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Oh good - glad to get another rec Huzz said Stephen King liked it, and we know that he doesn’t suffer trite. Getting into her whole relationship with Mother...

On Netflix. Anybody watching The Queen’s Gambit? Quirky interesting show, set against the world of competitive chess - a world I know nothing about, though I imagine several here do. Quiet intense performances so far, but I’m only in Ep 3...

I’ve only had one potential hire ask. I told him I didn’t have one, but I could send him a link to a courtroom artist’s sketch. Never heard back ??

My imaginary boyfriend waxed his taint this afternoon, did the dinner dishes, just walked the dog, has set up the massage table, and will be dessert when he gets back from dropping off his ballot.

It may be one part of the coupling scenario that demands planned spontaneity. I never get so much as a legit spa massage without being sparkling clean, myself.

I know y’all live for these ... “real” women But I think the damage already done by Reality TV is something we’re stuck with forever That’s why I would punch Andy Cohen square in the nose if we met. But as he was laying down with a bag of peas on his face, I would totally eat his ass. Then throw a glass of wine at...somebody

Slightly veering here- there are spas that have a wet area with a table to combine bodyscrub, shower, massage. I could really get into that. Anybody experience this? Probably not in US The incall masseur who can build a home version... I’d wind up broke.

My clothes dryer vents too, but at least the lint looks different each time ?

@Jarrod_Uncut You have difficulty getting along with 80-90% of the population?? Nope, don’t buy it. You are already capable of faking sexual attraction for a couple of hours.There are lots of jobs out there that do not require getting along... just “faking” being civil and respectful. You’ve turned to this forum for advice (I’d hate to think you just come here to whine) and lots have offered it. Validation? You’ve gotten lots of that as well. Pity? Sorry, Love. ps Have you thought about studying acting?

No one is Total Anything... I wasn’t really into it when I was younger Now eating ass is a must, and I’m a Total Bottom Maybe it’s just an acquired taste, like port or truffles or bold cheese... I think a number of guys probably had one bad experience with an asshole (who didn’t know how to clean his asshole...) I’d say they don’t know what they’re missing, but maybe they do.

For initial reach out, I text: “Hey GuyWiththisname2, Rando here. saw your ad on (Sitename) today.. Drawn to your profile ..I liked ...your chill attitude. ...your look, your type really works for me ...that your experience with bodywork is exactly what I need ,,,your ink and it is worth a closer look (Be Brief specific sincere complimentary) It’s now (day and time). Serious inquiry from Me: GWM 44, 5’9 178) Looking for (X) minutes of your time at (my/your) place, Later today, Thur, 6pm til late or anytime tomorrow Fri. Please reply if you have an opening. Thx. //////////// Do not use any profanity or mention sex organs or acts. He’ll have to initiate that. No mention of fee. Mention name of day you seek, along with reference of vague today tomorrow weekend. Give major intersection nearby, neighborhood or landmark if he’s coming to you. Disclose your own stats as you like but don’t lie. If he does 2 different service levels for massage and play, and is on 2 sites, address him by the right name, whichever he uses for the service you want. If one moniker he’ll ask re massage or play. Know ahead which you want and duration offered. If who/what/when is insufficient, ask for brief voice convo for a couple clarifications. //////////// Ask for who/what /when. Top him, top you, just oral, massage with mutual touch and release, getting tied up, whatever needs to be clear you speak on the phone - this is your chance to determine if it’s a complete no-go. Agree on rate, duration - repeat it back to him. So, you set it up, confirm date start and end time, address via text. Don’t use dollar sign just digits for fee. Don’t do endless back and forth with more needs or limits or emojis. Always be prepared to end with Thx for your time, we’ll maybe get another opportunity soon IF YOU MUST CANCEL do so ASAP Don’t flake.

