philosophy.

Make sure to provide an opportunity for him to do things on his own. You probably dont want to spend every hour with him, and he definitely doesn't.

Never let them know you're an American. In Europe, South America, or anywhere. A gentleman who posts here has a lot of advice and stories about that.

Don't worry. There's plenty of Rent-A-Rasta's out there.

One of the benefits of having a high credit rating - all you have to do is show the policy was slightly unclear and you get your way. And I already told Hyatt I'd never be doing business with them again. That's the kind of person I am. As a young kid, my parents got me a subscription to the junior Consumer Reports magazine. I learned all these tricks before I was 10, long before I even considered having a credit card. In this world, having a near perfect credit score can be very powerful.

Client perspective here. I booked a hotel room several weeks ago. I had to cancel when I caught Covid, and although it was a week in advance, they refused a refund. Apparently they fluctuate their prices, and do that if someone ever books in advance. So I just called my credit card company and blocked my payment....

No reviews and has been on RM less than 2 weeks. Keep little boys like that in the oven longer. They need more seasoning.

That guy has 161 reviews. He doesn't need to treat new customers nice.

Sorry, but this is America, where we worry about "propriety" instead of helping people. I had a childhood friend and heroin addict who died at 25, and everyone still talks about his "heart attack."

I haven't. I kicked a narcissistic brat out after he started making fun of my Asperger's. And since I'm tit-for-tat, as he was leaving, I reminded him the chances of him making a living as a male model was 0 %....

Quick response? That's a lot more than I usually get. 😁

I'm sorry to hear this. My grandmother died at 62 from the same causes. And from what I read online, I'm afraid the chances of surviving MOF have remained unchanged since she passed.

I've calculated my inflation losses at a little above 16% from 2019 to today. I have a very long standing and trusted regular, and I unilaterally gave him a "raise" because he buys gas for his own car. It's still a good deal. However, for everyone else (except for professional bodybuilders), I stick to my 300/500 limit. I've noticed that standard recurring theme - young escorts with no experience asking waaay too much. I know all prices have gone up, but my salary hasn't changed. That shrinks my demand for hiring. Plus, it seems that many newbies are coming into the market (albeit with a lot to learn) due to the coming recession. That increases the supply. Unfortunately, economics doesn't care if prices go up or if people are struggling. It's just supply and demand. And the first rule of life is to take care of you and yours first.

Rub it in....

I had a former regular I did this with, but only to clarify things he said during the last session. Mainly involving sexual enhancers.

Smart woman. I should have kept notes on the older gay men who got me when I was a twink. She has the kind of gray eminence power I can only dream of.

The only escorts who asked for my pic were young newbies who didn't know how to play the game. One complied with my wishes when I gave a short physical description (and I'm brutally honest). The other....I think he was high...which would have caused a cancellation anyway.

Only because older men tend to be more generous.

I'm never in Chicago when he is. Bummer, yet he still texts me when he visits. One day....