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I look at it as a downgrade anymore.  Apparently boyfriends spend more time watching Netflix and ordering DoorDash.  No thanks.

I have been with gay men (providers and not) who were mechanical in bed and bi guys who were great in bed and vice versa. 

When is the appointment? If you're giving 24 hours notice or more, there's nothing for them to get the claws out about. 

"Unfortunately my plans have changed and I won’t be able to make our appointment".
Period. Full stop.
Never complain, never explain. 

Yes hi! I'm ok! That first interaction wasn't great. It wasn't horrible, but it wasn't what I was looking for (or paying for!)
But I decided to try again with someone else a few weeks later and had an amazing time with that guy. I ended up seeing him several times.
I've hired a couple of people since I first posted and all but the first have been amazing. I'm meeting someone new tomorrow actually

It’s that piece of paper the person in front of you at the grocery store checkout line is taking an interminable amount of time writing on and holding up the line.

What’s a check?

YES!

I met him a couple of times about a year and half ago. Had a very good experience both times. 

I met him a couple of times about a year and half ago. Had a very good experience both times. 

Are traveler’s checks still a thing?.

Moderator note: so this thread isn’t about your worst experience….It’s about legal issues using/hiring from RentMen. Let’s keep it to that. Back on topic, and thanks!

I see no reason to publicly reply to any review of mine.
Privately, you thank someone.  Simple, kind, effective.
If you're writing a positive review just to get a visible pat on the head, that seems a little silly.

So when you approach an escort who says in his profile that he is into kissing, and tell him specifically that you are also interested in that, so you make the appointment only to find out that his idea of kissing is a lackluster dry kiss, you wonder why he didn't just say no to the appointment. This happened to a friend recently.

I respect that some don't want to kiss. I won't hire them though. Kissing is an essential part of the experience for me.
 
 

I think you have a great point here, @ThroatCummer . To me, no kissing is the absolute deal breaker in hiring. Furthermore, when I sense that my partner (paid or not paid) is not really enjoying kissing me, when he is not being truly responsive to my kissing, I totally lose interest and my dick goes limp. 

Also worth mentioning I hired a provider one time who had kissing listed on their ad as an "into" but when I was with them they informed me they don't. So I always ask and bring it up as I stated above. 

There's a lot of projection in posts like these. Speaking for myself, I am conventionally attractive, look ten years younger than my (middle) age, and am a lot of fun in and out of bed. But you - and a few others on here - seem to think most of us are hideous and obese.
A significant number of us hire, not because we can't find sex but because it's much more convenient. We're paying, so we don't have to spend hours on apps to schedule a hook-up. And "good looking" is incredibly subjective. I'd say 80 percent of the providers who get posted here by members looking for information, hold zero appeal for me. But most guys are salivating over them. 
Lastly, the "slavery" comment is just horrible. Not only do we have a history of chattel slavery in this country, but there are people all over the world, including the US, who are being trafficked to have sex against their will. And, they do not get paid. In fact, by definition slaves don't get paid. 
And that rimming is what set you off, feels very personal. It's a practice you find distasteful or abhorrent, so you cannot imagine someone enjoying it. So it's worse to you then "fuck me or I won't hire you", "let me fuck you or I won't hire you", "blow me or I won't hire you." Really, they're all the same. 
Lastly, no one should ever coerce a provider into doing something they are uncomfortable with. But if I hire someone who says they provide a particular service - and let's stipulate that everyone involved is pristinely hygienic - and they will not perform, I would let it go. But I also would not hire them again. 

I nominate Maus to compete in the rimming Olympics!  Got to enjoy his tongue and whole body twice a few weeks ago.
https://rentmen.eu/ShermanMaus
But by far, the best rim jobs I ever had were last summer in Vienna and Zurich.  I found it queer that almost every man I met in Europe insisted on using condoms but were willing to go to town on my ass with their tongue. 👅 🍑

Let the games begin!

If you really want something specific, I'd always suggest asking for it ahead of time.
This goes for a cumshot on an hourly gig.  It's not always a given.
As for staying the whole agreed time, yes.  There's no wiggle room on that.
If he came too soon, he can either reload or spend the next 30 minutes giving you a massage.

Only ONE man I’d spend $1,000 to be with…
First Name: Neiman
Last Name: Marcus
 

A regular client eats lots of fiber