His RM profile is absent “stripping” and I’m like There’s an opportunity wasted... a dancer body for sure

OMG You’re living a working actor’s life, Jarrod. Consider: Sometimes you are wanted desperately, sometimes you are invisible. Costs of living go up, work is unsteady, and often requires an additional source of income to make it possible (I hear some even do sexwork... ) Most working actors are not stars - timing and the market you are in determines whether or not the career can sustain you now, let alone to middle age or beyond, and often relocation is not an option. It takes money to keep appearance and stamina up to form. Working in live theatre, you never see friends and family, as you work evenings and weekends. If you land a good Equity contract for 8 shows a week, it may be only for a couple months, perhaps in a city you hate. Or a really long run in a shitty role in a play you dislike, or you share a dressing-room with a pig... or an ex.. or both Critics are everywhere, brutal to the ego. Flakes and users abound. Promises get made and broken, and you must put lots of work and time into your own promotion. Benefits? They’re based on how often you work, if they exist at all. If better-paying on-camera work is offered while you are under contract in a play, hard choices crop up. Don’t forget an agent gets 10-15% of every buck you make!! A personal life of any sort is often tricky to balance along side the work - so many conflicts of presence and demand of focus. Why do actors go through all that - I mean, why act at all? Because they must. The process feeds their soul. The rush of getting it right (or wrong..) inspires them for the next performance, and all of it forms bonds with fellow cast and crew, to feel an intense kinship of purpose in telling a story for a short time. That’s the payoff. Is being a sex-worker what you must do to feed your soul? Find your payoff, Jarrod. You deserve it, and it may involve doing something else for income.

I used Kleenex mostly with an occasional sock.

Fuck your friend, Joe. No, really. Fuck him hard and get real time reporting.. And maybe someday you’ll bottom yourself, and get to see what all the fuss is about.

Not desensitize really - you can tolerate more in each sort of play, though - a harder pinch, or one with more of the base being pulled, or stronger twisting and slapping. I am not a hardwired nipple guy but the sensations are a great add to foreplay, even alone.

I did not get any of the Sports Genes - not speed, nor eye/hand coordination with balls (I’ve gotten better at that! ) not brute strength, nor shower room dominance. I have always had long legs, so balance was often a struggle with a higher center of gravity, and TBH any sort of competitive streak in me is short lived. (I can’t stand to watch reality competition shows, not even DragRace) It’s almost impossible to imagine living a child-to-grownup life in America without devotion to some sport, isn’t it? Not when you got all the Imagination Genes.

When they completely fill the suckers you’re using, time to move up a size. If you wear them several hours a day you’ll move up faster. (I like to tease mine and pull them with suckers on, but for limited time.) The arc of growth depends on your natural size and genetics. Be aware that this is pulling fluid (clear to milky, not blood) into the sponge like tissue from external vacuum pressure, and it can collect and find the shortest sway out, leading you to believe you can make milk. Skin on the nipple can get dry or chapped - pace yourself. It’s a form of blistering that can impede the pleasure factor. The degree of permanence is related to the amount of scar tissue built up inside the nipple through this process, and of course is the origin of the expression “tough titties”

I’d risk an hour in a (ventilated) place, spaced say 8’ apart with a well shaped show-off who’s in love with showing... If I add disco lights and some disinfectant, it might take me back to The Gaiety...????

My eyes are almost always closed during a massage, so handsome as a requirement is saved for the more personal services I might hire. Like tax preparation.

For my Huzz, my own teeth, 2 great pups and the ability to pay cash

Time changes these things in us. I rarely got fucked without coming, for like, ever. But in the last few years in spite of the enjoyment of the penetration it sometimes doesn’t align. I’ve known my share+ of great synchronicity in this department over the years, and am grateful that my past “enthusiasm” for it didn’t kill me. Yet.

I’m neither slender nor agile, but I can support my own legs and find being on my back allows for some movement to one side or another - really like the eye contact too

I wonder if the “luck of the draw” randomness is related to the viral load of initial exposure? Impossible to know how much virus is in the contagious material, unless it’s from a known patient to caregiver. Before masks and distancing you could be around the same carrier person for days as their load was increasing, neither of you knowing, which may be part of the explosive nature of spread. It’s being detected earlier now thanks to testing so we can at least protect others by isolating for a period once we know. Scary to see rapid rises in Europe right now! I tested neg a couple months ago, have been staying at home, and will get tested again soon to protect a friend fighting cancer who I can see masked and distanced if I’m negative.

These get repackaged for men’s sexual pleasure but are the same things expectant mothers might use in preparation for nursing Supple Nips Various sizes. Lubricate all around the nipple for good seal. Definitely increases sensitivity - size mostly temporary unless used a lot Into largest size