Hyattsville Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 I tried to search to find this topic and could not find one, so sorry if this is a repeat topic. On Rentmasseur there are types of massage offered: Therapeutic, Sensual, Erotic. I get Therapeutic, but I don't guess I understand the difference between sensual and erotic. Any guesses? Is there a blatant definition that I am missing somewhere? Thanks in advance. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Michael PhD Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 5 minutes ago, Hyattsville said: I tried to search to find this topic and could not find one, so sorry if this is a repeat topic. On Rentmasseur there are types of massage offered: Therapeutic, Sensual, Erotic. I get Therapeutic, but I don't guess I understand the difference between sensual and erotic. Any guesses? Is there a blatant definition that I am missing somewhere? Thanks in advance. The lines get blurred but I consider sensual to include more seductive touch. Mutual touch may be a part of it. Release +/-. Erotic often includes mutual touch and release and often more. Would be careful with expectations as these definitions are not universally accepted. + azdr0710, Looky_lou_boo, Marc in Calif and 2 others 1 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ azdr0710 Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 It's been debated since Christ was a child. Keep in mind that the ads are as masseurs, not full-on "escorts". marylander1940, + DrownedBoy, Hyattsville and 5 others 2 1 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Mrprofessional Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 If I had to guess I’d say: sensual means you’ll be touched and massaged everywhere… sometimes that also means getting a hand job or at least be invited to finish up yourself … erotic SHOULD mean that the masseur will get naked. From there, it totally depends. Usually there’s mutual touch. Depends on provider how much more you do from there. beware that some guys will say they offer “erotic” but then upcharge you during the session to remove their shorts/brief so it’s important to confirm the price for both being nude ahead of time. Marc in Calif and Capitano 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Simon Suraci Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 This is topic pops up every few months. We have many past threads covering the subject. Here are a couple to reference: + Vegas_Millennial, + azdr0710, peter831 and 2 others 2 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
56harrisond Posted November 20, 2023 Share Posted November 20, 2023 More threads are here too: + Vegas_Millennial, Simon Suraci, marylander1940 and 1 other 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Solution pubic_assistance Posted November 20, 2023 Solution Share Posted November 20, 2023 (edited) 8 hours ago, azdr0710 said: It's been debated since Christ was a child. Truly. How could you NOT find a thread about this ? There must be 100 of them. I agree with what @Michael PhDstated above. Sensual = titillating and the possibility of you leaving happy. Erotic = titillating and the expectation of you leaving happy. Not advertising as an escort means you shouldn't be expecting them to be providing escort services. I've found it most productive (if you're looking to get a truly erotic experience from a masseur) If you book an erotic session. Let them do their thing. Tip them generously and then engage in a man2man conversation afterwards about the possibility of adding other features to your next session. Doesn't hurt to ask. And a good tipper will always be given the opportunity to get to the very limits of what a provider is comfortable with, sexually. Edited November 20, 2023 by pubic_assistance spelling Medin, Simon Suraci, kyleham and 9 others 9 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Vegas_Millennial Posted November 23, 2023 Share Posted November 23, 2023 On 11/20/2023 at 6:57 AM, Hyattsville said: I tried to search to find this topic and could not find one, so sorry if this is a repeat topic. On Rentmasseur there are types of massage offered: Therapeutic, Sensual, Erotic. I get Therapeutic, but I don't guess I understand the difference between sensual and erotic. Any guesses? Is there a blatant definition that I am missing somewhere? Thanks in advance. Sensual may mean that extra senses are involved, such as the use of aromatherapy and music during the massage. Erotic may mean that someone might get aroused. Honestly... Don't put too much weight into the type of massage offered. I've had penetrative sex during a massage with "Therapeutic only" providers. On the other hand, I've had "Erotic" massages without any touching of the genitals and the masseur remained clothed. I still kept going back to that "Erotic" masseur because he gave a damn good therapeutic massage and his rate was reasonable. When I asked him outright for an "Erotic" massage during a repeat visit, he replied that it was Erotic because I was naked and he worked my glutes and thighs. So, yeah, I don't really pay attention to those categories. If I'm looking for guaranteed sex, I just hire an escort. Hyattsville, + azdr0710, Jamie21 and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Massageislife Posted November 25, 2023 Share Posted November 25, 2023 On 11/23/2023 at 1:18 PM, Vegas_Millennial said: Sensual may mean that extra senses are involved, such as the use of aromatherapy and music during the massage. Erotic may mean that someone might get aroused. Honestly... Don't put too much weight into the type of massage offered. I've had penetrative sex during a massage with "Therapeutic only" providers. On the other hand, I've had "Erotic" massages without any touching of the genitals and the masseur remained clothed. I still kept going back to that "Erotic" masseur because he gave a damn good therapeutic massage and his rate was reasonable. When I asked him outright for an "Erotic" massage during a repeat visit, he replied that it was Erotic because I was naked and he worked my glutes and thighs. So, yeah, I don't really pay attention to those categories. If I'm looking for guaranteed sex, I just hire an escort. I think one should definitely pay attention to how providers advertise. That’s a basic professional courtesy. This is not to say that many (most?) providers of private massage aren’t open to more intimacy than they advertise. Reading their Rentmasseur reviews or posts about them here, checking out the text and photos in their ads can give you