peter831

I had a situation with another well reviewed provider on RM and on here. We had arranged an outcall a couple of days in advance and re-confirmed the day of. Then a couple of hours before the agreed time, he texts that he wants a deposit. I told him no and if he wanted a deposit he should have told me upfront so I could contact a different provider. That is total BS. 

15 minutes in with no prompting from me, he starts caressing my head with his big erection while I'm face down in the face cradle. Surprised, I lift up my head and he starts rubbing the head of his dick on my cheeks. When I go to put it in my mouth,  he recoils and says "ay papi,  that's extra!" I got up off the table,  dressed, and paid half what we agreed to thinking i was being generous since I wasn't even there half of the agreed to time.  He was pissed but so was I. 

Maybe I've been extremely lucky but I've been hiring for about 10 years and none of his has ever happened to me.  

Can't forget the RM premium member punch card. Get 10 escorts you get one free! 😄

Escorting is a very complicated business. Ever consider working in retail instead? 

I had a situation with another well reviewed provider on RM and on here. We had arranged an outcall a couple of days in advance and re-confirmed the day of. Then a couple of hours before the agreed time, he texts that he wants a deposit. I told him no and if he wanted a deposit he should have told me upfront so I could contact a different provider. That is total BS. 

Try inserting just the "tip" into the search bar.
Sometimes when it's too big, it can be difficult.  Inserting just the tip always works with me!  You can insert more later 😉

Update – we had a great time together, and although I wanted a second meeting before I left, our schedules no longer matched up.
We didn't engage in enough conversation, and I didn't think it necessary to talk about his social media.

I've seen escorts show up on social media quite a lot. Actually on Instagram a lot especially because my business works with LGBTQ venues and a lot of escorts in Denver are bartenders and/or dancers at LGBTQ venues around town. I also have certainly seen these guys IRL fairly often as well. But you just have to respect their privacy just as they respect yours. 

Taking this slightly off subject that's so white trash
 
Why would you cancel? Hire him! He possibly popped on your Instagram because you saved his number in your contacts. No big deal, it happens! 
 
 

I've had this happen, probably because the provider's phone is in my contacts.  I don't worry about it.

Most tasteful jewelry is super sexy 🔥 and bracelets and neck chains exude some personality . My pet peeve is the wearing of excessive cologne. Now that’s brutal. 

As long as the jewelry is tasteful and minimal I am ok with it. Hats, caps are a definite no.

I'm fine with providers wearing jewelry as long as it doesn't disrupt their work. However, if I can feel a ring on their finger during a massage or HJ, I would politely request they remove it for my comfort.

I've only had to cancel an appointment with very short notice once. I offered to pay the provider whatever cancellation fee he deemed appropriate, but he declined, which I found very gracious of him. When we eventually met a few days later, I made sure to give him a substantial tip.

The thing is - I often ask providers what their 1 and 2 hour rates are, and I cannot recall a single instance where they also gave me their 2-hour rate. They only give me their 1 hour rate. No idea what that always happens.

I honestly think it's not a bad idea to both plan ahead and have a couple back-up choices for a last minute meet. Unfortunately, I have had several instances of providers cancelling on me last minute after I had planned in advance to meet with them while travelling. In many cases, I found some very good providers as last minute replacements. 
My recommendation: Definitely plan ahead for that one guy you really have your eyes on and hopefully it'll work out. But look at maybe 2-3 other guys (particualrly if they have available now on) and just have them in mind in case you need to find a last-minute back up. 

I had a situation with another well reviewed provider on RM and on here. We had arranged an outcall a couple of days in advance and re-confirmed the day of. Then a couple of hours before the agreed time, he texts that he wants a deposit. I told him no and if he wanted a deposit he should have told me upfront so I could contact a different provider. That is total BS. 

What is this "lengthy chat" bullshit? I hope that was the second lesson you learned. Both parties here have the same mission: ask and answer a FEW questions and make an appointment.
A provider is not your friend, your bud, or your pal. Certainly not an initial hire. The time for chit chat is after loads are shot and you're eating up the end of the session laying bed. MAYBE, after the appointment has been made in the initial conversation.
Lenghty chat, ie. gaining your "confidence, "  is a time tested con man technique.
We repeatedly hear providers refer to chatty clients as time wasters, and say it's a red flag. This holds true in both sides of the equation. If a provider engages in chat vs getting down to scheduling, it's a big red flag, and I'm moving on!

Sorry but it’s gone. You fell for his talk. There’s lots of debate on here about deposits, so I won’t add to it but I will say that if you’re given a ‘family crisis’ type story to justify sending money then the best and only sensible thing to do is say “I hope things work out for you” and then end the conversation and find a more professional provider. 

Updating - he was fantastic. Has no concept of time. Enjoyed him 2 nights 

HungArabic. A player and scam artist.

I'm sure it wasn't the scammer first scam.
Should we start naming names and posting the pics they're using as a warning?