Philly50

Providers travel. Someone who is in NYC today could be in LA tomorrow.

And he changed it again to simply RayBear. https://rent.men/RayBear

I don't have any experience but I've been watching his ad and he just changed his name to RayModernBear. I think I like the new one better. https://rent.men/RayModernBear

That might be the reason. He wanted to check you out, and he couldn't. Just saying...

I suspect he's selective or very busy, as he never replied to my query.

For the record he's changed his name to ChrisBigDDD https://rent.men/ChrisBigDDD And he has one review which says, "Very accommodating and quick turnaround with response. Went with the flow and definitely matches profile. Really nice guy, chill vibes, has a roomba, Dyson, and dust buster. Would recommend." I mean anyone with a Roomba...

Sorry, but I just noticed this topic. Yes, I met up with him a few months ago. The good: We had a very nice time. Although he advertises as straight, he was much more interactive than I expected, to my surprise and delight. When I asked about that, he said he was about 75% straight. He was a pleasant chap and I felt comfortable with him. His pictures are accurate and his description is about right. The not so good: I had a difficult time setting up the appointment, not extremely so, but it took a few more back and forths than it should have, and he went quiet for a few days, so I thought he was a lost cause. I've heard from others that this is a common occurrence. I've also heard from at least one person that he ghosted him and never showed for the appointment. You may make the same inference from this that I have. On the other hand, he does have some good reviews on RM since then, so perhaps he has cleaned up his act. My guess is that if he shows up, he will provide a good hour's worth or more of fun.

Sad to say, that happens to me a fair bit, and it's not the provider's fault. You can only tell so much from an ad, and if the chemistry's not there, it's just not there.

I guess I should note that he seems to have finally settled on PuertoRicanTop. https://rent.men/PuertoRicanTop

That makes sense.

I see this all the time, even from providers who self-identify themselves incorrectly. I wonder why so many people get it wrong?

https://rent.men/JoeSCW JoeSCW just appeared with no advance warning in Philadelphia for a couple days. He's from Columbus and is relatively new with no reviews. Just pointing him out as I won't be able to take advantage of his brief visit.

DC does seem to be his base of operations but he hasn't remained in one place for very long since I've been watching him.

I see he was in Philly for about fifteen minutes, on his way to Florida. Guess I missed my chance. 🤪

Thanks for the update and the links.