additional information about the latitude of their services, but there’s no need to go to someone who is only offering therapeutic massage, if you want something more. There are lots of options out there. For what it’s worth—and from considerable personal experience—here’s how I see these categories: Therapeutic: massage intended for health, both physical and mental. These guys are often professionally trained and just prefer the independence of not working in a “legit” spa. The only consistent difference I have seen from the health spa experience is that there is, mercifully, no prudish draping. Sensual: massage focused on pleasure, without introducing more conventional aspects of sexual expression. These guys tend to be self-taught and have recognized a market for men who will pay for the luxury of being touched by another, usually handsome man. Erotic: massage incorporating the interactive and more explicitly sexual possibilities of massage. I would be disappointed if I hired someone for an erotic massage and he stayed fully clothed throughout, sent signals that he did not want me to touch him, and that HE was not available. I’ve had rare instances where this happened, but I just didn’t hire them again. + Mrprofessional and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gingeroz Posted November 29, 2023 Share Posted November 29, 2023 from far as what I know, sensual would include touching, kissing... but still main focus on massage. erotic would include at least oral / happy ending with open possibilty for anal Spiritualadvisor, pubic_assistance, Marc in Calif and 1 other 1 1 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FLJock Posted November 29, 2023 Share Posted November 29, 2023 16 hours ago, Gingeroz said: from far as what I know, sensual would include touching, kissing... but still main focus on massage. erotic would include at least oral / happy ending with open possibilty for anal If those are your expectations then I would make sure that both you and the masseur and clear on this before booking. Spiritualadvisor and Hyattsville 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Peter Eater Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 On 11/20/2023 at 7:19 AM, azdr0710 said: It's been debated since Christ was a child. Keep in mind that the ads are as masseurs, not full-on "escorts". Does Jesus do tantric? thomas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Becket Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 20 minutes ago, Peter Eater said: Does Jesus do tantric? He tried, but the clothing optional portion freaked him out. Hence the term: Jesus Freaks. thomas and Peter Eater 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamie21 Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 23 minutes ago, Peter Eater said: Does Jesus do tantric? Absolutely he does, he advertises a second cumming. Luv2play, Becket, Peter Eater and 8 others 1 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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Marc in Calif Posted March 28 Share Posted March 28 4 minutes ago, Becket said: Jesus is risen! I think you have to wait three more days for that! Johnrom, + Vegas_Millennial, Whippoorwill and 2 others 1 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ MakeMeCowboy Posted April 1 Share Posted April 1 When contacting a masseur that includes erotic in his offering, I ask "how is your pricing structured? Is this a nude massage? And what are your boundaries for the exotic part of the massage?" I find this to be a good way to get clarity. Peter Eater, Johnrom and Simon Suraci 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted April 1 Share Posted April 1 12 minutes ago, MakeMeCowboy said: ...what are your boundaries for the exotic part of the massage?" I find this to be a good way to get clarity. Except that a lot of "masseurs" are actually escorts who don't want to risk arrest so they aren't going to openly discuss sexual matters with a stranger. Johnrom, + MakeMeCowboy and thomas 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ DrownedBoy Posted April 1 Share Posted April 1 Why does it not surprise me that someone named @Becket is searching for Jesus. 😄 BACK TO TOPIC - How common is it for masseurs (not escorts) to be willing to French kiss? thomas, Whippoorwill and Becket 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted April 2 Share Posted April 2 51 minutes ago, DrownedBoy said: Why does it not surprise me that someone named @Becket is searching for Jesus. 😄 BACK TO TOPIC - How common is it for masseurs (not escorts) to be willing to French kiss? I’ve only experienced this a few times. Even a highly erotic massage usually doesn’t include making out. Your Man in Arlington, Lotus-eater, + DrownedBoy and 5 others 1 1 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mydavid Posted April 2 Share Posted April 2 3 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: Why does it not surprise me that someone named @Becket is searching for Jesus. 😄 BACK TO TOPIC - How common is it for masseurs (not escorts) to be willing to French kiss? A lot of escorts are not willing to French kiss either. + DrownedBoy and Simon Suraci 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ KensingtonHomo Posted April 2 Share Posted April 2 14 minutes ago, Mydavid said: A lot of escorts are not willing to French kiss either. Really? That hasn't been my experience. Peter Eater and Johnrom 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Socalguy Posted April 2 Share Posted April 2 36 minutes ago, Mydavid said: A lot of escorts are not willing to French kiss either. Wow, for a masseur, I wouldn't expect it but from an escort, that would be close to a deal breaker for me. 🙁 + DrownedBoy and Simon Suraci 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted April 2 Share Posted April 2 12 hours ago, DrownedBoy said: BACK TO TOPIC - How common is it for masseurs (not escorts) to be willing to French kiss? Not very. You seem to be mixing up the terminology. Most masseurs are getting you off at arms length because they ARE NOT escorts. Yes...some escorts hide behind the masseur moniker, but among actual masseurs, the erotic services differ specifically from escorts because they are NOT making-out or having full-on sex with you. Yes..there are exceptions to every rule...but you certainly shouldnt be EXPECTING escort services from a masseur. Simon Suraci, + DrownedBoy, uclablueyes and 3 others 2 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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