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My 40y career included doing custom piece-work. Deposits were standard in the field. You want what I make? I have to acquire the often expensive materials unique to producing the custom object you're buying. The deposit I required for first-timers, and for all larger orders, went immediately into material goods, with the balance on delivery being compensation for my labor. Sex workers do not need to acquire unique materials to provide me service. (I bring my own unique ...materials when the negotiated service includes them) I'm a client who only hires providers hosting for incalls, and I pay cash, and cash only. Deposit required = Move on

Somehow this reminds me of an old joke from my childhood about a monkey and the pig with a cork in his butthole...

Driving oneself, with disposable income for hiring transportation to eliminate the possibility of DUI, is a choice made deliberately. In that vein, I would expect further arrests to follow for driving without a valid license.

Lots of providers as you describe, easy drive from Ktown - Hollywood, Weho, Silverlake, Echo Park, DTLA. Too many to get specific feedback here, as there is such variety in muscle guys. Choose by photos/text in ads, and come back requesting 411 on one or two who get your attention.

https://centurydayspa.com Based solely on their website, it looks like a lovely place to receive Korean-style spa services. Look through this topic for threads about other LA men's spas offering same, perhaps more.

There's an awful lot about this that doesn't line up with the usual MO of kidnappers wanting money. (They could have gotten the money) More like a mob job to send a warning to a journalist sniffing too close to the Capo?

The question includes ever which makes it impossible to answer. If I were you, I'd take the offer as a compliment, rather than a commitment.

Talent. I know it when I see it.

Maybe others can post links, but short answer, this topic has discussed before. There was this one provider a couple years back who used to post long screeds about this topic - Jared Something (I think) I recall later reading somewhere that he finally left the sexwork business due to lack of interest, and returned to Customer Service at the DMV.

Finally watched Sinners without full awareness of the supernatural elements. I'm not a fan of stories of the undead and vampires. But, it had a point of view here, at least. Allegory for the established white money machine consuming African culture and leaving husks of the souls poured into it, in its place? Not sure, just an opinion. 1932 is around the time that white people began spending money on black entertainment in clubs, recordings, and the people profiting expanded more and than the artistic sources. (Think all the venues where only whites could be patrons) Loved the scoring and cinematography. Oscar material? I'm the last to guess that.

@Tactile Daddy is definitely worth your time and money.

I have a feeling that some of the configurations shown might be better suited to coach/athlete role play at escort $$ rather than any sort of productive massage session. Some might possibly do damage if not perfectly managed by the provider. And as a client, if I'm workin' that hard, it's gonna be part of PT covered by Medicare... 😅

A baseball cap worn during sex recalls the porn produced for the silver screen half a century ago. Trade-coding. Aesthetically I don't object, but a billed cap seems meant to keep someone/something at a distance. So not on my clock, thank you.

I found little to compare between the two series aside from really attractive leading men.

In LA, where there's no fully nude gay bar nor show, I'm surprised so few escorts promote their abilities in showing off while taking it off. Lots of clients love to be entertained at. I'd pay a full service fee just for watching for a hour - with touching tipped, even.

We finally had the time to watch this. I admit to being surprised by the level of acting work done by the two stars. And, like every series with a perfect ending, I expect they'll ruin the effect with more episodes.

For an extra fee, you can be surprised by an intruder at an uncomfortable moment not of your choosing. 😲

I'm old school, aka old. I'm not paying him for the sex, I'm paying him to leave. The same day.

That same production came to LA and I was backstage on it. Original Sonya, and Cassandra, Hyde-Pierce directed, another fine actor played Vanya, Christine Ebersole as Masha and David Hull as Spike. We had to (got to!) extend for a week. A happy experience in every way. Hilarious play!

If everything in this quote is 100% sincere on his part, is it what you want? Is he in your area, and if not, how do you feel about distance? Active military - would that potentially throw a wrench into your life if his orders include deployment overseas?

"years ago, even decades" should sufficiently answer the main question. 😂 I think all the hookup apps available now are still doing what they set out to do. Things change, but hours spent from search to climax, the freebies are shorter and more regular. In a real life chance meeting, at a party, at a bar, a job, etc we got to sum each other up, maybe speak, have a laugh. A spark. Everything online is antithetical to that. I was paired and past cruising before everything went on line. Bulletin boards were it. The hobby is more recent for me, and very limited because I understand what I want. No strings. Many of us who successfully cruised for hookups in person, (decades ago) are far less appealing decades later, when represented by the harshness of ones and zeros now. When a treat is needed, hiring automatically runs everything I have through a flattering filter for me. Always adds a touch of green.

A person can develop... Support your smaller local theatres!

No different than the first date in high school, college, or anytime - no matter the gender - the sum total of the human you're going to spend time with won't begin to be revealed until you first spend time together, and likely not even then. The fit is best judged in context. Here, we are talking about financial exchange - money for time - and the context for most clients is a goal of a gratifying climax within an agreed duration of time. Parameters of "fit" are largely about sexual chemistry and casual companionship - language, sense of humor, kindness. Since neither of parties is shopping for a relationship, it seems reasonable that the lack of that potential allows us all to say, "yeah, I'd like another" or simply move on with no hurt feelings.

Good for you for taking matters into your own ... hands! So few providers out there with 11" insertable length, you might be better served in your solo exercises (it's what they are) adding girth rather than length. You don't have to spend a dime. Work a finger or two in alongside the toy if the goal is really enjoying what's attached to a circulatory system. Enjoy the sensation of your hole on your fingertips - always lubed, fingernails against the toy. This will help you have confidence that your muscles truly can accommodate larger-than-average without pain, which helps with the relaxation necessary to love it every time. No, go fuck yourself 😘😘

If paying for bodywork at a nice day spa, part of your fee goes toward all the spa-menities you may or may not use, operational overhead, mgmt, and a legal department. Casual nudity in wet areas may occur, but modesty is the rule, and your assigned masseur will absolutely be fully dressed, and you'll absolutely remain draped on the table and your groin area will not be engaged with in any way. At the spa I've used (Burke Williams), a 90m Swedish/DT combo is $345+tip. The worker gets the tip plus their hourly wage, and possibly access to health insurance. All workers have been educated, licensed by the state, and certified to the facility's standards for health and safety (and liability) But the actual level of talent and the tableside manner are individual. As a client, if you don't care about steam/sauna/jacuzzi🦠and definitely want a gay man attending, and are agnostic about draping, you can put more of your dollars directly into his pocket, and get (if you do research) a trained, skilled 90m massage of similar caliber. And it might even take place in your home, or at least closer to it. If you love the mystery of will he/won't he, there is a chance. And you might even save a few bucks.