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People change. Often, their work improves with the life experience that change brings. Sometimes not.

50 years ago, I was a total snack. When I tip, I tip generously because I appreciate that it takes a little extra effort to eat me now.

When it comes to the personal relationships we speak of here, at age 70, I automatically exclude anyone with the immutable characteristic of being under 35. It would be natural for a 30yr old to take offense. Just as it's natural for me to steer clear of Reddit.

Men and Cars are both at their best when they have plush seats.

Whatever your ideal boyfriend experience winds up being, the most important part for clients to remember is that, for the provider, it's a booked session.

When in college in the 70's, my summers were spent working on shows in a theme park- one of the best shows had a medley of sung TV themes, from Rawhide to Beverly Hillbillies to Good Times. Layers of memories from childhood-teens-adulthood, in a format no longer part of home entertainment.

I think you'd have better luck if you each booked a solo session a day apart when testing a new provider. Tip well. Once he knows and likes you individually as clients, and you both agree that he's good, you might have more luck coming to an arrangement.

In addition to their price increase, Netflix is dumping a big chunk of their library, which does piss me off. But right now, it's the only original content streamer NOT owned by a megalomaniac tech bro billionaire.

👏👏 This is why I most often hire the combo - the individuals who have massage training, experience, and setup, but also advertise as escort on a separate site. If sensual is double anyway, I'd rather hire at escort rate and be clear about my goals for our session, and how I would like the time to be used. If what I need is massage to address a physiological problem, I've occasionally hired masseurs and been clear about what their role won't include - they can remain clothed (I am not (draping is up to him) and I won't be seeking MT or HE. I still tip well if his bodywork skill is up to par.

I only hire masseurs who host. A guy with training, good looks and nice mentions here neglected to inform me that the apt where he lived and did his work was brand new. To him. He had just finished moving in. Fresh paint smell! 🥴Almost nothing aside from the kitchen was unpacked. He spent an inordinate amount of my time looking for everything but the table. Oil, sheets, towels, soap for the shower - none of it at hand. The massage was meh and I did not tip. He offered a freebie repeat, but, yeah...no.

I do love the monikers some guys give themselves - his especially because it sounds like a it might have been part of a lyric cut from "Thank Goodness" at the top of the second act of Wicked. 💚

I think a twice-yearly shot a great option for people who have difficulty with a daily regimen. How much that demographic overlaps with patients who can afford it, I don't know. I have been poz and in treatment of one sort or another for 37yrs. I am healthy because of compliance with the protocol for treatment. I would also likely be as compliant daily with prevention. Some guys struggle with that sort of disciplined self-care when young (women using birth control develop it better) and don't have a relative understanding of the actual disease that Prep prevents, because early treatment and prevention (condoms) have worked in removing it from the everyday lives of the gay community. The urgency is gone, but prevention is still best. Eventually, insurers will cover the shots, but until then, Prep is within reach for most everyone who's sexually active, and I raise a toast of gratitude to the dedicated scientists and doctors (and patients) who have gotten us this far!!

Like great actors, great providers have it - that secret thing that makes you feel like you're enjoying quality time with someone. Their secret is theirs, though, and even if it could be put into words, they're unlikely to divulge.

If I differentiate between "massage time" and "play time" it would strike me that nipples themselves are not muscles, and the attention specifically paid to them as I understand it here, falls more under "play".

Honest negotiations between client and provider, about the provider's release, begin with the client hiring an escort as opposed to a masseur.

Private-Eye Camp. Which I prefer in smaller doses.

As you haven't provided your age to give us context, the best general advice is to look for threads on hygiene, and keep expectations low. I hope you have a great experience!

Sad to say it, but the nude male strip-n-tip ship has sailed.

If personal safety is the issue, the pic can be requested once the appt is booked. Requested ahead, it's obviously used as an "I don't feel like it" filter. I live in a large market, have never been asked, but have decent recent face shot to send. Happy to move on to another provider if I don't feel like it.

AMW Actor/Model/Waiter (or actor-model-whatever) 😂

Is there an advantage to perusing and contacting via Grindr or other hookup app as opposed to official escort/masseur sites? It seems that the delineation between provider/fb would be a lot murkier to navigate, and that comparison among contenders for business by potential clients would be harder. Just curious.

I'm one of the long term (40y) survivors of HIV, thanks to clinical trials getting me through until the protease inhibitors became available. But why have I never had any opportunistic infections? I dunno. Genes? Having been nursed as an infant? Minimal exposure in transmission, just one time with someone who was exposed just one time? Some of us who came out in the 80's are lucky to have emerged only with survivor's guilt, and although we took safe sex precautions and gave 95% of our sexual activity to video rentals, the virus caught up enough to change the course of our lives, without running us six feet under as the end game. "I'm older than I ever intended to be" –– Roxy Hart, CHICAGO

The best moment of the best video of his career:

Suggest spending a day volunteering together - ask if there's any causes or organizations he thinks might benefit from your time. Always be prepared to offer with one you support as well. You'll have something in common to discuss afterwards, guaranteed.

I watched Pons' review of it, and take it as one person's opinion. His technical knowledge of legit singing is absolutely solid, and his personal taste is ...personal. As for T&O the opera, it truly is an amazing piece of literature, written for a time of longer attention spans and smaller opera houses. Casting it for all tastes in the 21st C is impossible. Singers with the sturdy vocal chops can't pass as young, and compelling singing actors seem to be missing one quality or another in the voice dept. If doing the entire score live in one evening, I say, best make it a concert with projections, and cast strictly for voice and musicality. It's a shit-ton of (often boring) foreplay before reaching the climax that is the Liebestod, the 11:00 number that starts at 12:30. A tough sell.