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Even the Available Now light on the profile can be misleading about a provider's true receptiveness to a late-night first-timer in a town known for boozy/impulsive tourists. Plan ahead and book your witching-hour rendezvous in the afternoon, maybe?

The ensemble's Ave Maria by Franz Biebl is one of my Christmas must-listens - I hope they included it in the program!

Not alone, I imagine. It's not generally intended as a pejorative, but your specific relationship to the word as a father can certainly take the sexy out of it. You’re right to ask to not be called that. If you have a preferred similar generic term like "buddy" "boss" or "coach" that fits your vibe, let him know. Unless you're also a coach or have workers reporting to you...

Combine? He doesn't mention knowledge of either cooking or math.

His show was not really on my radar, but he was indeed handsome and had a hot dad vibe, though that was an expression that had to wait for the 21st C. RIP, Gil.

He clearly is fond of traveling. I'd send him packing.

Me and the huzz are lucky. We have, in Boomer fashion, done considerably better than our Deression-era parents. Both our retirements happened with COVID in 2020 - more or less on schedule. We have no car loans, nor student loan debt, and have paid off our remodeled residence in a SoCA location we love, so no moving. There's investment property rental income, SS and modest annuity drawdowns. We're not 'lifestyle' types, nor lavish spenders or big travelers. Neither of us had full corporate pension plans, and only recently have dabbled in individual stocks. If together we liquidated everything to go be off the grid, (which would not ever be a thing) we'd be taxed on over 4M I imagine. Keeps the nieces and nephews interested. And there's no such thing as extra money until you're dead.

Is the city's renaissance boosting the gay population? Old-home renovations always draw us clever types for the bargain and challenge. In the late 1980's I worked in Detroit a couple of times, and guys I worked with would go to Windsor. Great (full-nude) gay strip club w full dance floor. RJ's? JR's? Women allowed in w/men, but could not get privates- definitely few there. Crowd mostly men, all ages, singles and groups, but lots of cozy dim nooks for table dances. Dancers each got a down to-g-string on-stage number, then a second for full monty. Between sets they mingled and headed to guys who asked when tipping their stage strip from the beer rail. Exchange rate was in locals' favor, they loved US cash. We loved that they loved it. Private dances had customer seated (at table w group, or solo) with dancer on a small platform so you were eye-to....uh, erm...eye. Socks held the tips. I did not spend as much as some colleagues. If LA had a similar venue, I probably would have eventually. Glad my timing was right over 40y in passing thru Windsor, NY, and SF to enjoy the live ecdysiasts of the day. Not the same on screen.

This is the sticky part of the business. We are prone as a species to allow the heart to get bcc'd on pleasure. And sometimes, it responds with its own take. If you suspect that you are prone to asymmetrical attraction, and still need to hire, avoid repeats. Every date is a first date for both of you. And one-time dates can be really fun when you (as client) get to determine what the time will be spent doing. You’re hiring a not-your-boyfriend Boyfriend Experience. If what you're really wanting is a Boyfriend, don't waste time hiring. Get out there with real people- volunteer, take a class, join a gay group thing, alongside using romance apps. Be clear in your goal. Message your heart directly, or block it from the cc list on all the Pleasure threads relating to sex.

This makes me so sad. I worked on a gala performance honoring his father in 2016 and got a moment backstage to thank him for his Marriage Equality advocacy. An artist and mensch who will be missed.

If you have his confirmation that what you're hiring is an escort service with massage, 400 is within range. Remember that 'erotic massage' has many interpretations. If a handsome face is essential for you, pass.

Thank you for validating my choice never to host.

So, the higher rate for outcall doesn't cover the provider's transportation? Delivered Things are ordered at the same price per unit they would be for pickup (incall) Shipping is the sole upcharge and is usually the same flat$ for the entire country. If your service region is large, raise the outcall rate. Or indicate clearly in the ad that the purchaser pays courier shipping, no coupons, no gift wrap, and no returns.

STI's are still the primary risk of sex with a stranger. Which do I want - mad spontaneity, or responsibly planning to protect myself and initiating the related conversation?

The Poor Jarrod! show has had more reboots than House Hunters

Like other forms of intimate contact, if you don't like it, you don't like it. No one should make you do it. I was turned off to it for years. But not every moment of pleasure-giving has to be reciprocal. Personally I'm always in favor of it both ways if that's how it plays out, and have (high) hygiene standards I both meet and expect - when hiring, I express my interest ahead for him to be clean. It's fine to not want it. I get that. And someday, the right someone, in the right setting at the right time might change your mind, like someone did mine. If not, you'll enjoy sex all the same! Chacon a sons goût!

Real Tantric practice is not passive for the client. It demands equal focus and connectivity on the part of both partners. Emphasis often on breathing and conscious muscle isolations. If the provider cannot verbalize exactly what your participation consists of, ("just lie there and relax") it's probably not Tantra.

Value is hardly a relevant term of comparison with regard to providers. Remember, the single most important element in the combo service you're looking for is actually chemistry. It is priceless. And you never know where you're going to find it. But I hope you do!

So, Jarrod - Your availability paragraph on your profile takes too long to read, and contains conflicting generalities - this contributes to the number of guys contacting you when you're not available. Truth is, you're extremely appealing, and have chosen a line of work that can maximize return on assets if your location is consistent. But, for whatever reason, you're choosing to remain outside of large markets, you list available places that are rarely destinations for potential clients. We've been telling you for years that you need to make a choice: A) Pick a high-density city as homebase for current services. Yes, bigger cities are more $$ but there's also way more flextime jobs to help pay rent til the local clients find you. B) Find other income source - perhaps another, more mainstream travel-friendly independent contractor use for your male fineness and people skills. Let 2026 be your year of positive change! 😘

I'd consider two factors: 1) In-person service oriented work experience for entry level men have been in decline for 20 years - online shopping and delivery dining has diminished 1-1 service jobs as stores and restaurants go out of business. The good-looking guys that used to learn service work while in college - waiting tables, front-desking, selling clothes or electronics, are finding other means of paying rent. Being of service is simply not in their vocabulary of money-earning behaviors. 2) Chemistry. Weigh them as you will.

His table is seasonal? No matter - it appears that the rest of the equipment is ready to go year round.

It's probably the best sitcom that began as a vehicle for a stand up comic. The rest of the cast made Ray a better actor pretty quick, and the casting/writing/direction all remained strong til the end. I gotta watch this!

Before you gift a massage at a specific place, you should experience their service yourself so you can personally attest to the quality of what you're giving. If you cannot book your own massage at the location to check it out, instead, choose a gift certificate from a luxury legit spa - if bodywork too costly, they can get a facial or mani-pedi - or send something nice from Total Wine or Harry & David's. Massage of any sort is a personal service, and the recipient won't be able to not take it personally if you're wrong about the place.

I'm grateful for having had family to join us for a meal that turned out better than expected, with all but two items prepared before last night, making for a much less stressful day. Plus almost-summer weather to enjoy outdoors before dinner. Hope everyone found time to experience some gratitude today, for whatever things may be right within your life 🥂Cheers!

Unintended consequences as bank gets more of your money: Insurance rates? Borrowing against home equity? Outstanding debt ratio lowering credit rating? If a loan is going to outlive me and cost me along the way, I'd just as soon rent.