Michael PhD

I would also suggest doing some research. It’s not just about being a dick sucking enthusiast. I meet masseurs and the best ones are those that want to make the client happy, truly enjoy what they do, and have motivation more than just supporting their other costly passions as a driver for their pursuit of a career in this industry. Would be a bit naive (and disrespectful to the professionals out there) to think that being in this industry is straightforward or easy. 

I’ve experienced similar. I would clarify who wants the meeting. If he’s asking to meet for fun then be clear it’s not going to be a paid encounter. If you schedule then it should be paid. 
 
He is blurring the lines. He shouldn’t be soliciting you anyway. It’s a big red flag when a masseur starts messaging often and harassing me to meet. I always state that I will contact for appointments. If he starts communication, its no longer for a service but for a meet up outside the standard masseur client arrangement.