peter831

Well clearly not paying the deposit was the right thing to do. Sorry about your bad experience!  

made a date yesterday, traveled 45 minutes on the NYC transit system to the provider's hotel. texted him i was in the lobby and was told i neeed to make a deposit. weird. and the deposit had to apple pay. no other options. lol. seriously. texted photos of the hotel lobby and was told i'm a time waster. sigh. 45 minute trip home. who's the time waster. then he had the nerve to text a tirade because i refused to pay the deposit. dear lord.and then a friend of his started texting me about how grotesque i am...a new low. 

Scheduled with him for tomorrow a few days ago, but he canceled this evening… Probably for the best. Hot pics, but I’m not sure about this one

Says he will be in Honolulu next week. Might take the plunge. Anyone have any intel? 

I wanted to also make another point.
I thought of all of the other professional  services where a provider would visit a client’s home: Barbers, manicurists, nannies, plumbers, electricians, private chefs. None of them separately ask their clients to arrange them Ubers, or to cover some related transportation cost. 
 
 

If I were an escort, instead of “nickel & diming” clients, I’d just factor it into my standard rate. 
 
The client wouldn’t think about it, I’d have my transportation covered, and we’d both have a seamless, smooth experience. 
 

I prefer nice clean transactions. Cash in big bills and no Uber. My tip will more than cover any transport. I’m not paying to make my life more complicated.

All premium members can fill in the written comments with their review.  The written reviews are hidden for users in the US, however, because of how RM decided to respond to US laws. Users in Canada can see them, for example.
You can view the written comments by using a proxy/VPN that lets you appear to be coming from outside the US.

RM Premium members also get to see the semi-private pictures (flame logo) and see a couple additional stats (forget which ones). Plus it may look good to some providers that you appear "serious" and legit. 

Some review-related discussions:
 
 
 

If the provider is relatively new, I don’t really care about the number of reviews. However, I would stay away from an established provider who started advertising several year’s ago but had only a few reviews. 

A few times now I have texted to set up an outcall and given my location at a central downtown hotel. The provider gives me their outcall rate and I say okay. Then they come back and want me to also arrange an Uber to and from. If you know where you are coming, then why not just give me your rate to reflect that and arrange your own? Don’t make it more complicated than it needs to be. 

There's a big difference between "unwilling" and "passive" participant. Unwilling (and unable) is intrugal to the definition of "rape."

Easy there with the judgement.

It’s not about having a sophisticated and experienced client base here and out there.  It about having a diverse community.  Jarrod seems to think that his business model is the only one that works.  

I think @Jarrod_Uncut sometimes feels he’s “educating” us. Unfortunately my feeling is that this forum represents a fairly sophisticated and experienced client base. Not sure a lot of minds are going to get educated/changed here. 🤷🏻‍♂️

I agree that there are many nice providers here.

If the attitude shown on this forum is any indication of how some escorts market themselves, it’s easy to see why clients decide not to hire after initial contact.

This is topic pops up every few months. We have many past threads covering the subject. Here are a couple to reference:
 

Why wasting his time?
I simply don't reply and if I'm interested a year later and he's back in town I will reply to his message and schedule a new appointment. 
I think you're overthinking this issue. 
Just don't reply or say you don't have the money to rehire now but maybe on a next trip. 

Moderator note…I think the question has been discussed and opinions stated. Let’s lock it down.

"Handsome" and "In Shape" are not mutually inclusive .  There are many handsome men that are out of shape. And there are many in shape men that are ugly.  This will undoubtedly confuse@marylander1940. (Tagged out of courtesy).
The problem lies within the title of this thread.  Some interpret the question as "Discounts for in shape AND good looking AND younger guys (must be all 3)" while others mean "Discounts for in shape OR good looking guys OR younger guys (need not be all 3)"

And as such, he is no doubt aware that there is no forum requirement to @ someone when you talk about them. And no, it is not a 'common courtesy' to do so. Rather it is rude to demand that people do so.

Same. You can tell the guys who really love sex and love doing it with a variety of people and don't have a ton of hang-ups. Some of them are strikingly beautiful but most are more average good looking or a specific type. I also find there's more variety in body type and fitness regimes. They tend to be active in sports or exercise that's mostly outside of the gym.